What They Don’t Teach You About Success in School | Hussein Farhat & Shahrez Hayder | Ep. 23

What They Don’t Teach You About Success in School | Hussein Farhat & Shahrez Hayder | Ep. 23

Why do we spend years in school learning facts, but never learn the skills that actually lead to success? In this episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with Hussein Farhat and Shahrez Hayder to explore the real lessons school never taught — about mindset, discipline, personal growth, and navigating life beyond grades. They discuss why traditional education misses the skills that matter most: building confidence, taking risks, managing failure, understanding human behavior, and developing the habits that lead to real-life achievement. Through stories and actionable advice, this episode uncovers the gap between formal learning and practical success. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: • The skills school never teaches that actually matter • How to develop habits for long-term growth • Why mindset matters more than grades • How to navigate real-world challenges with confidence • The importance of self-discipline and focus • Lessons from failure that school never covers • How to create opportunities rather than waiting for them Timestamps: CHAPTERS * 00:00:00 Introduction: Two Paths to Success Through Faith * 00:08:06 The First Sale: When Effort Finally Meets Results * 00:10:29 The Athlete's Advantage: Why Sports Build Successful People * 00:23:33 Identity is Everything: Becoming Who You Want to Be * 00:16:47 Mastering Lust: The Discipline That Changes Everything * 00:30:26 The Fake Natty Controversy: Handling Hate and Proving Doubters Wrong * 01:15:17 Competition as Collaboration: Iron Sharpens Iron * 01:00:49 Midpoint Break: The Mission of Authentic Storytelling * 01:25:45 The Day-to-Day: Structure vs Surrender to Allah * 01:44:18 From Homeless to Millionaire in 14 Months: The Power of Tawakkul * 01:36:34 Success Redefined: Fulfillment Over Happiness * 01:47:01 The Inner Child: Your Gift to the World * 01:58:21 People Who Pay, Pay Attention: The Investment Mindset * 02:01:55 Final Words: Take Action From Where You Want to Be Whether you’re a student, recent graduate, or lifelong learner, this episode offers practical guidance and insight to help you take control of your success. Follow Hussein Farhat: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hussein.fht/ [https://www.instagram.com/hussein.fht/?hl=en] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCO1XWL44wzgDWixNaSoLVtQ [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCO1XWL44wzgDWixNaSoLVtQ] Website: https://husseinfarhat.com/ [https://husseinfarhat.com/] Follow Shahrez Hayder: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shahrezhayder/ [https://www.instagram.com/shahrezhayder/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shahrezhayder [https://www.linkedin.com/in/shahrezhayder] Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose (TPWC): Website: https://thepathwechoose.com [https://thepathwechoose.com] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/ [https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/] TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/ [https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/] Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real, practical conversations about success, mindset, and the lessons life teaches that school never will.

How to Manifest Anything Through Faith | Muhammad Al-Ubaidy & Shahrez Hayder | Pt. 1

