Curves and Vows

Navigating Wedding Planning as a Plus-Size Bride

n this episode of Curves and Vows, Christine Wright interviews Mila Clarke from The Hangry Girl about the unique challenges and experiences of planning a wedding while existing in a larger body. They discuss body positivity, the importance of self-love, and the evolving landscape of wedding attire for plus-size brides. Mila shares her personal journey, the significance of feeling beautiful on one's wedding day, and the need for inclusivity in the wedding industry. The conversation emphasizes the importance of celebrating oneself and finding joy in the wedding planning process. You can find Mila at The Hangry Woman [https://hangrywoman.com/] or her Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/thehangrywoman/] or her TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@thehangrywoman] and her Diabetes App the Glucose Guide can be found here [https://community.glucoseguide.app/] Emma Arletta's Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/emma.arletta/] for plus size wedding aspirational imagery Black Wolf Crossfit's website [https://blackwolfcf.com/] if you feel like joining me there! And Ricardo's Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/sanscoullottes/] if you want him to train you! Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Curves and Vows 06:16 Navigating Wedding Planning in a Larger Body 16:38 The Importance of Body Positivity 28:59 Finding Inspiration for Wedding Attire 39:39 Self-Love and Acceptance in Wedding Planning 46:34 Final Thoughts on Wedding Planning and Body Image

The Impact of Body Image on Wedding Planning

In this episode of Curves and Vows, Christine Wright and therapist Samantha Ter Heege discuss the pervasive issues of fat phobia and weight stigma, particularly in the context of the wedding industry. They explore how societal norms and media representation affect body image, self-acceptance, and the emotional experiences of individuals in larger bodies. Samantha shares her insights on therapy, self-affirmation techniques, and the importance of supportive environments for couples planning their weddings. The conversation emphasizes the need for greater visibility and representation of diverse body types in media and the wedding industry, while also addressing personal experiences with body image and societal expectations. You can find Samantha at: https://slttherapy.com/ [https://slttherapy.com/] Follow me! Website: ⁠⁠https://swishandclick.com/⁠⁠ [https://swishandclick.com/] Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/swishnclick/⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/swishnclick/] TikTok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@swishandclick⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@swishandclick] Facebook: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/swishandclickphoto⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/swishandclickphoto] Sign up for my Workshop: ⁠https://swishandclick.myflodesk.com/bluemagnoliainclusive⁠ [https://swishandclick.myflodesk.com/bluemagnoliainclusive] Takeaways * Fat phobia is a widespread issue affecting self-esteem. * Social media amplifies body image issues and fat phobia. * Cultural perceptions of body size are deeply ingrained. * Representation in media impacts how individuals view themselves. * Family dynamics can perpetuate negative body image. * Self-acceptance is a journey that many struggle with. * Couples in larger bodies face unique challenges in wedding planning. * Positive self-affirmations can help rewire negative thoughts. * Supportive environments are crucial for body positivity. * Therapy can provide tools for navigating body image issues. 00:00 Introduction to Fat Phobia and Weight Stigma 02:43 Understanding Fat Phobia 05:31 The Impact of Social Media on Body Image 08:23 Personal Experiences with Body Image 11:21 Cultural Perceptions of Body Size 14:21 Representation in Media and Weddings 17:04 Generational Body Image Issues 20:13 The Emotional Impact of Body Image 23:11 Reprogramming Self-Perception 26:15 The Importance of Representation in Weddings 28:46 Reflecting on Childhood Experiences 30:31 Body Image and Projection 33:46 Navigating Body Positivity in Weddings 37:40 Support Systems and Body Acceptance 42:29 The Impact of Weight Loss on Self-Perception 47:06 Embracing Change and Self-Acceptance 50:59 Positive Self-Talk and Affirmations

