Getting Kinky, with Phylystyne

BDSM 122 - The Hero's Journey

For those unfamiliar with The Hero's Journey, it is the structure that almost all myth, legend and fiction follows. And it applies to many things in life, but BDSM has its own particular take on it, for both Dom and sub. What is the Hero's Journey, and how do we learn from it in BDSM? In other episodes we will come back to this, and look at ways the steps result in failure, and what to do about it, but for this episode, let's be positive and think of it as a successful journey... Got a comment, question or idea? Let Me know! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2573410/fan_mail/new]

BDSM 121 - It's Just A Number

Father Time does a number on us all, so how do we remain positive kinksters as we get older, and bodies don't look, work or feel like they used to? Kink, sex and emotion are all affected by time and age, so navigating that for a positive outcome becomes the challenge. Got a comment, question or idea? Let Me know! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2573410/fan_mail/new]

BDSM 120 - The Big O

Orgasms. Aren't they fun? Now, what happens when we surrender control of them to someone else? In this episode we explore orgasm control in many of its forms, from edging to forced orgasms, chastity to squirting. And look at why surrender of control is so potent, for both Dom and sub. Got a comment, question or idea? Let Me know! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2573410/fan_mail/new]

BDSM 119 - Rough Stuff

Consensual non-consent. Fun, challenging, potentially emotionally devastating, what we are doing here is playing with fear and power. In any other circumstances the law would be getting involved, but we are making this consensual, so what does that mean? How does it work? Why do we do it? Got a comment, question or idea? Let Me know! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2573410/fan_mail/new]

BDSM 118 - Hitty Things!

Oh, who doesn't love a bit of impact play? From over the knee spanking to Florentining floggers, hitty things offer a massive range of ways to explore, and for a Dom to leave their mark... Got a comment, question or idea? Let Me know! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2573410/fan_mail/new]