This episode is proudly presented by Ketkoot Iraqi Chargrilled Chicken! The go-to spot for bold Iraqi grilled chicken, whole chicken feasts, and delicious community meals in Mississauga and beyond. https://linktr.ee/ketkoot [https://linktr.ee/ketkoot] Why does working yourself to exhaustion sometimes keep you stuck in the exact same place? Why does chasing success feel like pushing opposing magnets together? In this episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with high-performance strategists Muhammad Al-Ubaidy and Shahrez Hayder to explore the connection between faith, neuroscience, and subconscious programming. They break down how mental conditioning shapes reality, stress, and opportunities — and how aligning your heart, mind, and actions can transform your life. Muhammad and Shahrez challenge the modern hustle culture, redefining manifestation through a spiritual lens. They share how generational trauma, lifestyle habits, and toxic environments cloud the mind, and provide practical strategies to reverse this. From the 4 stages of consciousness to biological indicators of chronic anxiety, they explain how true surrender (Tawakul) can unlock a state of peak performance where opportunities flow naturally. If you follow podcasts like The Diary of a CEO, On Purpose with Jay Shetty, or The Tim Ferriss Show, or authors like Dr. Joe Dispenza and James Clear, this episode will deepen your understanding of faith, human potential, and success. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: • The Islamic perspective on turning a God-given idea into reality • The Law of Parallels: why chasing Rizq (sustenance) doesn’t work • How to clear childhood programming between ages 0–7 to reclaim your natural state • Why chronic anxiety signals misalignment with your Lord • The Headlight Principle for handling high-pressure situations • How modern lifestyle habits limit visualization and manifestation • How Nikola Tesla’s philosophy aligns with mindful presence (Murakaba) Timestamps: CHAPTERS * 00:00:00 Introduction: The Moment Where Reality Changes * 00:03:11 The Heart of Manifestation: Connecting to Allah Through His Names * 00:13:31 The Magnet Metaphor: Understanding Parallel Realities and Alignment * 00:23:40 Breaking the Idols: Consciousness, Beliefs, and the Subconscious Mind * 00:41:33 Midpoint Break: The Mission of Authentic Storytelling * 00:42:21 The Four Stages of Learning: From Incompetence to Mastery * 00:57:05 The Trifecta: Taqwa, Tawakkul, and Murakaba * 01:04:10 Living in the Present: Anxiety, Surrender, and Finding Peace * 01:02:25 Babies and Presence: Learning Islam from Pure Consciousness * 01:21:04 Visualization and Creativity: Your Divine Right to Co-Create Whether you’re pivoting a business, managing stress, or rebuilding daily discipline, this episode gives a practical, soul-centered roadmap beyond typical self-help advice. Follow Muhammad Al-Ubaidy: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reachmohammed/ [https://www.instagram.com/reachmohammed/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moe.ady.3/ [https://www.facebook.com/moe.ady.3/] Website: https://themirror-book.com/ [https://themirror-book.com/] Follow Shahrez Hayder: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shahrezhayder/ [https://www.instagram.com/shahrezhayder/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shahrezhayder [https://www.linkedin.com/in/shahrezhayder] Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose (TPWC): Website: https://thepathwechoose.com [https://thepathwechoose.com] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/ [https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/] TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/ [https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/] Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real, thoughtful conversations on faith, manifestation, personal growth, and the path we choose.

He Got Tired of Waiting, So He Fixed Montreal Himself | Saad Tekiout & Shahrez Hayder

He Got Tired of Waiting, So He Fixed Montreal Himself | Saad Tekiout & Shahrez Hayder In this episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with Saad Tekiout and Shahrez Hayder to explore the story behind the Montreal man who went viral for fixing potholes across the city himself. What started as one simple act of service quickly became something much bigger. Saad began repairing potholes for friends, family, and people across Montreal before the videos ever went viral. For him, it was never about attention. It was about solving a problem he saw in his city and helping people who were tired of waiting for someone else to step in. This conversation goes beyond potholes. Saad shares why he sees Montreal, Quebec, and Canada as his community, why he believes helping others is the same as helping yourself, and why small actions can create a much larger ripple effect. Shahrez also joins the conversation to discuss masculinity, responsibility, purpose, leadership, and what it means to take action instead of just complaining. In this episode, you’ll learn: • Why Saad started fixing potholes in Montreal • How one simple act turned into a city-wide movement • Why real leadership starts with taking responsibility • What it means to serve your community without waiting for permission • How small actions can create a domino effect • Why Saad believes the mission is bigger than potholes • The connection between purpose, masculinity, and action Whether you’re from Montreal, interested in community change, or simply inspired by people who choose action over excuses, this episode is a powerful reminder that sometimes the biggest movements start with one person deciding to fix what’s in front of them. Timestamps: CHAPTERS * 00:00:00 Introduction: The Man Who Fixed Montreal's Potholes Himself * 00:01:37 The Path of a Regular Citizen: Why He Started Filling Potholes * 00:03:14 Masculinity Defined: Being Unapologetically Yourself * 00:06:16 Helping Your Community: The Village Mentality * 00:08:21 The Inner Child and Finding Your Purpose * 00:12:09 Taking Action Without Seeking Permission * 00:14:57 The Government Response and Standing Your Ground * 00:16:34 Beyond Potholes: Building a Movement for Change * 00:17:43 Business Values: Sincerity and Putting Customers First * 00:19:15 Focusing on Positives: The Power of Selective Attention * 00:29:58 The Homeless Crisis: Addressing Root Causes * 00:36:23 Discipline and Purpose: Never Getting Tired of Success * 00:43:58 The School System: Finding Your Own Path * 00:47:29 The Report Card Theory: Double Down on Your Strengths * 00:59:16 Taking Action: What Stops People and How to Overcome It * 01:05:56 Dress for the Job You Want: The Power of Appearance * 01:03:41 Final Message: You Are What You Do, Not What You Say Follow Saad Tekiout: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marquize.7/ [https://www.instagram.com/marquize.7/] Follow Shahrez Hayder: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shahrezhayder/ [https://www.instagram.com/shahrezhayder/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shahrezhayder [https://www.linkedin.com/in/shahrezhayder] Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose (TPWC): Website: https://thepathwechoose.com [https://thepathwechoose.com] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/ [https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/] TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/ [https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/] Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real conversations on purpose, responsibility, leadership, community, and the decisions that shape who we become.