Personal Experience with a Local Publication

In this episode of Curves and Vows, Christine shares her personal experience with the lack of plus-size inclusion with a local publication. She discusses the importance of finding photographers who understand and celebrate diverse body types, recounting a disheartening experience with a wedding publication that failed to include a plus-size bride in their print issue. The conversation emphasizes the need for better representation and sensitivity in the wedding industry. Instagram account of Wed Society incident: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DBH42dKppEe/ [https://www.instagram.com/reel/DBH42dKppEe/] Follow me! Website: ⁠https://swishandclick.com/⁠ [https://swishandclick.com/] Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/swishnclick/⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/swishnclick/] TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@swishandclick⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@swishandclick] Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/swishandclickphoto [https://www.facebook.com/swishandclickphoto] Sign up for my Workshop: https://swishandclick.myflodesk.com/bluemagnoliainclusive [https://swishandclick.myflodesk.com/bluemagnoliainclusive] Takeaways * Plus-size brides should ensure their photographer is plus-size friendly. * Photographers need to understand how to pose plus-size bodies. * Many photographers lack experience with plus-size clients. * It's crucial to see a photographer's portfolio featuring diverse body types. * Wedding publications often overlook plus-size representation. * Personal experiences can highlight industry biases. * Communication with photographers is key to getting flattering photos. * The wedding industry needs to improve inclusivity. * Disappointment can arise from unfulfilled expectations in publications. * Advocacy for plus-size representation is essential in the wedding industry. 00:00 Introduction to Curves and Vows 00:27 Personal Story on Plus-Size Inclusion 01:54 The Importance of Plus-Size Friendly Photographers 05:55 A Disheartening Experience with a Wedding Publication 10:46 The Aftermath and Reflection on Inclusion

The Invisible Couple: Visibility and Lack of Representation

This conversation explores the challenges and experiences of plus-size couples in the wedding industry, focusing on the lack of visibility and representation in wedding media. Christine Wright shares her personal journey and insights into how the industry can better include and celebrate plus-size individuals, emphasizing the economic potential of this demographic. The discussion highlights the need for empathy, understanding, and change within the wedding space to create a more inclusive environment for all couples. Follow me! Website: https://swishandclick.com/ [https://swishandclick.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swishnclick/ [https://www.instagram.com/swishnclick/] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@swishandclick [https://www.tiktok.com/@swishandclick] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/swishandclickphoto [https://www.facebook.com/swishandclickphoto] Takeaways * The wedding industry often excludes plus-size individuals from representation. * Visibility in media is crucial for body positivity and acceptance. * Many plus-size couples feel invisible in wedding planning resources. * The majority of women in the US are size 14 and above. * Plus-size individuals are eager to spend money on beautiful attire. * Social media algorithms often favor thinner bodies in wedding content. * Radical acceptance of one's body is a journey for many. * The economic impact of including plus-size representation is significant. * There is a growing movement for inclusivity in the wedding industry. * Creating a positive space for discussion is essential for change. 00:59 Understanding Visibility in the Wedding 02:01 Navigating Body Image as a Plus-Size Couple 04:33 The Struggles of Wedding Planning and Body Acceptance 07:13 Visibility and Representation in the Wedding Industry 07:27 The Impact of Attractiveness in Media 15:50 Visibility and Representation in the Wedding Industry

#1: Intro and Why I am Doing this Podcast

In the inaugural episode of the Curves and Vows podcast, Christine Wright of Swish and Click Photography shares her personal journey as a plus-size bride and the challenges she faced in the wedding industry. She discusses the lack of representation for larger bodies in wedding photography and fashion, emphasizing the need for inclusivity and understanding from wedding vendors. Christine aims to create a space for plus-size couples and educate vendors on how to better serve this market, highlighting the significant percentage of women who wear larger sizes and the growing demand for stylish options. Plus Size TikTok video on lack of dress options: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8UMUpa6/ [https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8UMUpa6/] Elevated and Inclusive Workshop: https://swishandclick.myflodesk.com/bluemagnoliainclusive [https://swishandclick.myflodesk.com/bluemagnoliainclusive] Follow me! Website: https://swishandclick.com/ [https://swishandclick.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swishnclick/ [https://www.instagram.com/swishnclick/] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@swishandclick [https://www.tiktok.com/@swishandclick] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/swishandclickphoto [https://www.facebook.com/swishandclickphoto]