Ep. 83 - Can I Love a Cat I Don't Like? 🐱❤️

Ep. 83 - Can I Love a Cat I Don't Like? 🐱❤️

Have you ever loved a cat but not liked them very much? Many cat parents feel guilty admitting it, but some cats come with behaviors that test our patience every day. In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/], I share the story of a cat who was passed from one home to another and struggled to feel secure. Over time, I learned that what looked like frustrating behavior wasn't really his personality at all. It was a survival strategy from a cat who didn't feel safe. What You'll Learn in this Cat Podcast Episode 🐾 Why difficult cat behaviors are not always personality traits 🐾 How insecurity and fear can affect a cat's actions 🐾 Why patience can help anxious cats relax 🐾 How compassion changed my relationship with a challenging cat 🐾 The lesson this cat taught me about unconditional love Timestamps & Chapters 00:00 – Have you ever loved a cat but not liked them?  00:44 – Meeting the "divorce cat"  01:31 – Why his behaviors drove me crazy  02:26 – What changed over time  03:09 – Behavior versus personality  04:00 – The lesson he taught me about compassion This is where I’ve gathered everything that supports me and my cats: https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/ [https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/] About the Diary of a Cat Mom Podcast Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] is a quiet, personal cat podcast created by Dagmar Gatell [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about-the-host/], sharing real moments, emotions, and experiences from life with cats [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about/]. This space is meant for connection, comfort, and companionship. Everything shared comes from lived experience as a cat mom and is not intended as professional veterinary advice. Every cat is unique, and for health concerns, it’s always best to consult your trusted veterinarian. Most of all, please remember:  You’re not alone on this journey. We’re learning, loving, and growing together — one paw print at a time.

Ep. 82 - Why Does My Cat Nurse On a Blanket? 🐱🧸

When one of my rescue cats started suckling on blankets, my ears, and even my nose, I thought it was simply a cute kitten habit. Later I learned that this common feline behavior often has deeper emotional roots connected to comfort, security, and early life experiences. In this Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] podcast episode, I share his rescue story and what he taught me about understanding unusual cat behaviors with compassion. What You'll Learn In This Cat Podcast Episode * Why some cats suckle on blankets and soft object * How early separation from their mother may influence this behavior * Why suckling and kneading often happen together * When blanket suckling is usually harmless * What one rescue cat taught me about comfort and security Timestamps & Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:04 Does Your Cat Suckle on Blankets Too? 00:32 My Cat's Rescue Story 01:24 Why He Suckled on Blankets 02:02 Why Cats Suckle and Knead 02:36 What My Rescue Cat Taught Me 02:55 Gentle Takeaway 03:07 Closing Thoughts This is where I’ve gathered everything that supports me and my cats: https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/ [https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/] About the Diary of a Cat Mom Podcast Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] is a quiet, personal cat podcast created by Dagmar Gatell [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about-the-host/], sharing real moments, emotions, and experiences from life with cats [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about/]. This space is meant for connection, comfort, and companionship. Everything shared comes from lived experience as a cat mom and is not intended as professional veterinary advice. Every cat is unique, and for health concerns, it’s always best to consult your trusted veterinarian. Most of all, please remember:  You’re not alone on this journey. We’re learning, loving, and growing together — one paw print at a time.

Ep. 81 - Can I Dance With My Cat? 💃🐾

I love dancing. My cats make me happy. Naturally, I thought combining the two would be a wonderful idea. So every now and then, I would pick up one of my cats, hold them close, and dance around the room. In my mind, it was a beautiful bonding moment. My cats disagreed. In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/], I share what happened when I tried dancing with my cats, what I learned from researching the topic, and why respecting our cats' individual preferences may be one of the greatest acts of love we can offer. What You'll Learn in this Cat Podcast Episode 🐾 Whether cats actually enjoy being danced with 🐾 Signs your cat may be uncomfortable while being held 🐾 Why every cat has different boundaries and preferences 🐾 How to create positive bonding moments with your cat 🐾 A gentle reminder that love means listening to our cats too Timestamps & Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:15 Why I Started Dancing With My Cats 00:55 My Cats Had Other Opinions 01:40 What The Research Says 02:20 The Cat Gets A Vote 02:55 Respecting Your Cat's Preferences 03:15 Gentle Takeaway & Closing This is where I’ve gathered everything that supports me and my cats: https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/ [https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/] About the Diary of a Cat Mom Podcast Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] is a quiet, personal cat podcast created by Dagmar Gatell [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about-the-host/], sharing real moments, emotions, and experiences from life with cats [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about/]. This space is meant for connection, comfort, and companionship. Everything shared comes from lived experience as a cat mom and is not intended as professional veterinary advice. Every cat is unique, and for health concerns, it’s always best to consult your trusted veterinarian. Most of all, please remember:  You’re not alone on this journey. We’re learning, loving, and growing together — one paw print at a time.

