The Old Asian Lady Show

This Asian father chose a different way to love his children

What makes someone different from the generation or culture they grew up in? In this heartwarming clip from#OldAsianLady, Sterling Hsaio reflects on Aging, Independence and Parenting. While many Asian parents are known for being strict, controlling, or heavily focused on academic achievement, he chose a different approach. Perhaps influenced by his early love of English with Western ideas and his own unique personality—instead of expecting his children to fulfill his dreams, he believed they should have space to become themselves—even if their choices were completely different from what he imagined. Sometimes the most loving thing a parent can do… is letting go.

Surviving Losing My Dream Job and My Mom's Stage 4 Cancer

What do you do when life keeps forcing you to change direction? In this clip from #OldAsianLady, animator and filmmaker JJ Chen opens up about rejection, failure, and trying to rebuild his life while dealing with his mother's cancer diagnosis. After losing 2 projects that later went on to receive Oscar nominations, JJ returned to Taiwan hoping to regroup and focus on his own creative work. Instead, he found himself staying indefinitely to support his mother through illness and uncertainty. Now at 45, he reflects on creative burnout, financial instability and the philosophy that has helped him endure difficult periods in life.

I Wasn't "Lazy", "Shy" or "Not Trying Hard Enough": Found Out Why at 25

What happens when you grow up feeling like something is “off”… but no one can tell you why? In this clip from #OldAsianLady, Mrinal Gakhale shares what it was like growing up undiagnosed with autism—and being labeled as someone who just wasn’t trying hard enough. Facing social challenges and bullying, her experience highlights how autism can go unrecognized, especially in girls. It wasn’t until the age of 25 that she finally received a diagnosis that helped her make sense of her life. This is a powerful conversation about identity, understanding, and the importance of being seen.

Am I Still Me at 43? Motherhood, Identity & Starting Over

What happens when you lose a part of who you are? In this video from #OldAsianLady, dance artist Wei-Shan Lai shares her journey through thriving career, motherhood, identity, and the quiet struggle of trying to find her way back. After becoming a full-time mom caring for a newborn with medical needs—she stepped away from her creative life. Now at 43, she reflects on self-doubt, cultural pressure, and what it means to rebuild your identity after life changes.

My Mom is 92… And I Can’t Even Talk to Her on the Phone Anymore

Sometimes, going “home” isn’t as straightforward as it sounds. In this clip from #OldAsianLady, Brian Foden shares the deeply personal decision to leave Taiwan and move back to Canada with his Taiwanese wife and daughter. After building a life, raising a bilingual child, and calling Taiwan home for decades, the choice to leave isn’t simple. It’s shaped by family, identity, and time—especially as his 92-year-old mother’s health declines. This conversation explores the reality of cross-cultural life, raising children between worlds, and the emotional weight of choosing where to belong.