Love is Weird

Straight Talk | Do they even like me? | Hinge date as special guest

Online dating apps are pretty much shit and people (mostly men IMO) have forgotten the art of dating. I had a Hinge date on as the guest for a new segment called "Straight Talk" when I have on straight men to chat about things that we as women WANT to know. We had a date, I thought it was okay, he thought I essentially hated him. Listen in! Email me your questions to ask on the segment to loveissoweird@gmail.com

Could you be SOLO Poly?!

Are you SOLO Poly? What even is SOLO Poly? I would bet you align more with SOLO Poly than you might think! In this conversation, the hosts explore the concept of solo polyamory, discussing its definition, dynamics, and the importance of communication and consent in relationships. They delve into personal experiences, the role of therapy in self-discovery, and the impact of societal norms on relationship expectations. The discussion highlights the significance of emotional connections, boundaries, and prioritizing oneself in the context of polyamory. The conversation concludes with reflections on the future of relationships and the importance of community building Key takeaways * Solo polyamory emphasizes the importance of self-relationship. * Communication and transparency are crucial in polyamorous relationships. * Compersion is the joy felt when seeing others happy in their relationships. * Jealousy can stem from insecurity in relationships. * Consent is fundamental in navigating multiple relationships. * Therapy can aid in understanding one's desires and boundaries. * Prioritizing oneself is essential in any relationship. * Emotional connections can exist without physical intimacy. * Societal norms often dictate relationship structures and expectations. * Building a supportive community is vital for personal growth. * Exploring Solo Polyamory: A New Perspective * The Dynamics of Non-Monogamous Relationships * "Consent is a big thing." * "I want to prioritize myself." * "Friendships last a lifetime." Chapters 00:00Introduction to Solo Polyamory06:01The Myths and Realities of Polyamory11:57The Role of Communication in Polyamory18:03Navigating New Relationships23:45Authentic Connections in Relationships29:46Conclusion and Reflections on Polyamory36:04Navigating Love and Honesty44:05Boundaries and Emotional Safety53:44Communication in Relationships01:00:46Societal Views on Sexuality01:08:32Closing Thoughts on Relationships

I quit dating..

Summary In this conversation, Brittney Howard shares her candid thoughts on the challenges of modern dating, particularly the frustrations associated with dating apps and the emotional clutter that often accompanies them. She emphasizes the importance of self-love and personal growth before entering into relationships, advocating for a focus on individual happiness and independence. Brittney reflects on her experiences and the cyclical nature of dating, ultimately expressing a desire to embrace her independence and pursue personal interests rather than conforming to societal expectations of relationships. Takeaways Brittney expresses her love for what dating should be, contrasting it with her frustrations with modern dating. She highlights the cyclical nature of dating apps, where excitement quickly turns to disappointment. Brittney believes that personal organization and mental clarity are essential for successful dating. She emphasizes the importance of self-love as a prerequisite for loving others. Brittney shares her decision to step back from dating to focus on her personal growth and hobbies. She discusses the emotional toll of dating when one is not in the right headspace. Brittney advocates for setting boundaries and being authentic in relationships. She reflects on the need for compliments and emotional support in a relationship. Brittney expresses a desire to explore life independently without the complications of dating. She concludes with a commitment to personal interests and adventures over romantic pursuits. Chapters 00:00 Navigating Chaos: The Podcasting Experience 16:30 Decluttering Life: A Reflection on Space and Mind 19:45 Dating Dilemmas: The Impact of Personal Clutter 22:36 Self-Love and Relationships: The Foundation of Connection 23:56 The Power of Music and Emotion 23:56 Personal Journey and Artistic Growth Email us!! Loveissoweird@gmail.com IG: @loveisweirdpod FB: @loveisweirdpod TT: @podloveisweird

Ep 5: Thanks For Ghosting Me!

In this episode "Thanks for Ghosting Me", we dive into the surprising silver linings of being ghosted. From how this podcast journey came to life to real talk about love, therapy, and dating, we’re sharing personal stories that hit close to home. We’ll chat about mental health, setting boundaries, and how generational views shape relationships. Plus, we tackle topics like domestic violence, the rollercoaster of dating apps, and finding love after being ghosted. It’s all about navigating relationships and personal growth with honesty and heart—don’t miss it!

Ep 4: Breaking Up With A Girlfriend

In this episode, we’re exploring a tough but relatable topic: breaking up with a friend. My guest, Emily Vernon, founder of Vice Versa Strategy, shares her personal experiences with navigating friendship breakups, especially from the perspective of someone who tends to avoid conflict. As an avoidant to conflict, Emily opens up about how she handles the emotional challenges of ending friendships, and how her approach contrasts with mine—where I’m more direct and confrontational. Together, we discuss the complexities of setting boundaries, knowing when it’s time to let go, and how to handle these situations with care and respect. Later in the episode, Emily shares a bit about her work in digital marketing and how she helps entrepreneurs launch and grow their businesses through her agency, Vice Versa Strategy. Don’t miss this candid and insightful conversation on friendship, conflict, and personal growth. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Anecdote 00:52 The Importance of Aligning with Friends 02:30 Understanding Bids in Relationships/ 04:31 Breaking Up with a Friend/ 06:29 Guest Introduction: Emily Vernon/ 13:08 Navigating Friendships and Difficult Conversations 21:11 Reflecting on Toxic Friendships 21:51 The Burden of Guilt-Tripping Friends 23:12 Friendship Etiquette and Pet Peeves 23:51 Money Matters in Friendships 25:54 The Final Straw: Breaking Up with a Friend 30:40 Moving On and Finding Happiness 33:21 Exciting Travel Plans and New Beginnings 34:18 Wrapping Up and Final Thoughts John Gottman https://www.gottman.com/product/the-seven-principles-for-making-marriage-work/ [https://www.gottman.com/product/the-seven-principles-for-making-marriage-work/] 7 Principles for Making a Marriage Work Emily Vernon  About — Vice Versa [https://www.viceversastrategy.com/about] viceversastrategy.com [https://www.viceversastrategy.com/about] https://www.viceversastrategy.com › about [https://www.viceversastrategy.com/about] https://www.instagram.com/viceversastrategy/# [https://www.instagram.com/viceversastrategy/#] https://www.linkedin.com/in/emily-v-81627b5a [https://www.linkedin.com/in/emily-v-81627b5a]