Rethinking Dads

Reframing the Conversation around Sex: Jerry's Journey with 4 Daughters

In this super interesting conversation, Jerry shares how raising 4 daughters and being the lone male in his house has helped him rethink (and reframe as he puts it) the conversation and thoughts surrounding sex. He shares his experience of growing up in a highly religious household where sex was shamed and how he wanted to break that cycle with his own children. Jerry emphasizes the need for open communication and empowerment when discussing sex with children, starting from a young age.  Michael and Kevin reflect on their own experiences and the generational challenges they face in rethinking the conversation around sex. Kevin, Michael, and Jerry discuss their experiences and approaches to talking about sex and relationships with their children.  They explore the importance of creating a safe and open environment for these conversations, free from shame and judgment. This awesome conversation highlights the need for parents to work through their own beliefs and biases in order to have meaningful and supportive conversations with their children. If you like what you're hearing, thank you in advance for leaving us a 5-star rating and a written review. We ask for this because it helps other Dads discover our podcasts. (the world of podcasts, like many things is driven by ratings and reviews) In addition, it would mean the world if you shared with another Dad (or Mom) you know so they can join in the conversation and offer even more insight into the world of being a Dad. Join the conversation on the Rethinking Dad Facebook Group. [https://www.facebook.com/groups/1458983501338917] Thanks for listening and sharing!!!

BONUS - Kevin & Michael Driving To Airport Talking Manifestation

In this special bonus episode of Rethinking Dads, Kevin and Michael recorded their conversation while Michael was taking Kevin to the airport. This conversation actually started a couple of days prior when family and friends all gathered at Kevin's house for a discussion on life, manifestation, gratitude and raising our vibration and frequency. We all get stuck dealing with the hamster wheel of life. There's no doubt our days get crazy and we fall into ruts and lose sight of what's important. What we tried to do with this episode, and our personal conversations lately, is bring the most important things back into focus. Bring back into focus our desire to bring about abundance, support, love, time and all the joys in life we believe are inherent to all of us. We hope you enjoy and thanks for listening! If you like what you're hearing, thank you in advance for leaving us a 5-star rating and a written review. We ask for this because it helps other Dads discover our podcasts. (the world of podcasts, like many things is driven by ratings and reviews) In addition, it would mean the world if you shared with another Dad (or Mom) you know so they can join in the conversation and offer even more insight into the world of being a Dad. Join the conversation on the Rethinking Dad Facebook Group. [https://www.facebook.com/groups/1458983501338917] Thanks for listening and sharing!!!

Figuring Out What You Want. And Asking For It.

In this episode, Michael and Kevin talk about the importance, as Dads to balance our giving to family and also doing the things that we enjoy and that nurture us. Kevin shares a heartwarming story about his dad's experience at a pool tournament and how it taught him the value of claiming moments of joy. We delve into the sacrifices Dads often make and the challenges of balancing personal wants with family needs. It also touches on the role of Moms in delaying gratification and the importance of applying grace to different perspectives. The conversation concludes by highlighting the importance of claiming what you want and creating space for adventures. Takeaways * Dads should not be afraid to ask for what they want and embrace their personal desires. * Allowing ourselves moments of joy and pursuing our passions can have a profound impact on our well-being. * Balancing personal wants with family needs can be challenging, but it is important to find a way to prioritize both. * Applying grace and understanding to different perspectives can help navigate conflicting value systems within a family. Context and understanding can make it easier to offer grace in relationships. * Exploring workable scenarios can lead to unexpected and joyful experiences. * Asking for what you want and creating opportunities for joy is important. * Being open to new experiences and overcoming fear and scarcity mindset is crucial. * Getting clear on what you want and being the director of your own journey is empowering. If you like what you're hearing, thank you in advance for leaving us a 5-star rating and a written review. We ask for this because it helps other Dads discover our podcasts. (the world of podcasts, like many things is driven by ratings and reviews) In addition, it would mean the world if you shared with another Dad (or Mom) you know so they can join in the conversation and offer even more insight into the world of being a Dad. Join the conversation on the Rethinking Dad Facebook Group. [https://www.facebook.com/groups/1458983501338917] Thanks for listening and sharing!!!

