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Love Beyond Loss Keisha Sawyer on Grief, Spirituality, and What Makes Us Human

When tragedy strikes—the kind that shatters your world—what remains? In this profound conversation, we sit down with Keisha Sawyer, who lost her husband, son, and other family members in a car accident. Through the raw reality of grief, Keisha shares her journey toward healing, and the unexpected ways love transcends loss. This is a conversation about the deepest human experiences: the pain we endure, the connections that sustain us, and what it truly means to be human when everything changes. Holos Healing: 30 Days of Somatic Meditation: https://darci-burke.mykajabi.com/offers/FXbMNHJ7/checkout @safe2bseen @holos_heal @gettinlostisbeingfound

The Modern Dating Crisis: Why finding your person feels hard and what to do about it.

Dating right now feels exhausting—and it’s not just you. In this episode, we break down what’s actually happening beneath the surface of the modern dating world. Why connection feels harder. Why people are more guarded, disconnected, and unsure of how to build something real. This isn’t about blaming men or women. It’s about understanding the nervous system patterns, survival strategies, and identity loops that are shaping how we show up in love. We talk about: – Why your nervous system is choosing familiarity over connection – The hidden patterns keeping you stuck in the same dating cycles – The truth about attraction vs. safety – What actually creates depth, polarity, and lasting connection If you’re dating right now—or avoiding it altogether—this episode will change how you see everything. Because the problem isn’t dating. It’s the patterns you’re bringing into it. Holos Healing: 30 Days of Somatic Meditation: https://darci-burke.mykajabi.com/offers/FXbMNHJ7/checkout @safe2bseen @holos_heal @gettinlostisbeingfound

How your identity is shaping your reality

Your life isn’t random. It’s a reflection of who your body believes you are. In this episode, we break down how your identity is shaping your reality—whether you’re aware of it or not. We share how our lives didn’t change because we tried harder… they changed because we became different. We go into the neuroscience behind identity—how your brain filters reality, how your nervous system determines what feels safe to receive, and why lasting change requires more than mindset. And most importantly, we give you actionable steps to begin shifting your identity at the level where real transformation happens: in the body. Because you don’t create a new life by force. You create it by becoming the version of you who can hold it. Holos Healing: 30 Days of Somatic Meditation: https://darci-burke.mykajabi.com/offers/FXbMNHJ7/checkout @safe2bseen @holos_heal @gettinlostisbeingfound

Life You Didn’t Plan: Divorce, Becoming Again & Finding Safety in the Unknown

What happens when life doesn’t go the way you thought it would? In this conversation with Heather Speth, we open up about the kind of transitions that reshape you — divorce, long seasons of being alone, stepping into motherhood in your 40s, and the expansion of faith that comes when everything familiar falls away. This isn’t about “figuring it out.” It’s about becoming someone new inside the unknown. We talk about identity shifts, nervous system safety through massive life changes, and how to stay connected to yourself when life asks you to let go of everything you once knew. We also share the heart behind our book Grounded — and why helping children build inner safety and connection to the earth may be one of the most important things we can offer the next generation. If you’re in a season you didn’t choose… this one is for you. GROUNDED: Helping Kids Find Inner Safety and Earth-Rooted Connection - 50 Guided Lessons for Parents and Teachers https://a.co/d/0f2zrYI6 Own Your Rhythm: Unleash the power of feminine cycles. https://a.co/d/0fyqbRzs Moonlit Learning: Lunar Year Adventure For Kids https://a.co/d/06uuO9s6 Holos Healing: 30 Days of Somatic Meditation: https://darci-burke.mykajabi.com/offers/FXbMNHJ7/checkout @safe2bseen @holos_heal @gettinlostisbeingfound

The Survival Patterns That are blocking intimacy

Most people believe relationship problems are communication problems. But what if the real issue isn’t communication — it’s survival patterns wired into the nervous system? In this episode, Darci and Brandon explore the hidden nervous system adaptations that show up inside relationships — including defensiveness, emotional withdrawal, control, and self-abandonment. These behaviors are often labeled toxic or dysfunctional, but in reality they are protective strategies the body created to maintain connection and avoid pain. You’ll learn: • Why defensiveness is often a nervous system response to perceived threat • Why some people emotionally withdraw when conflict appears • How control develops as a strategy to avoid vulnerability • Why self-abandonment is one of the most common relational patterns • How these survival patterns block true intimacy When we understand the patterns running beneath our behavior, we stop blaming ourselves and our partners — and we start creating relationships built on safety, awareness, and repair. Because most people aren’t toxic. They’re patterned. And when those patterns become conscious, they can finally be rewired. Holos Healing: 30 Days of Somatic Meditation: https://darci-burke.mykajabi.com/offers/FXbMNHJ7/checkout @safe2bseen @holos_heal @gettinlostisbeingfound