Daughters That Shred

#6 SANNA is here! Boogy welcomes number 2! Christmas family debates, bubble wands and much more! Bring on Dadding in 2024!!!

Dummy trades and Christmas charades! We are back in the both for our first ep of 2024! Sorry, its been a few months between sets, bottle feeds and bro-ing out with the DTS crew. We are back to discuss all things Christmas with our little girls and catch up and welcome the birth of SANNA, Boogy’s second little lady!!! Yesssssss! We discuss the big issues like who gives what presents, who the Grinch is in each house, and much more!!! A few highlights: Pat's first Christmas with Harri. He recalls his own Christmas stories as a kid and the type of Christmas he wants to create for his little lady! Moogs shares his view on Christmas trees and his preference for small floopy trees and the Frozen movie addiction that Camille is going through. Ty shares his families preference for Christmas lights, favourite singing Christmas toy and the tale of the Wiggles bubble wand! You can connect with us on insta @daughtersthatshred Episodes will come out occasionally between nappies, sleep deprivation, family time and of course, surfing! Below are some useful resources that we have found beneficial that support fathers and families with the challenges of parenting. PANDA (Perinatal Anxiety & Depression Australia): Supports parents and families during pregnancy and throughout the first year of parenthood including a focus specifically on supporting fathers. ⁠⁠⁠* [https://panda.org.au/about/about-panda]https://panda.org.au/about/about-panda*⁠⁠⁠ [https://panda.org.au/about/about-panda*%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] Movember Australia: Providing support for men's health. Also provides some wonderful resources related to different parenting strategies. ⁠⁠⁠* [https://au.movember.com/]https://au.movember.com/*⁠⁠⁠ [https://au.movember.com/*%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] Beyond Blue: Provides lots of information regarding mental health with a focus on fathers. ⁠⁠⁠* [https://www.beyondblue.org.au/who-does-it-affect/men/what-causes-anxiety-and-depression-in-men/new-fathers]https://www.beyondblue.org.au/who-does-it-affect/men/what-causes-anxiety-and-depression-in-men/new-fathers*⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.beyondblue.org.au/who-does-it-affect/men/what-causes-anxiety-and-depression-in-men/new-fathers*%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] Pink Elephant Support Network: Helping young couples manage the challenges that go with early pregnancy loss and miscarriage. ⁠⁠⁠* [https://www.pinkelephants.org.au/]https://www.pinkelephants.org.au/*⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.pinkelephants.org.au/*%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] Raising Children Network: A great government-backed resource providing advice for parents and families through all stages of child development. ⁠⁠⁠* [https://raisingchildren.net.au/]https://raisingchildren.net.au/*⁠⁠⁠ [https://raisingchildren.net.au/*%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0]

#5 Choices leading up to a birth, public vs private, doula, home birth. the choices man! Everyone needs to find their own patchwork quilt!

Decisions come at you from all angles as soon as you decide to have a kid!! The boys are back with their views and opinions on the decisions that you make leading up to birth, private vs public, doula, midwives and much more! We want everyone to make their own patchwork quilt! What to expect in this ep:  Tigs shares some of the decisions that they made during the birth of his oldest compared to his youngest and how each experience was different, and why they changed from public to private. Moogy unpacks his experience with a doula and how important this was to Jas and him and why removing major stress form his life before becoming a dad was important. Phat recognises how much of a privilege he has with the options and the choice around public vs private and some of the important discussions that occurred between him and Amber before the birth of Hari! You can connect with us on insta @daughtersthatshred Episodes will come out occasionally between nappies, sleep deprivation, family time and of course, surfing! Below are some useful resources that we have found beneficial that support fathers and families with the challenges of parenting. PANDA (Perinatal Anxiety & Depression Australia): Supports parents and families during pregnancy and throughout the first year of parenthood including a focus specifically on supporting fathers. ⁠⁠https://panda.org.au/about/about-panda⁠⁠ [https://panda.org.au/about/about-panda] Movember Australia: Providing support for men's health. Also provides some wonderful resources related to different parenting strategies. ⁠⁠https://au.movember.com/⁠⁠ [https://au.movember.com/] Beyond Blue: Provides lots of information regarding mental health with a focus on fathers. ⁠⁠https://www.beyondblue.org.au/who-does-it-affect/men/what-causes-anxiety-and-depression-in-men/new-fathers⁠⁠ [https://www.beyondblue.org.au/who-does-it-affect/men/what-causes-anxiety-and-depression-in-men/new-fathers] Pink Elephant Support Network: Helping young couples manage the challenges that go with early pregnancy loss and miscarriage. ⁠⁠https://www.pinkelephants.org.au/⁠⁠ [https://www.pinkelephants.org.au/] Raising Children Network: A great government-backed resource providing advice for parents and families through all stages of child development. ⁠⁠https://raisingchildren.net.au/⁠⁠ [https://raisingchildren.net.au/]

#4 Settling the girls, dealing with the Screamos, Stubborn Dads, Shaking the Apple Tree and much more! EP 4 LET’S GO

