The Modern V

TMV: Ep.8 Unapologetic Joy: Motherhood, Guilt & Taking Time for Yourself

In Episode 8 of The Modern V, Michelle and Leilani discuss Mother’s Day, emotional labor, and the sacrifices women quietly make every day. They explore the guilt many mothers and women feel when prioritizing themselves, why joy can feel “earned,” and what it means to embrace unapologetic joy without shame. A raw, honest conversation about boundaries, rest, motherhood, self-care, and reclaiming yourself. #Motherhood #SelfCare #EmotionalLabor #MentalHealth #TheModernV

TMV:Ep 7 Expert Episode with Anaam Hussain

In our first expert episode, Licensed Mental Health Counselor Anaam Hussain joins The Modern V to unpack the real stories shared this season through a trauma-informed lens. Together, we explore how abuse often unfolds subtly—disguised as love, control masked as care—and why so many women stay longer than they expected. Anaam breaks down common patterns like trauma bonding, gaslighting, and coercive control, while shedding light on the emotional and physiological impact these dynamics have on a woman’s nervous system and sense of self. She also highlights key red flags, the importance of naming the experience, and how survival responses like people-pleasing, hypervigilance, and emotional shutdown are not weaknesses—but adaptations. More on Anaam Hussain below: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/anaam-hussain-new-york-ny/406112

TMV:Ep 6 Survivor Stories: "Sonias" Story

This is The Modern V’s first anonymous submission. "Sonia" shares her story honestly and without filters. She did not grow up in chaos or dysfunction. She came from stability, which is why she did not recognize abuse when it appeared as passion, intensity, and being someone’s whole world. What began as her first love slowly turned into control, jealousy, manipulation, and fear. Sonia opens up about becoming a young mother, losing her independence, and staying longer than she wanted out of fear and survival. She shares the reality of leaving, the financial strain, the mom guilt, and how trauma followed her into work, dating, and her sense of self. Through therapy, faith, and the support of others, Sonia began to heal and rebuild her identity. This episode is about surviving with the tools you had, choosing peace, and leaving not only for yourself but for your children too. If this story feels familiar, you are not alone.

TMV: Ep. 5- Survivor Stories: Maria's Story

In this profoundly emotional episode of The Modern V Podcast, Maria bravely shares her truth after enduring 23 years in an abusive marriage marked by physical, mental, verbal, psychological, and financial abuse. What makes Maria’s story especially powerful is not only what she survived within her relationship, but what happened after she finally left.During her divorce, the legal system failed to protect her and her children. Maria was forced to leave the family home with her kids, while her abusive husband was allowed to remain. Despite everything she endured, the system ultimately failed to grant her what she was legally owed, leaving lasting emotional and financial consequences.You can hear the vulnerability in Maria’s voice as she reflects on how love, loyalty, and commitment can sometimes blur early red flags, keeping women trapped far longer than they ever imagined. Her story exposes the harsh reality many women face when institutions meant to protect them instead retraumatize them.This episode sheds light on the systemic gaps in divorce and family court laws, the long-term impact of abuse, and why survivor voices are critical to changing how women are treated—both in relationships and in the courtroom. ⚠️ Listener discretion advised: This episode discusses domestic abuse and trauma. Remember to follow us: https://www.instagram.com/themodernvpodcast

TMV: Ep. 4 - Survivor Stories: Elizabeth's Story

In this episode of The Modern V, Elizabeth shares her story of surviving narcissistic abuse, coercive control, and financial isolation while raising four children. She opens up about motherhood after trauma, the roadblocks she faced when the system failed to protect her, and the strength it took to rebuild from nothing. This honest conversation centers resilience, healing, and breaking generational cycles — offering hope to anyone navigating life after abuse.Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernvpodcast