Call the Millers

Freebirth, Power, and the Loss of the Middle Ground | Call the Millers Ep.14

In this episode of Call the Millers, we share a brief personal update as we head into the Christmas season, including reflections on stepping back from social media and how that choice has been impacting our nervous systems, creativity, and sense of clarity. The heart of this conversation, though, is a thoughtful and honest discussion about freebirth culture and the recent Guardian article examining the Free Birth Society. As women who deeply value birth autonomy, intuition, and the right to informed choice, this is not a conversation rooted in fear or opposition. It is rooted in discernment. We explore how movements that begin as a rejection of harmful systems can sometimes recreate the very power structures they were meant to dismantle, just on the opposite end of the spectrum. We talk about the loss of nuance in modern birth spaces, the dangers of ideology replacing wisdom, and why the middle ground has become so uncomfortable for so many people. This episode is for women who believe birth is sacred, who honor intuition and sovereignty, and who are also willing to look honestly at how power, influence, and absolutism can quietly reshape a movement. A reflective conversation to close out the year, inviting more softness, humility, and discernment as we head into Christmas. — Love Rainbow & Janna

Is Social Media Quietly Ruining Our Lives?

In this episode of Call the Millers, we sit down to talk about something so many women feel but rarely say out loud: the way social media is shaping our lives, our motherhood, and even our sense of community. We share honest stories about how easy it is to get addicted to our phones, how social media is intentionally designed to keep us scrolling, and what we lose when we spend more time online than in our real, present lives. We also talk about my own journey of wanting to leave social media entirely and how I realized Instagram was the part of it that was quietly draining me the most. If you’ve ever questioned your relationship with your phone or wondered why being online feels so heavy, this conversation will feel like a breath of fresh air. — Love Rainbow & Janna

The Truth About Water Birth and Why Moms Deserve Better Information | Call The Millers Ep 12

This week we dig into a viral article claiming that water birth is dangerous. We talk through the claims, look at the actual numbers, and share what we have seen in real life with the women we care for. I have had three water births myself and Janna attends them regularly, so we understand this topic on a practical level and a research level. Our goal in this conversation is simple. We want women to feel informed instead of scared. Birth deserves calm, clarity, and honest evidence. Water birth can be a safe and gentle option and we unpack why this article created so much fear. If you have ever considered water birth or if the recent headlines made you nervous, this episode will help you take a deep breath and understand what is real and what is reaction. -Love, Rainbow & Janna

Why Mothers Feel So Alone After Birth (And How We Fix It) pt 3| Call the Millers Ep.11

So many women walk through birth feeling pressure, fear, and unexpected turns, then find themselves trying to process the whole experience without real support. Today we talk about why mothers feel so alone and what true care can look like. We get honest about rough births, unmet expectations, and how society quietly separates women from the community they need. This is a grounded conversation about connection, rest, safe spaces, and the kind of support that actually helps a mother heal. If you want to understand how to hold space for a new mother or you’ve felt isolated yourself, this episode will meet you right where you are. Mothers deserve real presence, real care, and real villagers. — Love Rainbow & Janna

When Your Pregnancy or Birth Plan Falls Apart (Pt 2) | Call the Millers Ep.10

So your pregnancy or birth plan is slipping out of your hands and nothing looks the way you imagined. You’re not alone. In this episode, we talk about what it feels like when everything changes, why there’s no easy answer, and how to navigate the shock, fear, grief, and pressure that can surface. We explore real scenarios, coping tools, communication with your team, and the kind of inner strength women rarely get credit for. Every woman and baby is different, and we honor that while offering grounded support you can actually use. If you’re facing the unexpected in pregnancy or birth, this conversation will help you feel less alone and more capable. — Love Rainbow & Janna