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27. Relationship incompatibility

It is with a heavy heart that I present to you the breakup episode-- we're talking about some of the things that prevent a relationship from working. Essentially, what makes two people incompatible. To me, incompatibility comes in four forms: intellectual incompatibility, romantic incompatibility, emotional incompatibility, and lifestyle incompatibility. That being said, I'm here to dissect each of these and decide (based purely on my own experience) which ones are absolutely damning and which can be overcome, so to speak. Enjoy.

ep 26. Sex [featuring Jia]

Listen, this one's 18+. If that's not you, kindly do get out of here-- feel free to return upon next week's upload. Now that we're all adults here, let's get into it. We're talking about all things sex; from the act itself to porn and masturbation all the way to discussions about virginity and its relevance to society. The basic, the raunchy, the goofy little questions! I must say, having Jia on this episode has been a lovely experience; do yourself a favor and see what she has to say ;) @judesjustsaying

ep 25. Red flags, manipulation, & emotional immaturity

Hi, welcome. Today we're getting real and we're getting informative. I'm talking about all things red flags, toxicity, manipulation, the like. I'll be pulling from my own past experiences (because what's the point in experiencing traumatic situations if you can't monetize the experience after the fact?) and sharing with you some of the warning signs I missed and some of the lessons that I learned. It got pretty real, and it was fun for me. So. <3 @judesjustsaying

ep 22. Relationships

Today it's about you guys. The subject matter of this episode was left pretty much entirely up to you -- we're talking relationships. The main things I discussed were what makes a 'serious' relationship, "right person, wrong time" (and with this, do you really need to love yourself before you love someone else?), and finally what, to me, constitutes cheating. It was a fun one and I'll see you Friday for part 2.

ep 21. Shame & embarrassment

Listen, I'm getting real with you today. We're talking about embarrassment and as such, I'm going to share with you two of my most socially heinous moments. Two instances that I look back upon with soul-crushing regret. We're also gonna talk about shame, what the difference between the two is, and what there is to be learned from each of them. I hope you enjoy <3 @ce1lard0or