Conversation with Batemates

Conversation with Dan

In this episode, Dan opens up about his journey into bating — from online rooms to real-life experiences — and how it’s shaped his mental health, confidence, and sense of self. We talk community, kink, and what it really means to feel connected without shame.

Conversation with Mike

In this episode, Johan and Mike dive deep into their journeys within the bator communities, exploring their experiences, community events, and the cultural dynamics they navigate as men of color.

Conversation with Will

In this engaging conversation, Johan welcomes Will, new to the bator community, (but not to masturbation), discussing personal journeys, the importance of connection, and the dynamics of the Batemates app. Will shares his experiences with bating, the challenges of body positivity, and the significance of friendships formed within the community. They delve into the differences between bating and gooning, the role of gear, and the importance of representation in the community. The discussion highlights the welcoming nature of the bator community and the shared experiences that bring members together.

Conversation with 111

In this episode, Johan and his guest explore the multifaceted world of bating, discussing personal journeys, the dynamics of long-distance relationships, and the differences between in-person and online experiences. They delve into the intricacies of edging, orgasm control, and the concept of ruined orgasms, while also highlighting the importance of educational spaces within the community. The discussion takes a significant turn as they address the experiences of people of color in predominantly white spaces, emphasizing the need for inclusivity and understanding.

Conversation with COACH NYC

In this episode, Johan and Scott dive into a candid conversation about identity, self-discovery, and the unique experiences within the bator community. Scott shares his journey of coming out, the challenges of embracing his true self, and the profound connections he's found through bating. They explore the dynamics of masculinity, the importance of community, and the joy of celebrating one's authentic self...