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Delusional By Choice

Podcast by Dayanara Gonzalez

English

Health & personal development

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About Delusional By Choice

Welcome to Delusional By Choice! 🎙️I’m Dayanara, your host, sharing the messy, real moments of my life. At 28, I’m a college student at the University of North Carolina at Charlotte (Class of 2026 🎓) majoring in Sociology and minoring in Psychology. As I dive into understanding the human mind, I’m using everything I learn to navigate life’s ups and downs.This podcast is all about embracing “delusion” as a tool: life doesn’t always go according to plan, but we always get to choose how we show up. Each episode is like an open journal—raw, real, and filled with psychological insights to help you grow.If you’re looking for authentic conversations and practical advice on relationships, mental health, and personal growth, you’re in the right place. Let’s figure out life together! ✨

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30 episodes

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Money Money Money

Send me a message! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2408434/open_sms] Spoiler alert: money has a long history of losing purchasing power over time. Translation: simply saving your money and hoping for the best is not exactly a winning retirement strategy. I am not a financial expert, so think of this episode as a conversation from one friend to another. I share some basics and a little history behind Social Security and 401k plans. I also introduce Roth IRAs and talk about a few money mistakes I have made so you hopefully do not have to make the same ones. SUPPORT THE SHOW: Love what you hear? Show your support by subscribing, leaving a review, and rating the podcast! Don't forget to follow @delusional_bychoicepodcast and @dayag_24 on Instagram, and tag me in your posts to share the love! Every bit of support means more than you know! ❤️

24 Feb 2026 - 21 min
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When “Do What You Love” Starts Feeling Impossible

Send me a message! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2408434/open_sms] Lately, I’ve been asking myself how do you actually love what you do? Because somewhere along the way, I lost that version of me who felt sure about it. In this episode, I’m getting honest about what it’s like to lose that spark, what passion really means (hint: it’s not effortless), and how the small steps, the messy, uncomfortable ones, are helping me find my way back. SUPPORT THE SHOW: Love what you hear? Show your support by subscribing, leaving a review, and rating the podcast! Don't forget to follow @delusional_bychoicepodcast and @dayag_24 on Instagram, and tag me in your posts to share the love! Every bit of support means more than you know! ❤️

19 Oct 2025 - 15 min
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Let’s talk about sex(ed) baby!

Send me a message! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2408434/open_sms] Sex ed. We all got it, some of us survived it, and some of us… well, let’s just say it left a lot to be desired. In this episode of Delusional By Choice, I break down why sex education really matters, who is supposed to be teaching it, and how the system is failing teens and sometimes adults too. I talk about messy school mandates, the domino effect of bad sex ed, porn as the unofficial teacher, and how outdated gender roles and shame keep harmful patterns alive. Plus, I share what inclusive, accurate, and shame-free sex education actually looks like and why it benefits everyone, regardless of the gender you are or the gender you are sleeping with. By the end of this episode, you will walk away thinking differently about sex ed, empowered to ask questions, and ready to have real conversations for yourself, your friends, or the next generation. https://www.bu.edu/sph/news/articles/2025/only-37-of-us-states-require-sexual-education-in-schools-to-be-medically-accurate/ [https://www.bu.edu/sph/news/articles/2025/only-37-of-us-states-require-sexual-education-in-schools-to-be-medically-accurate/] SUPPORT THE SHOW: Love what you hear? Show your support by subscribing, leaving a review, and rating the podcast! Don't forget to follow @delusional_bychoicepodcast and @dayag_24 on Instagram, and tag me in your posts to share the love! Every bit of support means more than you know! ❤️

6 Oct 2025 - 14 min
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Tried To Run From My Problems Turns Out I'm Too Slow

Send me a message! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2408434/open_sms] After taking some time away, I'm back with a conversation about the heavy stuff that’s been weighing on me lately: loneliness, fear, pulling back from people, losing confidence, and that stuck feeling that comes with self-doubt. If you’ve ever found yourself in that place, you’re not alone. This is an honest conversation about what it’s like to sit in those moments and some thoughts on how to slowly work your way forward. SUPPORT THE SHOW: Love what you hear? Show your support by subscribing, leaving a review, and rating the podcast! Don't forget to follow @delusional_bychoicepodcast and @dayag_24 on Instagram, and tag me in your posts to share the love! Every bit of support means more than you know! ❤️

18 Sep 2025 - 20 min
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Sorry I Ghosted You, It’s Me, Not You

Send me a message! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2408434/open_sms] Sorry I ghosted you! Life got a little wild between school, juggling a million things, and just trying to keep my head above water. But guess what? We’re finally catching up, and I’m ready to spill everything. In this episode, I’m diving into the importance of surrounding yourself with people who truly lift you up. I’ll also talk about why it’s crucial to cut yourself some slack when life gets overwhelming, and how those ride-or-die people can literally bring you back to life. By the way, when was the last time you really checked in with yourself? Are you giving yourself credit for the small wins, the little steps of daily discipline? I know external validation isn’t always there, so it’s easy to overlook. Let’s unpack all of that! EVERYTHING YOU THINK YOU KNOW ABOUT ADDICTION IS WRONG https://www.ted.com/talks/johann_hari_everything_you_think_you_know_about_addiction_is_wrong/transcript [https://www.ted.com/talks/johann_hari_everything_you_think_you_know_about_addiction_is_wrong/transcript] SUPPORT THE SHOW: Love what you hear? Show your support by subscribing, leaving a review, and rating the podcast! Don't forget to follow @delusional_bychoicepodcast and @dayag_24 on Instagram, and tag me in your posts to share the love! Every bit of support means more than you know! ❤️

23 Jun 2025 - 30 min
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