Life, Alchemized

Being Kinder Makes You Stronger

13 min · 27. apr. 2026
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That sharp inner voice might feel like discipline, but it often behaves like a threat alarm. In this episode, I dig into the alchemy of self-compassion and why being relentlessly hard on yourself can backfire by activating stress, narrowing attention, and making learning harder. When the brain flips into threat mode, it protects you from danger, but it also blocks the very growth you’re trying to force.  Book Recommendation: Self Compassion by Kristen Neff For more insights on psychology, neuroscience, and mental wellness, you can go to my website, www.natashasheyenne.com for my blog, events, courses, and to sign up for my newsletter.  Thank you for listening to Life, Alchemized. If something here resonated, let it settle before you rush forward. Awareness is already movement

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