Baddies After Dark

Life is kicking my ass

I’ve been feeling mentally exhausted and like I’ve been comparing myself a lot lately. I want to be at a point where I can fully accept myself flaws and all, which I guess you could say is easier said than done, but it takes a lot of practice anyways. I went to the doctors and didn’t get the best news, but I’m trying to be OK with where I am now, of course it hurts and of course it’s going to be difficult and the journey is going to take a while. However, two things can be true at the same time: one, I am grateful for everything that I have and two, I’m struggling and that’s okay! I think I’m going to take it slow, but also romanticize and enjoy my life as much as possible…

Tired of these men; cheating scandal, true crime and my Pap smear horror story

First of all, I need y’all to know I’m recording this episode on my period, so if I sound emotional, dramatic, slightly unhinged, or ready to fight… mind your business. 😂 In this episode, we get into the Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson cheating drama because be serious… did anyone actually think Megan Thee Stallion was about to sign up for a polygamous situation? Absolutely insane behavior. We also get into my very strong opinions about men who hurt women and children.,. and yes, I said what I said. Then we talk about the tragic case involving D4vid and the murder charges connected to Celeste Hernandez Rivas. May she rest in peace. And because this podcast believes in emotional whiplash, I also share my Pap smear horror story because being a woman is honestly a comedy mixed with psychological warfare sometimes.

Breakups Before Bedtime- A special guest!

Being the cool auntie means you hear everything…… Yes, even middle school tea 😂 In this episode, my nephew Adan pulls back the curtain on what “dating” in 8th grade really looks like. It’s not all hand-holding and love songs… it’s texting, group hangs, mixed signals, and figuring things out in real time. Messy? A little. Relatable? Very. He opens up about a situation with a girl who maybe wasn’t ready for something new, and gets real about how it made him feel. We talk about what he learned, what caught him off guard, and what he thinks people should know before jumping into their first relationship. It’s honest, a little funny, a little “aww,” and lowkey a reminder that we’ve all been there.

Grown… But Not Mature

What happens when you grow up too fast… and end up parenting the very people who were supposed to guide you? In this episode, we unpack the quiet reality of emotional role reversal—when children become the peacemakers, the providers, the “strong one” long before they’re ready. On the outside, it can look like maturity. Strength. Independence. But underneath, it often comes with unprocessed emotions, blurred boundaries, and a version of adulthood built on survival instead of choice. We talk about how this dynamic can follow you into relationships, self-worth, and the way you show up for yourself—and how it can be more damaging than people realize. But this isn’t just about the weight of it all. It’s also about the turning point—the moment you realize you don’t have to keep carrying what was never yours. The power in setting boundaries. The courage in choosing healing over habit. And the possibility of becoming the one who breaks the cycle, not just for others… but for yourself. Because growing up too fast may have shaped you—but it doesn’t have to define you!

Life Lately-I love you dad!

In this episode, I’m diving into what happened after I shared my catfish story. Honestly, it’s been kind of amazing. Reconnecting with people from my past has been something I didn’t expect, but definitely needed. I’m also giving a special shoutout to my dad, because he truly is one of a kind. He’s not only turning 62 this week, but he’s also retiring! 🎉 I just feel really proud and grateful to celebrate him. Life has been a little chaotic lately, so this episode is a bit shorter than usual. But I’m really looking forward to unplugging soon and spending some time out in nature to reset. And as always, thank you for being here and going on this journey with me. It really means more than you know. 💕