online ‘debates’ should have died with him

romance has always been political | this podcast will fix me

in conversation with carina gaskell, a filipino independent romance author, about her debut 'second chance books', why reading and writing books will always be political, and what love means in a seemingly dying world ⭑.ᐟ follow carina at @carinagaskellwrites [https://www.instagram.com/carinagaskellwrites]. follow me on tiktok [https://www.tiktok.com/@girlbossinred] and instagram [https://www.instagram.com/nahndrea/]. this podcast will fix me is on substack [https://girlbossinred.substack.com/], youtube [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOzIhxvynaq2w_8_uZW4BVA], apple podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/this-podcast-will-fix-me/id1848607693], and spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/7iTng6PDt2aIDXJz6HE2eX?si=d9cb5ba1b80841e3&nd=1&dlsi=b0d18247de5b49e8]. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit girlbossinred.substack.com [https://girlbossinred.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

i have dinner with [celebrity and/or ai chatbot] after this | this podcast will fix me

cambridge’s word of the year [https://www.cambridge.org/news-and-insights/parasocial-is-cambridge-dictionary-word-of-the-year-2025] for 2025 is “parasocial,” which i thought was a little dated until i found that they expanded the definition to include AI. how bleak!!! and how absolutely timely. i guess it really is the word of the year. books and articles for further reading: celebrity culture girl on girl by sophie gilbert ⭑ everyone is a content creator now | dazed [https://www.dazeddigital.com/life-culture/article/68349/1/everyone-is-a-content-creator-now-influencers-social-media-instagram] ⭑ the life and deathlessness of our parasocial relationships | young star [https://philstarlife.com/self/252684-deathlessness-parasocial-relationships] AI chatbots lurking: how a person became a user by joanne mcneil ⭑ chatgpt use cases: harvard business review [https://hbr.org/2025/04/how-people-are-really-using-gen-ai-in-2025] | openai [https://openai.com/index/how-people-are-using-chatgpt/] ⭑ if we letting AI tell our stories, who will remember how we feel? | young star [https://philstarlife.com/news-and-views/717030-keep-letting-ai-write-stories-who-will-remember-felt] ⭑ i tried chatgpt for therapy. here’s what i found. | young star [https://philstarlife.com/news-and-views/142056-tried-chatgpt-therapy-what-found] ⭑ the day chatgpt went cold | new york times [https://www.nytimes.com/2025/08/19/business/chatgpt-gpt-5-backlash-openai.html] ⭑ gender disparities in GenAI use | harvard business school [https://www.hbs.edu/faculty/Pages/item.aspx?num=66548] ⭑ there’s a reason women aren’t swooning over AI like men are | the nöosphere [https://open.substack.com/pub/thenoosphere/p/theres-a-reason-women-arent-swooning?utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=post%20viewer] ⭑ ‘i felt pure, unconditional love’: the people who marry their AI chatbots | guardian [https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2025/jul/12/i-felt-pure-unconditional-love-the-people-who-marry-their-ai-chatbots] this podcast will fix me is on substack [https://girlbossinred.substack.com/], youtube [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOzIhxvynaq2w_8_uZW4BVA], apple podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/this-podcast-will-fix-me/id1848607693], and spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/7iTng6PDt2aIDXJz6HE2eX?si=d9cb5ba1b80841e3&nd=1&dlsi=b0d18247de5b49e8]. i'm also on instagram [https://www.instagram.com/nahndrea/] and tiktok [https://www.tiktok.com/@girlbossinred]. new episode next next week. thanks for listening ⭑.ᐟ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit girlbossinred.substack.com [https://girlbossinred.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

how reading fuels creativity with gab pangilinan | this podcast will fix me

in conversation with theatre actor and practitioner gab pangilinan, about how reading fuels creativity, why it's important to maintain passions outside of your industry, and how to build a sustainable reading habit despite a busy schedule. ⭑.ᐟ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit girlbossinred.substack.com [https://girlbossinred.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

online ‘debates’ should have died with him

read-aloud of my substack essay about a certain podcaster, the merits of making Arguing With People Online the be-all and end-all of your political participation (especially in the philippines, where i am), and my month of hate comments. this is a reading, the essay version is on substack! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit girlbossinred.substack.com [https://girlbossinred.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

it made me a woman, being hurt like that

reading aloud my substack essay, it made me a woman, being hurt like that [https://girlbossinred.substack.com/p/it-made-me-a-woman-being-hurt-like], a very ordinary story about self-worth, doing womanhood right, and negotiating reality. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit girlbossinred.substack.com [https://girlbossinred.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]