Navigating Neurodivergent Parenting: Insights and Coping Mechanisms Navigating Neurodiversity in Parenting

Welcome to another thoughtful conversation with a couple of Dads on the Rethinking Dads podcast! In this episode, Michael and Kevin bring back Bhagavan and Steven Sweeney to discuss a topic they both (independently) asked to share their thoughts on... Neurodivergency - both as a Dad and with kids. The conversation delves into the experiences of neurodivergent parenting, specifically ADHD, and the challenges and strengths associated with it. Bhagavan and Steven share personal stories, insights, and coping mechanisms, highlighting the importance of understanding oneself and others in the context of neurodiversity. The conversation also delves into the challenges and strategies of parenting neurodivergent children, emphasizing the importance of being present, curious, and understanding. "Almost every perceived issue or what do they call it, dysfunction, on one side of that coin you call it a dysfunction, on the other side of the same thing you call it a strength or an attribute." - Bhagavan Takeaways * Understanding oneself and others in the context of neurodiversity is crucial for effective parenting and personal growth. * Neurodivergent traits, such as distraction and non-conventional idea association, can be both challenges and strengths in different contexts. * The conversation emphasizes the importance of allowing children to learn from failure and develop their own coping mechanisms, while also providing support and guidance. * Creative problem-solving and novel thinking are valuable attributes associated with neurodiversity, and can be harnessed in various situations. The importance of being present and curious in parenting neurodivergent children * The need for support and understanding in parenting neurodivergent children Chapters 00:00 Understanding Neurodivergent Traits and Coping Mechanisms 26:01 The Dual Nature of Neurodivergent Traits: Challenges and Strengths 36:59 Empowering Children through Neurodiversity and Personal Growth 46:15 Navigating Neurodiversity in Parenting 59:17 Understanding Natural Consequences in Parenting Keywords neurodivergent parenting, ADHD, coping mechanisms, personal stories, insights, neurodiversity, understanding, challenges, strengths, parenting, neurodivergent children, natural consequences, labels, support, understanding, neurodiversity, challenges, strategies If you like what you're hearing, thank you in advance for leaving us a 5-star rating and a written review. We ask for this because it helps other Dads discover our podcasts. (the world of podcasts, like many things is driven by ratings and reviews) In addition, it would mean the world if you shared with another Dad (or Mom) you know so they can join in the conversation and offer even more insight into the world of being a Dad. Join the conversation on the Rethinking Dad Facebook Group. [https://www.facebook.com/groups/1458983501338917] Thanks for listening and sharing!!!

Rethinking Dads Update!!!! We are moving!

Hey Dads! Writing this update to you on Fathers Day...so Happy Dad's Day!!!! Kevin and I are excited to share a quick update with you on our podcast. We are moving! Starting July 1st, you will be able to hear new episodes on the Let's Get Real Radio Show feed. Let's Get Real is a weekly radio show I host for men. Giving men a space to figure out their shit. On Let's Get Real, we discuss everything from time management, work issues to struggles with addiction and more. As a Dad and a man, I encourage you to check out recent episodes and segments of Let's Get Real. And so you don't miss any upcoming episodes of Rethinking Dads, please subscribe or follow on YouTube or your favorite podcast app. Listen and follow Let's Get Real on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3e7pwhKxBWILUW7uyMlSWj?si=1bf6922f466e42e0] Listen and follow on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lets-get-real-a-talk-show-for-guys/id1747535014] Subscribe to Let's Get Real on YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@letsgetrealradioshow] Thanks everyone for listening and supporting! If you like what you're hearing, thank you in advance for leaving us a 5-star rating and a written review. We ask for this because it helps other Dads discover our podcasts. (the world of podcasts, like many things is driven by ratings and reviews) In addition, it would mean the world if you shared with another Dad (or Mom) you know so they can join in the conversation and offer even more insight into the world of being a Dad. Join the conversation on the Rethinking Dad Facebook Group. [https://www.facebook.com/groups/1458983501338917] Thanks for listening and sharing!!!