Moogy is in the flesh, no dial up! He has the control pannel and he is ready to roll! In this episode we discuss settling, dealing with tantrums in public and trusting your partner. We all explore our take and experiences on trying to calm the farm of a crying baby and when to pull the white flag. Ty shares how he navigated some unfriendly kids in the playground, why 'Shake it Off' is the party track at the Day & Cox household. Pat shares a Grade 1 story about an unfriendly parent, dealing with a tantrum at a brewery and capturing Harri’s first word and laugh. Moogy talks about embracing your inner child as a parent, doing activities with Camille and having outdoor experiences together. You can connect with us on insta @daughtersthatshred Episodes will come out occasionally between nappies, sleep deprivation, family time and of course, surfing! Below are some useful resources that we have found beneficial that support fathers and families with the challenges of parenting. PANDA (Perinatal Anxiety & Depression Australia): Supports parents and families during pregnancy and throughout the first year of parenthood including a focus specifically on supporting fathers. ⁠https://panda.org.au/about/about-panda⁠ [https://panda.org.au/about/about-panda] Movember Australia: Providing support for men's health. Also provides some wonderful resources related to different parenting strategies. ⁠https://au.movember.com/⁠ [https://au.movember.com/] Beyond Blue: Provides lots of information regarding mental health with a focus on fathers. ⁠https://www.beyondblue.org.au/who-does-it-affect/men/what-causes-anxiety-and-depression-in-men/new-fathers⁠ [https://www.beyondblue.org.au/who-does-it-affect/men/what-causes-anxiety-and-depression-in-men/new-fathers] Pink Elephant Support Network: Helping young couples manage the challenges that go with early pregnancy loss and miscarriage. ⁠https://www.pinkelephants.org.au/⁠ [https://www.pinkelephants.org.au/] Raising Children Network: A great government-backed resource providing advice for parents and families through all stages of child development. ⁠https://raisingchildren.net.au/⁠ [https://raisingchildren.net.au/]

#3 Dolphin Dives, Emotions when you realise your going to be a Dad, Pink Eye, Sharing is key and much more!

In this episode, it's the Weekly catch-up with the boys and diving into the flood of emotions of becoming a dad! Each of us shared the time that we learnt we were going to be a father, the emotions that come with that, the joy and the grief that comes with Ty’s story in particular. We love how Ty unpacks his story and how he dealt with the grieving process, dealing with the unknown and finding a positive reframe.  Moogy talks about his story and managing his emotions with parking spaces, while Pat shares his story of 'finding out' but being mindful of when he and Amber share the news. We talk about learning from each other, the miracle of falling pregnant, the stigma of miscarriages and dealing with the rollercoaster. You can connect with us on insta @daughtersthatshred Episodes will come out occasionally between nappies, sleep deprivation, family time and of course, surfing! Below are some useful resources that we have found beneficial that support fathers and families with the challenges of parenting. PANDA (Perinatal Anxiety & Depression Australia): Supports parents and families during pregnancy and throughout the first year of parenthood including a focus specifically on supporting fathers. https://panda.org.au/about/about-panda [https://panda.org.au/about/about-panda] Movember Australia: Providing support for men's health. Also provides some wonderful resources related to different parenting strategies. https://au.movember.com/ [https://au.movember.com/] Beyond Blue: Provides lots of information regarding mental health with a focus on fathers. https://www.beyondblue.org.au/who-does-it-affect/men/what-causes-anxiety-and-depression-in-men/new-fathers [https://www.beyondblue.org.au/who-does-it-affect/men/what-causes-anxiety-and-depression-in-men/new-fathers] Pink Elephant Support Network: Helping young couples manage the challenges that go with early pregnancy loss and miscarriage. https://www.pinkelephants.org.au/ [https://www.pinkelephants.org.au/] Raising Children Network: A great government-backed resource providing advice for parents and families through all stages of child development. https://raisingchildren.net.au/ [https://raisingchildren.net.au/]

#2 Burping, Kids saying F**K, Grandparents and Dealing with Grief- we have it all!

A big episode here, we have a name, and we are tackling the big topics..not by design! In this episode, we cover burping, our dads being dads, what age should kids remember their own shoes, swearing in front of kids and much more! Moogy drops out halfway through the call with his ‘reliable’ phone and Pat shares a beautiful story and insight about his relationship with his late mum and the connections he hopes to make with his daughter Harri through his mum’s values. He demonstrates precisely why we want to do this show and demonstrates vulnerability at its core. We love it, and we love him for it! You can connect with us on insta @daughtersthatshred Episodes will come out occasionally between nappies, sleep deprivation, family time and of course, surfing! Below are some useful resources that we have found beneficial that support fathers and families with the challenges of parenting. PANDA (Perinatal Anxiety & Depression Australia): Supports parents and families during pregnancy and throughout the first year of parenthood including a focus specifically on supporting fathers. https://panda.org.au/about/about-panda [https://panda.org.au/about/about-panda] Movember Australia: Providing support for men's health. Also provides some wonderful resources related to different parenting strategies. https://au.movember.com/ [https://au.movember.com/] Beyond Blue: Provides lots of information regarding mental health with a focus on fathers. https://www.beyondblue.org.au/who-does-it-affect/men/what-causes-anxiety-and-depression-in-men/new-fathers [https://www.beyondblue.org.au/who-does-it-affect/men/what-causes-anxiety-and-depression-in-men/new-fathers] Pink Elephant Support Network: Helping young couples manage the challenges that go with early pregnancy loss and miscarriage. https://www.pinkelephants.org.au/ [https://www.pinkelephants.org.au/] Raising Children Network: A great government-backed resource providing advice for parents and families through all stages of child development. https://raisingchildren.net.au/ [https://raisingchildren.net.au/]