Elephant Graveyard

S02 Episode 4 - Dying one piece at a time

Abuda reflects on his adventurous life, highlighting a significant experience climbing Mount Fuji in 1996. Despite numerous accomplishments, the climb taught him profound lessons about Japan's culture and the interconnectedness of nature and society. He also discusses his chronic pain, likening it to "dying one piece at a time," and shares his struggle with managing pain and the emotional toll it takes. Abuda's reflections on death, influenced by his near-death experience at birth, emphasize the importance of understanding and accepting the process of dying, drawing parallels to his mother's experience with chronic pain. Transcript https://otter.ai/u/VKLK9fNPR5F5_-nWY9FJk2yfgR4 [https://otter.ai/u/VKLK9fNPR5F5_-nWY9FJk2yfgR4]

S02 Episode 3 - Living Fully for Chronic Pain

In this episode, Abuda discusses his experience with chronic pain, which began at 17 after a car accident that fractured his facial bones. He details the various types of chronic pain he endures, including migraines and daily headaches, and the strategies he uses to manage them, such as ibuprofen, yoga, and mindfulness meditation. A buda emphasizes the importance of acceptance and adaptation, sharing how he integrates preventative measures into his daily life to mitigate pain. He also highlights the role of living fully and engaging in activities as a form of distraction and coping mechanism, ultimately finding value in his experiences despite the ongoing pain. Transcript https://otter.ai/u/K-2uUC4QZ8Xs1WL5BbxAUCqBnqg [https://otter.ai/u/K-2uUC4QZ8Xs1WL5BbxAUCqBnqg]

S02 Episode 2- The Retreat

s2e2 the retreat Ever wondered what happens at a mindfulness retreat? So did Abuda. In the special episode, Abuda, the host of "The Elephant's Graveyard," shares his experiences at a mindful cooking retreat at Plum Village in France. He discusses his long-standing admiration for Thich Nhat Han and his anxiety about attending the retreat, which he attributes to post-traumatic retreat syndrome. He details daily activities, including meditation, exercise, and cooking, and reflects on the emotional and spiritual growth he experiences. He highlights the importance of community, the impact of the nuns, and the transformative power of the retreat environment. concludes by expressing gratitude for the connections made and the profound impact of the retreat on his life.

S02 Episode 1 - Where I am Death is Not

In the second season of his podcast, "The Elephant's Graveyard," host Abuda reflects on his life and the podcast's initial focus on death, which stemmed from a catastrophic incident that left him bedridden for six months. He now realizes that the "Elephant's Graveyard" is not a place to prepare for death but to live alone, free from the influence of others for the first time in his life. At 63, Abuda is experiencing a newfound freedom to make choices without considering others, a stark contrast to his past filled with interpersonal relationships. He plans to explore this new phase of living alone in his mind and decisions.

S01 Episode 6 - Deathlines

"Today, I received notice that a friend of mine from high school died, died of a stroke. It was somebody who I had known early in life, but until something happened, we didn't really have a connection. In 1979 my senior year in high school, six of my friends in 1979 my senior year in high school, six of my friends and classmates died. Now that might not mean much in a large city school, but in my school, that was over 6% of the class of the senior class. It had a huge impact on us, because they didn't die at once. They actually died over a series of events. The first one expected a girl with a terminal disease, the second one shocking suicide by a young freshman who had everything to live for. Then two friends who fell mountain climbing, then another who died in a fire in his house. And with each death, we became more aware of so many things and of our fragility, but it bonded us together. At the same time, it created a bond, an attachment, a connection, which continues to date. Every time I hear the first three notes of the song Free Bird by Leonard Skinner, I start to cry. I disappear. I am in that song. I am 16 years old, I am standing by a casket while one of my classmates plays that song on the guitar, the song that has become the anthem to our year. "If I leave here tomorrow, will you still remember me?" Abuda