Ep. 80 - Why Does My Cat Pin His Ears Back? 🐱❤️

Have you ever been petting your cat and everything seems perfectly fine... until suddenly his ears go back? In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/], I share what I discovered after noticing one of my senior cats pinning his ears back during cuddle sessions. At first, I worried something was wrong. But after researching cat body language, I learned that pinned-back ears can be an important sign that a cat is feeling overstimulated. Join me as we explore what your cat may be trying to tell you when those ears suddenly change position and how recognizing the signal can strengthen the bond between you and your feline companion. What You'll Learn in this Cat Podcast Episode 🐾 What pinned-back ears can mean in cats 🐾 How to recognize petting overstimulation 🐾 The difference between fear, pain, and overstimulation signals 🐾 Why ear position should never be interpreted by itself 🐾 How respecting your cat's boundaries builds trust Timestamp & Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:32 My little weaky and his pinned-back ears 01:22 When petting starts to change 02:08 Could I be overstimulating him? 02:49 What pinned-back ears actually mean 03:35 Signs your cat has had enough 04:13 When ear pinning may signal illness or pain 04:42 Learning to respect my cat's boundaries This is where I’ve gathered everything that supports me and my cats: https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/ [https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/] About the Diary of a Cat Mom Podcast Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] is a quiet, personal cat podcast created by Dagmar Gatell [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about-the-host/], sharing real moments, emotions, and experiences from life with cats [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about/]. This space is meant for connection, comfort, and companionship. Everything shared comes from lived experience as a cat mom and is not intended as professional veterinary advice. Every cat is unique, and for health concerns, it’s always best to consult your trusted veterinarian. Most of all, please remember:  You’re not alone on this journey. We’re learning, loving, and growing together — one paw print at a time.

Ep. 79 - Why Is My Cat Touching My Face With His Paw? 🐱❤️

Have you ever felt your cat gently touch your cheek with his paw? Not a scratch. Not a swat. Just a soft little tap that feels incredibly intentional. In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/], I share the heartwarming story of one of my cats who gently pets my face whenever I'm standing near his cat tree. Curious about what this behavior meant, I researched it and discovered it may be one of the sweetest signs of affection cats can show. We explore scent marking, trust, bonding, kittenhood memories, and why your cat may be telling you, "You're my person." If your cat has ever touched your face, forehead-butted you, or gently reached out just to be close, this episode is for you. What You'll Learn in this Cat Podcast Episode 🐾 Why cats gently touch human faces with their paws 🐾 The surprising role scent glands play in feline bonding 🐾 How kittenhood influences affectionate adult cat behavior 🐾 What your cat may be communicating through gentle paw touches 🐾 Why this behavior is often a sign of trust and emotional connection Timestamps & YouTube Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:18 The gentle paw on my cheek 01:12 Why I became curious 01:49 What the research revealed 02:25 "You're my person" 03:03 The connection to kittenhood 03:37 Why cats choose our faces 04:02 A beautiful reminder of trust and love This is where I’ve gathered everything that supports me and my cats: https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/ [https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/] About the Diary of a Cat Mom Podcast Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] is a quiet, personal cat podcast created by Dagmar Gatell [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about-the-host/], sharing real moments, emotions, and experiences from life with cats [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about/]. This space is meant for connection, comfort, and companionship. Everything shared comes from lived experience as a cat mom and is not intended as professional veterinary advice. Every cat is unique, and for health concerns, it’s always best to consult your trusted veterinarian. Most of all, please remember:  You’re not alone on this journey. We’re learning, loving, and growing together — one paw print at a time.