Jiu Jitsu, Sound Healing, and the Power of Balance with Abby & Jared | Ep. 62
Most people live on one extreme.Always pushing. Always performing. Always distracted.Or completely disconnected, overwhelmed, and stuck.But what if the real goal isn’t choosing one…it’s learning how to balance both?In this episode of Living Vividly, we sit down with Abby and Jared, a couple who live on opposite ends of the spectrum but have learned how to meet in the middle.Jared is a Brazilian jiu jitsu black belt rooted in discipline, pressure, and performance. Abby is a sound practitioner focused on stillness, healing, and nervous system regulation.At first glance, their worlds couldn’t be more different.But this conversation breaks down how both paths lead to the same thing:self-awareness, resilience, and learning how to sit with yourself when things get uncomfortable.From martial arts and meditation to relationships, stress, and emotional regulation, this episode explores what it actually looks like to slow down, find balance, and live authentically in a world that constantly pulls you in every direction.If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, overstimulated, or like you can’t turn your mind off, this conversation will shift how you think about balance, discipline, and healing.⏱️ Chapters00:00 - Intro: Discipline vs Stillness00:45 - Meet Abby & Jared02:00 - From jiu jitsu to real life lessons06:00 - Discipline, awareness, and thinking ahead09:00 - Finding your “thing” and self-discovery12:30 - Why most people avoid sitting with themselves14:00 - Sound healing and nervous system regulation18:00 - Abby’s turning point and spiritual journey22:00 - The science behind sound and brainwaves25:00 - Why your mind can’t slow down27:00 - Where discipline and healing overlap31:00 - Health, wellness, and skepticism37:00 - Technology, distraction, and modern life47:00 - Balancing masculine and feminine energy52:00 - Communication in relationships59:00 - People over profit and real connection1:03:00 - Learning how to lose and grow1:05:00 - What it means to live authentically1:08:00 - Imperfection, relatability, and real connectionIf you’ve been stuck in go-go-go mode or struggling to slow down and reconnect with yourself, this episode breaks down why and how to actually find balance.👍 Like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear this or is feeling the same way.—💫 Join the Living Vividly CommunityInstagram → https://www.instagram.com/livingvividlypodcast/Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/livingvividlypodcast