S2 Episode 3: Both/And: Embracing Grief, Relief & Conflicting Emotions in Peer Support
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Both/And: Embracing Grief, Relief & Conflicting Emotions in Peer Support
Mastery Vibes: Peer Support Unleashed – Season 2, Episode 3
In this warm, honest, and deeply human conversation, Charlotte Armstrong and Robyn Priest sit down with Janelle Cancade-White to explore one of the most common yet rarely talked-about experiences in mental health and recovery: feeling two completely opposite emotions at the same time.
Together they unpack the “both/and” — grief and relief after losing a loved one (including stories of suicide and parental death), love and anger in family relationships, joy and sadness in parenting, and how we so often shame ourselves for not feeling “the right way.”
Robyn shares the peace she felt for her brother after his suicide in 2020 alongside her own profound loss. Janelle opens up about the mix of mourning and guilt-free relief after her father’s passing.
Charlotte brings her own powerful reflections as a mother, daughter, and partner, reminding us that it’s completely human to love someone fiercely while sometimes feeling anger or frustration in the moment — whether it’s toward a child, a spouse’s political views, or an aging parent. She gently encourages us to drop the shame and give ourselves permission to hold the full range of feelings without judgment.
They talk about why our brains crave black-and-white answers, how cognitive dissonance shows up in everyday life, and why giving ourselves (and others) permission to feel everything at once is one of the most powerful acts of self-compassion — and the very foundation of great peer support.
This episode is gentle, hopeful, and full of “me too” moments. It reminds us that we don’t have to choose one emotion over another, and that peer support (formal or just in our everyday friendships and families) creates the safest space to feel everything at once.
Whether you’re walking your own mental health or recovery journey, supporting someone through grief or family challenges, or working in the field, this conversation will give you permission, language, and tools to navigate the beautiful complexity of being human.
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