Life and Love in Paris

Ep. 36 Ten Pieces of Dating Advice I've Been Giving All Year long

In this episode, I’m breaking down the ten pieces of dating advice I’ve been giving to everyone this year including my dear friends, my listeners, and honestly, to myself. From knowing what you want to not overanalyzing one date, to remembering that “he’s not the last man on earth.” It’s everything I wish I knew when I first started dating.-Next my favorite dating coaches and podcast:Evan Marc Katz: https://shorturl.at/BvraC [https://shorturl.at/BvraC] U up podcast: https://shorturl.at/kCIRJ [https://shorturl.at/kCIRJ] Matthew Hussey: https://shorturl.at/a7EsQ [https://shorturl.at/a7EsQ] Elliot Scott: https://www.instagram.com/elliotscottdating/ [https://www.instagram.com/elliotscottdating/] Natlie Lue: https://rb.gy/dtswdw 📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: ⁠https://medium.com/@pattu-v01⁠  💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! Email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/lifeandloveinparis/

Ep. 35 Why Do They Keep Having Sex With Me If They're Not Interested Or Don't Want The Relationship I Want?

In this episode, I am sharing dating advice from the great Natalie Lue. Why do we keep sleeping with people who don’t want what we want? One of the hardest truths in modern dating: sex doesn’t equal love. I will unpack why emotionally unavailable partners keep coming back, and why we sometimes let them. Also, I will share a personal story about ego, self-worth, and the difference between being chosen and being wanted. It’s a conversation about waking up, letting go, and learning to choose yourself first. Natlie Lue: https://rb.gy/dtswdw 📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: ⁠https://medium.com/@pattu-v01⁠  💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! Email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/lifeandloveinparis/

Ep. 34-40 Life Lessons I Know at 40 (That I Wish I Knew at 20)

For today ’s episode, I share the lessons from Mark Manson’s “40 Life Lessons I Know at 40” that truly resonate with me right now and that I think might be helpful to my listeners. Whether you’re 20, 30, or 40, this one will remind you that it’s never too late to start anything that you want to start. 📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: ⁠https://medium.com/@pattu-v01⁠  💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! Email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/lifeandloveinparis/ PS: I am sorry I am for the two bits where the audio is distorted!

2025 Plot Twist: It's All Character Development

Bonus episode since we are in our feels! This short episode is called 2025 Plot Twist: It’s All Character Development. If 2025 has been dragging you through the mud too, know this: you’re not alone. In this conversation, I share my own setbacks from losing jobs to rejection to health scares ;  it’s felt like one hit after another. This is a reminder that even when life feels unfair, sometimes just surviving is enough. 📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: ⁠https://medium.com/@pattu-v01⁠  💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! Email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/lifeandloveinparis/

Ep. 33 From Confusion to Clarity: Decoding Modern Dating-Part 2

For today's episode, From Confusion to Clarity: Decoding Modern Dating Part 2. I’ll continue to answer the questions: 6. What does it mean when a guy says he misses me, but doesn't make plans to see me? 7. Why did he pull away after things were going so well? 8. Why does he keep coming back but still won't commit? 9. Why does he say we're exclusive but refuses to call me his girlfriend? 📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: ⁠https://medium.com/@pattu-v01⁠  💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! Email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/lifeandloveinparis/