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The Four-Burner Mom: How a Lawyer, Restaurant Owner & Mom of Two Manages It All Without Burning Out

40 min · 26. touko 2026
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What does balance actually look like when you're a managing partner at a law firm, the owner of a 125-year-old community restaurant, and a mom of two boys — all at the same time? Lesley Holloway doesn't have a perfect answer. But she has a framework — and a lot of hard-won wisdom — that makes it work. In this episode, Lesley talks about her unconventional career path (acting degree, law school, and a restaurant she bought to save her hometown), why she refuses to let mom guilt take up space in her life, and the four-burner theory that changed the way she thinks about time and priorities. We cover: * What the four-burner theory actually is — and why you don't need to turn any burner completely off * Why mom guilt is not the same as caring, and why letting it go is the best example you can set for your kids * How Lesley grew up without her mom from age 10 — and how that shaped her into the mother and leader she is today * The 20-second hug: the science-backed stress reset that her 11-year-old now uses on her * Why she takes her boys to work at the restaurant on weekends — and what they're actually learning there * How community — a real one, where people know your name and your parents — can hold you up in ways nothing else can Lesley is warm, direct, and genuinely funny. This one feels like a long conversation with a friend who happens to have figured a few things out. Find Lesley here: lesleyholloway.com [http://lesleyholloway.com/] kitchensmineola.com [http://kitchensmineola.com/] If today's episode resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected. You can find me at mompire.eu, or come say hi on LinkedIn — just search Klara Ganter. And if you're a corporate mom wondering what your next move looks like, take my free quiz at mompire.eu/quiz [mompire.eu/quiz]. It takes five minutes and gives you a real starting point.

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