Maybe She's Born With It; Maybe It's Internalized Oppression! with Toya Gavin
We're back with another episode of Sugi Makes Friends! I'm still soaking up the rays in sunny Palm Springs as we figure out where to travel to next. Today, I talk a little bit more about the BIPOC collective my friend Verita and I have been trying to start, a story about The Little Mermaid, and I hang out with my new friend, Toya Gavin.
Toya is freaking awesome. A lawyer by trade, she worked for several years as a city government attorney, a prosecutor, and a solo practitioner before becoming a consultant, coach, and founder of Woke Up Worthy, a life coaching brand for women of color (WOC). Toya's approach to coaching WOC is unique in that she does not ignore or bypass the effects of internalized oppression on their achievement. It makes WOC devalue who they are and what they know. It compromises their ability to show up, be vulnerable, and ask for help. It makes them believe that they must figure out ways to "do better" when they are already doing the best they can. Toya has helped her clients set and achieve goals, build businesses, and reset their trajectories both personally and professionally using this approach.
In this episode, we dive into burnout and what ultimately led her to her current career path, the differences between internalized oppression and limiting beliefs, and we swap stories about finding community in predominantly white spaces. This episode was very therapeutic for me personally, and I can't thank Toya enough for just showing up and being herself. If you're someone who identifies as a WOC, you may feel the same type of feels.
Connect with Toya on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/iamtoyagavin/] + LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/toyagavinlaw/].
If you'd like to work with Toya, check out her website: https://wokeupworthy.com/
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