Nurtural Disasters

Smooth Criminal: The Dad of Michael Jackson

The Man. The Myth. The King of Pop. On this episode, Ken and Lisa go to the movies to discuss the new hit film, Michael, a biopic that chronicles the ascent of Michael Jackson as a world-class performer and pop cultural icon. All the while, his abusive father, Joe Jackson, controlled and manipulated his children to fulfill his own narcissistic and self-serving vision. How was Michael able to escape the cycle of abuse created from cultural and historical means and propel himself into superstardom? A major accident while filming a cola commercial could have ended in tragedy, but Michael uses this opportunity to forgive his mother, fulfill his obligation to his siblings, and finally severing his tumultuous relationship with his brutal father. He transcends generations of violence and escapes the clutches of his dad, but the emotional and traumatic toll might be even too much for Michael to overcome. Trigger warning: Discussions about child abuse. ---------------------------------------- Credits/Thanks: Theme Song: "Clouded" by Megan Morrow. IG: @meganmorrowmusic Sound Editing: Ken & Lisa Cover Art: Ken Follow us on: Instagram: @nurturaldisasters Substack: https://nurturaldisasters.substack.com [https://nurturaldisasters.substack.com] Linktree: https://linktr.ee/nurturaldisasters [https://linktr.ee/nurturaldisasters]

Musically Enmeshed

"[Mom], you're not my friend." Megan Morrow, the singer of the show’s theme, joins the dynamic duo, Ken and Lisa, in the studio to discuss how her life experiences and familial relationships contributed to the creative process of songwriting. It might not have been the most ideal childhood, as she recalls having arguments with her mother only to have a literal door slammed in her face. Forming friendships during her formative years was a difficult proposition as her father did his best to assist young Megan, while enmeshment with her mother continued to be a lifelong concern. No longer attached at the hip, how will Megan navigate her future without the presence of mom? Tune in for loads of tears, both happy and sad! "Clouded" is available for purchase on Bandcamp. https://meganmorrow.bandcamp.com/ [https://meganmorrow.bandcamp.com/] ---------------------------------------- Credits/Thanks: Theme Song: "Clouded" by Megan Morrow. IG: @meganmorrowmusic Sound Editing: Ken & Lisa Cover Art: Ken Follow us on: Instagram: @nurturaldisasters Substack: https://nurturaldisasters.substack.com [https://nurturaldisasters.substack.com] Linktree: https://linktr.ee/nurturaldisasters [https://linktr.ee/nurturaldisasters]

Golden Child in a Red-Pilled World

“The favorite child isn’t always the most responsible one.” Toxic parenting created the ultimate monster: the unempathetic and entitled Golden Child. What happens when parents fail to check bad behaviors of their children? In this episode, the hosts investigate how the perpetuation of favoritism and entitlement contributed to the warped personality of Lisa’s biological brother, a person filled with rage and hate. Ken and Lisa journey into the Manosphere with the help of Louis Theroux’s new documentary, hoping to make sense of it all. When a narcissistic mother plays favorites, a broken wrist during swimming pool accident becomes the ultimate karma for all those involved. Get ready for a well-rounded workout or be doomed to the dreaded chicken legs. ---------------------------------------- Credits/Thanks: Theme Song: "Clouded" by Megan Morrow. IG: @meganmorrowmusic Sound Editing: Ken & Lisa Cover Art: Ken Thank you to all of our supporters! Follow us on: Instagram: @nurturaldisasters Substack: https://nurturaldisasters.substack.com [https://nurturaldisasters.substack.com] Linktree: https://linktr.ee/nurturaldisasters [https://linktr.ee/nurturaldisasters]

The Gaslighting of Kathy Bates

Kathy Bates might have won the biggest prize in acting but couldn’t win the approval of her mother. For decades, she misremembered not thanking her mom during her Oscars speech. Likewise, Lisa misremembers some of the characters in the hit movie, Titanic. Ken discusses his disdain for bullies and truly believes empathy is the secret in finding satisfaction in everyday life. A lifetime of gaslighting and narcissistic abuse has made Lisa unable to trust her own intuition and often deals with emotional and mental hurdles to function normally in society. Ken holds out hope his “real” parents will come save him one day. Meanwhile, Lisa’s mom is somewhere in the country sporting some botched plastic surgery that makes her as ugly on the outside as she is on the inside. ---------------------------------------- Credits/Thanks: Theme Song: "Clouded" by Megan Morrow. IG: @meganmorrowmusic Sound Editing: Ken & Lisa Cover Art: Ken Thank you to all of our supporters! Follow us on: Instagram: @nurturaldisasters Substack: https://nurturaldisasters.substack.com [https://nurturaldisasters.substack.com] Linktree: https://linktr.ee/nurturaldisasters [https://linktr.ee/nurturaldisasters]

Trailer

The age old debate: Nature vs. Nurture. But what if you grew up with a disaster of a parent? This is a podcast for those of us with toxic or emotionally immature parents. We might not have a bunch of credentials next to our names, but we do have PhDs from the Hard Knocks University. Basically, we want this to be a validating space for adult children of parents who had no business having children. ---------------------------------------- Credits/Thanks: Theme Song: "Clouded" by Megan Morrow. IG: @meganmorrowmusic Sound Editing: Ken & Lisa Cover Art: Ken Follow us on: Instagram: @nurturaldisasters Substack: https://nurturaldisasters.substack.com [https://nurturaldisasters.substack.com] Linktree: https://linktr.ee/nurturaldisasters [https://linktr.ee/nurturaldisasters]