3 Signs You Struggle With Self Trust

Perfectionism, Procrastination & People-Pleasing: The Hidden Ways You Self-Sabotage

**In this episode of Empowered Within Her…** Self-Sabotage 101 Series Part 2 Self-sabotage isn’t always obvious. I explore the sneaky ways it shows up (procrastination, perfectionism, people-pleasing, negative self-talk) and how these are really your mind’s way of keeping you ‘safe’ — but stuck. I share how understanding how your mind works can help you shift these patterns without needing expensive programs or endless healing loops. **Takeaways:** - Self-sabotage is a protection mechanism. - Procrastination can feel productive — but it’s keeping you small. - Perfectionism is fear of criticism in disguise. - People-pleasing leads to burnout and resentment. - Your mind believes what you tell it — so let’s tell it something new. **Chapters:** 00:00 - Understanding Self-Sabotage as a Protection Mechanism 04:53 - Identifying Subtle Forms of Self-Sabotage 09:44 - The Impact of Negative Self-Talk 15:02 - Empowerment Through Self-Discovery **Quote of the episode:** _"Perfectionism is avoiding criticism."_ 💡 Want to be the first to hear when my **Self-Trust Reset course** is ready? Send me an email at **contact@laylaallen.co.uk [applewebdata://0A3004B6-182C-4A16-A1D7-AD5A97B4533B/*contact@laylaallen.co.uk]** with **‘Register’** in the subject line and I’ll send you the details as soon as it’s live. ✨ Get instant access to my free **Values Vault** and other resources at **www.laylaallen.co.uk [applewebdata://0A3004B6-182C-4A16-A1D7-AD5A97B4533B/www.laylaallen.co.uk]** You’ll also find me on **Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/empoweredwithinher/]** and **TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@empoweredwithinher?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc]**. Remember — you are **empowered and self-led**. You’re not broken. You don’t need fixing. You just need to understand how your mind works, so you can start making different choices.

The Survival Instinct Behind Self-Sabotage

Welcome to Empowered Within Her and I am your personal mindset mentor, Layla! Self-Sabotage 101 Series Part 1 In this first of the Self-Sabotage 101 Series, I discuss the concept of self-sabotage, emphasising that it is not a sign of being broken but rather a survival instinct. I introduce my new VBR Method™ , which focuses on identifying values, setting boundaries, and taking responsibility to overcome those self-sabotaging behaviours. The episode encourages listeners to recognise their patterns and take actionable steps towards personal growth and empowerment.To download your copy of the Values Vault, click this link [https://drive.google.com/file/d/1uUIm1QvFEe7QFmI3kc5b4uV9jdaGYsFb/view?usp=drive_link] For more support follow me on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/empoweredwithinher/]and TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@laylaallenlifecoach] and for more freebies you're very welcome to land here [https://www.laylaallen.co.uk/freebies] 00:00Introduction to Self-Sabotage 01:25Understanding Self-Sabotage as a Survival Mechanism 06:22Reframing Survival Mode 07:15The VBL Method: Values, Boundaries, and Responsibility 11:06Taking Action: Identifying Your Values #self-sabotage # survivalinstinct #mindset shifts #values #boundaries # emotionalregulation #personalgrowth, #empowerment #women #leadership #empoweredwithinherpodcast

3 Signs You Struggle With Self Trust

💡 Struggling to trust yourself? Second-guessing every decision? Let’s fix that.In this episode, Layla breaks down why so many women struggle with self-trust and how it’s keeping them stuck. She shares 3 signs you’re lacking self-trust, where this self-doubt comes from, and how to start shifting your mindset to build confidence in yourself—without waiting for permission. ✨ You’ll learn: ✔️ Why you constantly overthink your choices ✔️ How to stop fearing mistakes & trust your intuition ✔️ The power of knowing your values & making aligned decisions Self-trust isn’t something you wait for—it’s something you build. Ready to take back control? Hit play and start trusting yourself today. 🎧 For more support visit www.laylaallen.co.uk [https://www.laylaallen.co.uk/] Follow me on: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/empoweredwithinher/] TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@laylaallenlifecoach] #self-trust #self-worth #personaldevelopmen #mindset #confidence #boundaries #overthinking #decisionmaking #empowerment #self-belief

The Quest for Validation: Do you trust yourself?

Are you constantly looking for reassurance before making a decision? Feel stuck because you don’t trust yourself? In this episode, we’re diving deep into the validation trap—why we crave external approval, how social media fuels it, and most importantly, how to break free. I’ll share how childhood experiences shape our need for validation, why trusting yourself feels so damn hard, and the mindset shifts that will help you start self-validating instead of waiting for permission. By the end of this episode, you’ll have a practical challenge to help you recognize where you’re seeking validation—and what to do instead to start trusting yourself today. 🔥 If you’re ready to stop outsourcing your worth, this one’s for you. For more support you can visit my website www.laylaallen.co.uk or follow me on my social media channels: Instagram- @empoweredwithinher [https://www.instagram.com/empoweredwithinher/] Tiktok - @laylaallenlifecoach [https://www.tiktok.com/@laylaallenlifecoach?_t=ZN-8uA7QRkhtw6&_r=1] If anything has resonated with you and/or you would like to ask a question, please email me contact@laylaallen.co.uk

"Feel the Fear & Do It Anyway" – Mastering The Comfort Zone Code

In this episode ofEmpowered Within Her, host Layla Allen delves intoThe Comfort Zone Code, offering practical strategies to overcome self-doubt and build unshakable self-trust. Layla shares personal anecdotes and actionable advice to help listeners step outside their comfort zones and embrace personal growth. Key Takeaways: * Embrace Discomfort: Understand that feeling uncomfortable is a natural part of growth. Layla discusses how to reframe discomfort as a positive sign of progress. * Take Action: Discover the importance of taking small, consistent steps to build confidence and expand your comfort zone. * Build Self-Trust: Learn techniques to develop internal validation and rely on yourself, reducing the need for external approval. Episode Highlights: * Personal Stories: Layla opens up about her own experiences with self-doubt and how she overcame them by stepping outside her comfort zone. * Practical Tips: Gain access to a three-step code designed to help you push past fear and take actionable steps toward personal growth. * Mindset Shifts: Explore how changing your perspective on discomfort and failure can lead to significant personal development. Tune in to this insightful episode to learn how to break free from self-imposed limitations and start building the life you desire. To get your FREE Comfort Zone Code - use this link - https://tinyurl.com/thecomfortzonecode For more FREEBIES - https://www.laylaallen.co.uk/freebies