The Sticky Thoughts

Minisode #5 - Lauren Ruth Martin Pt. 2

Welcome to Part 2 of our interview with  Lauren Ruth Martin of A Novel Life Podcast and Novel Counseling! In part 2, we continue our discussion on perfectionism (Sierra’s shows up in an unexpected but common way!), and delve into how perfectionism is steeped in white supremacy. Lauren & Marlees bond over how the pandemic has changed their working lives, and Sierra shares her desires for a more understanding corporate America. We finish off the episode with learning more about Lauren’s career! You can follow Lauren at @laurenruthmartin! IG: @thestickythoughtspodcast Sierra - @sierramagaret Marlees - @_marlees Mariella - @thatssomariella Music by Cradle Cat (IG: @cradlecat) https://www.cradlecat.com Artwork by Lauren Denhof

128 with Lauren Ruth Martin Pt. 1 - Perfectionism, Forgetting, & Drinking Water

This week on the Sticky Thoughts, we don't have a popstickle! We spoke on a situation that is rapidly changing and that we didn't have all the information on. We didn't want to put out a segment that didn't accurately reflect the complexities of the situation or our views on them.  Then in Part One of our interview with  Lauren Ruth Martin of A Novel Life Podcast and Novel Counseling joins us and we immediately become long lost friends. We discuss Real Housewives and white privilege and consider quitting the Bachelor. Lauren shares her work with Radically Open Dialectical Behavior Therapy (RODBT), correctly identifies Marlees as over controlled and Sierra as under controlled, and truly helps us better understand our relationship! We delve into the roots of perfectionism and how it puts all of us in boxes. Lauren's work with anxiety, depression, and perfectionism is important - especially during the pandemic! Hear more about Lauren and her work next week in part 2! Check out Lauren's podcast A Novel Life [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-novel-life-with-lauren-ruth-martin/id1503114949] and her counseling services at https://www.novelcounseling.com [https://www.novelcounseling.com] In Mariella's TikTok Corner, Mariella highlights crochet artist Kopy Kalii. [https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwif7pL2-Z7uAhXhEVkFHbWUDOsQFjACegQIARAC&url=https%3A%2F%2Fm.tiktok.com%2Fh5%2Fshare%2Fusr%2F6532074225891557377.html&usg=AOvVaw1l73rfXkoSybZeMDFClTTb] Her work brings joy! Support her work here! https://kopydolls.com [https://kopydolls.com] . Marlees is sticking with water, supported by amazing lavender tumblers [https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08BY525PC?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share]. Sierra is squashing the need to remember everything!  Full episodes drop every Sunday! Blog: https://www.thestickythoughts.com [https://www.thestickythoughts.com] IG: @thestickythoughtspodcast [https://www.instagram.com/thestickythoughtspodcast/?hl=en] Sierra - @sierramagaret [https://www.instagram.com/sierramargaret/] Marlees - @_marlees [https://www.instagram.com/_marlees/] Mariella - @thatssomariella [https://www.instagram.com/thatssomariella/] Music by Cradle Cat (IG: @cradlecat [https://www.instagram.com/cradlecat/]) https://www.cradlecat.com [https://www.cradlecat.com] Artwork by Lauren Denhof

127 - Engagements, ADHD, Intuition & Novelty

Before you hear this episode, we want to let you know it was recorded on January 5th, 2021. You won't hear us talking about the insurrection of white supremacist Trump supporters on January 6th, 2021... yet. Like many of you, we are taking time to process, educate, and take care of ourselves and we hope you are doing the same.  In our first episode of 2021, we recap our holidays, Sierra is still tired and Marlees is engaged! We get back into our long missed Popstickle with two creative picks. Using the Reface app led Sierra to a revelation about self confidence and Marlees has learned to take the moral value out of cleaning through the TikTok content of KC Davis (@domesticblisters [https://www.tiktok.com/@domesticblisters?lang=en]).  We talk in depth about ADHD - how it looked for middle school Sierra and how it looks now. Marlees recounts the time a woman called her voice annoying (look at me now lady!) and Mariella marvels at the biological reactions folks with ADHD and Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria experience! Sierra and Marlees describe how RSA played into a recent text conversation. Sierra describes her experience with medication and Marlees and Sierra recall how she almost her passport in Montreal.  In Mariella's TikTok corner, she describes how woman are dealing with the backlash to the Megan Thee Stallion "Body" dance trend. Sierra is sticking with novelty and Marlees' word of the year is intuition.  Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD): https://www.webmd.com/add-adhd/rejection-sensitive-dysphoria [https://www.webmd.com/add-adhd/rejection-sensitive-dysphoria] Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD): https://www.healthline.com/health/adhd#add-vs.-adhd [https://www.healthline.com/health/adhd#add-vs.-adhd] Full episodes drop every Sunday! IG: @thestickythoughtspodcast Sierra - @sierramagaret Marlees - @_marlees Mariella - @thatssomariella Music by Cradle Cat (IG: @cradlecat) https://www.cradlecat.com [https://www.cradlecat.com] Artwork by Lauren Denhof

126 - 2021: Stick It or Squash It

Welcome to The Sticky Thoughts - Tales of aging twenty somethings and the things they can't let go of. Sierra & Marlees, with over a decade long of friendship between them, discuss mental health, relationships, & pop culture through their own and other's sticky thoughts - those good and bad things you just can't get out of your head! In the finale of our end of the year trilogy, we are sharing our own reflections for the past year in the stickiest way - with stick it or squash! Marlees and Sierra share what they are keeping and letting go of from this year and we share listener's own stick its and squash its!  Full episodes drop every Sunday! IG: @thestickythoughtspodcast Sierra - @sierramagaret Marlees - @_marlees Mariella - @thatssomariella Music by Cradle Cat (IG: @cradlecat) https://www.cradlecat.com Artwork by Lauren Denhof

125 - Holiday Traditions!

Welcome to The Sticky Thoughts - Tales of aging twenty somethings and the things they can't let go of. Sierra & Marlees, with over a decade long of friendship between them, discuss mental health, relationships, & pop culture through their own and other's sticky thoughts - those good and bad things you just can't get out of your head! In the second of our end of the year trilogy, Marlees and Sierra come together to discuss holiday traditions, celebrating both Christmas and Chanukah, and why matching holiday Jim jams make us so happy! Full episodes drop every Sunday! IG: @thestickythoughtspodcast Sierra - @sierramagaret Marlees - @_marlees Mariella - @thatssomariella Music by Cradle Cat (IG: @cradlecat) https://www.cradlecat.com Artwork by Lauren Denhof