As It Is

13. That one time I Let AI Take Full Control of My Dating Life

For two months, an AI agent ran my entire dating life. It was smarter and more strategic than me... and the relationship still imploded. Here’s the messy truth about outsourcing your love life, why my instincts wouldn’t stay quiet, and what I learned about emotional maturity and anxious attachment.

12. Reality TV & The Death of Mystery

From the 'TMI' culture of US dating shows to the high-stakes politeness of Asians reality TV. I explores why we can't stop watching people make terrible decisions. This week, I’m diving into Western vs Asian dating shows, age gaps, social media, oversharing, and why it feels like nobody knows what their age - or anyone else’s - is anymore. From trash TV chaos to the death of mystery… let’s talk.

11. A Hug and a Lie or a Painful Truth?

When was the last time a friend asked for your opinion and you immediately regretted it? In this episode, Maayan and I dive into one of the toughest dilemmas in friendship: where is the line between brutal honesty and loving support? Is 'brutal honesty to someone's face' the best gift you can give, or is a white lie sometimes worth more? We'll talk about friends who don't listen, the awkward "I told you so" moment, and the question that can save any conversation: "Do you want support or the truth?". Because sometimes the most loving thing you can do is tell the truth, and sometimes it's not.

10. My Ex Wore the Clothes I Bought Him to Italy... with His Ex-Wife

I’m spilling the tea on the ex who lived so deep in his own delusions he dragged me into them too. From “I’ve been over her for two years” to vacationing in Italy with his ex in the clothes I bought him. This long-distance situationship was pure mess. Love-bombing, Botox shade, closet audits, and the ultimate rebound reveal. Raw, savage, and painfully relatable. If you’ve ever been gaslit by a walking fantasy, press play. As It Is - where the gossip gets real.

09. Am I Mean, or Is Everyone Else Fake?

I’m the softest friend to my girls, but zero filter when someone else is shady. In this episode I spill why my friends call me “mean” for telling the truth about everyone else, the boss who taught me I can’t kiss ass, and why I’m brutally honest in every friendship. Raw girl talk unfiltered.