Build your Family on the Right Foundation
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Theme: STRENGTHENING THE FAMILY – Joshua 24:15 - And if it seems evil to you to serve the Lord, choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the River, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”
Build Your Family on the Right Foundation
Matthew 7:24-27 - “Therefore whoever hears these sayings of Mine, and does them, I will liken him to a wise man who built his house on the rock: and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it did not fall, for it was founded on the rock. “But everyone who hears these sayings of Mine, and does not do them, will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand: and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it fell. And great was its fall.”
The Leaning Tower of Pisa in Italy is going to fall. Scientists travel to the town of Pisa every year to measure the building's slow descent. They report that the 179-foot tower, which was built in 1173, moves about one-twentieth of an inch a year, and is now 17 feet out of plumb. In 1990 & 2001 renovations may have saved the 853-year old tower and prevent it from collapsing. Quite significantly, the word “pisa” means “marshy land,” which gives some clue as to why the tower began to lean even before it was completed. Also, another issue is the fact that its foundation is only 10 feet deep! The reason the Leaning Tower of Pisa is leaning is because it is built on a faulty foundation.
One Man Built His House On The Sand - One man built his house with little preparation. He found a spot for his house and began to build. Sand is unstable, ever changing and moving. Sand offers no stability. Sand is not a good place to build a house. Sand can never provide a firm foundation.
People who build their lives on religion, self-righteousness, and false hope will not serve God. They will not sacrifice. They only walk the easy path. Sand builders like instant results, instant rewards, instant satisfaction, and instant pleasure. They are shallow people who love the heights, but hate the depths. They are hot and then cold. They are in and then out. They are up and then down.
One Man Built His House On The Rock - The word “rock” refers to “a large outcropping of rock; the bedrock.” While one man built his house on the sand, the other dug deep. He dug until he reached the bedrock and built his house on the rock. The rock does not move. It is unchanging and stable. Rock offers a good foundation for a house.
What God tells them to do in His Word, they do. What God warns them no to do, they avoid. They pay any price, walk any path, and do anything the Lord tells them to do. The house built on the rock is built by someone who realizes that God deserves the best. They sacrifice, they work, they do anything to honor the Lord. They love HIm, honor HIm, and obey Him. The rock builder’s obedience to the Word of God proves they love the Lord, John 14:15. Rock builders hear the Word of God, the Gospel, and make it the foundation for their lives.
The Foundation Nobody Sees
When people admire a beautiful home, they usually notice the paint, the windows, the landscaping, and the decorations. Very few people ask about the foundation.
Yet the most important part of the house is the part nobody sees.
The strength of a building is not determined by what is above the ground but by what is beneath it.
Likewise, strong families are not built on appearances.
A family may look successful on Facebook and still be falling apart spiritually.
A family may have money but lack peace.
A family may have education but lack wisdom.
A family may live in a large house but have no real home.
Jesus said the difference between a house that stands and a house that falls is the foundation.
Notice something important:
Both houses experienced the same storm.
One stood.
One collapsed.
The difference was not the storm.
The difference was the foundation.
Today many families are facing storms:
* Financial pressures
* Marital challenges
* Rebellious children
* Health concerns
* Cultural confusion
* Spiritual attacks
The question is not whether storms are coming.
The question is:
What are we building our family upon?
1. Build Your Family on Jesus Christ
1 Corinthians 3:11
"For other foundation can no man lay than that is laid, which is Jesus Christ."
Jesus did not say church attendance alone is the foundation.
He said He is the foundation.
Many people have built their families on:
* Money
* Careers
* Education
* Social status
* Athletic success
All of those things can disappear overnight.
But Jesus remains the same yesterday, today, and forever.
Illustration
In California, builders often construct homes with deep reinforced foundations because earthquakes are expected.
Wise builders prepare for trouble before trouble arrives.
Strong families anchor themselves in Christ before the storm comes.
2. Build Your Family on God's Word
Psalm 119:105
"Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path."
The Bible is God's instruction manual for families.
It teaches us:
* How to love
* How to forgive
* How to parent
* How to handle conflict
* How to manage finances
* How to walk with God
Many families are trying to navigate life without consulting the Manufacturer's instructions.
Short Story
A man bought an expensive piece of equipment.
Instead of reading the instructions, he assembled it himself.
When it failed, he blamed the manufacturer.
The problem wasn't the product.
The problem was that he ignored the instructions.
God's Word still works when we follow it.
3. Build Your Family with Prayer
Philippians 4:6
Prayer is the glue that keeps families connected to God.
The family that prays together learns to depend on God together.
Illustration
When Peter was in prison, the church prayed.
The chains fell off.
The doors opened.
Prayer still opens doors that keys cannot open.
Some battles in our families will not be won through arguments.
They will be won through prayer.
4. Build Your Family with Love
Colossians 3:14
"And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness."
Love is more than a feeling.
Love is a decision.
Love chooses patience when emotions run high.
Love chooses kindness when people are difficult.
Love chooses commitment when things get hard.
Illustration
A fire needs continual fuel to keep burning.
Likewise, relationships require continual expressions of love.
If love is not fed, it begins to fade.
5. Build Your Family with Forgiveness
Ephesians 4:32
"And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you."
Every family will experience disappointment.
The strongest families are not those without problems.
The strongest families are those that know how to forgive.
Short Story
Two brothers argued over an inheritance and stopped speaking for years.
After one suffered a serious illness, the other visited him.
Before he left, both were crying.
One brother said:
"We wasted years over something that wasn't worth losing each other."
Forgiveness repairs what pride destroys.
6. Build Your Family Through Godly Leadership
Ephesians 5:23
Joshua declared:
"As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord."
Joshua took responsibility for spiritual leadership.
Families become stronger when parents lead by example.
Children learn more from what they see than from what they hear.
Illustration
A lighthouse never leaves its position.
Because it stands firm, ships find their way home.
Parents must become spiritual lighthouses for their families.
7. Build Your Family Through Time Together
Deuteronomy 6:6-7
God instructed parents to teach His Word continually.
Strong families spend intentional time together.
Today many families live under the same roof but rarely connect.
Technology often gets more attention than relationships.
Illustration
A bank account cannot grow if no deposits are made.
Strong relationships require regular deposits of:
* Time
* Attention
* Encouragement
* Affection
8. Build Your Family for Future Generations
Psalm 145:4
"One generation shall praise thy works to another, and shall declare thy mighty acts."
The goal is not merely to have a strong family today.
The goal is to leave a legacy of faith tomorrow.
Joshua was thinking about future generations.
David thought about future generations.
Paul thought about future generations.
We must as
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