Why "Knowing" Islam Isn’t Changing Your Life | Muhammad Al-Ubaidy & Shahrez Hayder

Why "Knowing" Islam Isn’t Changing Your Life | Muhammad Al-Ubaidy & Shahrez Hayder Why do so many people have faith and belief but still struggle to take action? In this powerful episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with Muhammad Al-Ubaidy and Shahrez Hayder to explore the real gap between faith, discipline, and consistent action. This conversation breaks down why people often feel stuck between what they believe and what they actually do. From procrastination and lack of discipline to fear, overthinking, and misalignment this episode dives deep into the psychology behind taking action and building consistency. If you follow top North American podcasts like The Diary of a CEO, On Purpose with Jay Shetty, The Tim Ferriss Show, or authors like James Clear, Simon Sinek, Brené Brown, and Ryan Holiday, this episode connects deeply with conversations around self discipline, mindset, productivity, and personal growth. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:  • Why having faith without action leads to frustration • The real reason people struggle with discipline and consistency • How to overcome procrastination and overthinking • The mindset shift needed to take consistent action • How to align your beliefs with daily habits • Building self discipline and mental strength • Turning intention into real results and progress Whether you're a student, entrepreneur, professional, or someone trying to improve their life, this episode gives you practical insights to close the gap between belief and execution. Timestamps: CHAPTERS * 00:00:00 Introduction: The Heart vs. The Mind - Finding Truth Within * 00:01:10 The Heart as the Gateway to the Divine * 00:03:14 Fixing the Inner to Transform the Outer Reality * 00:05:25 The Mind is Contractionary, The Heart is Expansionary * 00:28:50 Living in the Present Moment: The Experience of Life * 00:41:13 The Trifecta: Taqwa, Tawakkul, and Murakaba * 00:50:19 Understanding Shaitan: Know Your Enemy to Defeat Him * 00:40:25 Midpoint Break: The Mission of Authentic Storytelling * 01:02:54 The Levels of Nafs: From Guilt to Unconditional Love * 01:15:56 Actions Follow the Heart: Becoming an Absolute Muslim * 01:29:20 The Power of Theta State: Manifesting Through Surrender  Follow Muhammad Al-Ubaidy: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reachmohammed/ [https://www.instagram.com/reachmohammed/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moe.ady.3/ [https://www.facebook.com/moe.ady.3/] Website: https://themirror-book.com/ [https://themirror-book.com/]  Follow Shahrez Hayder: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shahrezhayder/ [https://www.instagram.com/shahrezhayder/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shahrezhayder [https://www.linkedin.com/in/shahrezhayder]  Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose (TPWC): Website: https://thepathwechoose.com [https://thepathwechoose.com] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/ [https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/] TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/ [https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/] Subscribe to The Path We Choose (TPWC) for powerful conversations on self discipline, faith, mindset, productivity, personal growth, and high-performance habits.

Why Women Test Men: Psychology, Attraction & Relationship Dynamics Explained | Shahrez Hayder

Shahrez Hayder on Women Psychology, Attraction & Relationship Dynamics Why do women test men in relationships and what does it really mean? In this powerful episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with Shahrez Hayder to break down the psychology behind attraction, relationship dynamics, and behavioral patterns between men and women. This conversation explores why women often test men’s confidence, emotional stability, and leadership, and how most men misunderstand these situations leading to confusion, frustration, and failed connections. Shahrez explains how these “tests” are not manipulation, but signals rooted in psychology, attraction, and emotional security. If you follow top North American podcasts like The Diary of a CEO, On Purpose with Jay Shetty, The Tim Ferriss Show, or authors like Brené Brown, Esther Perel, and Mark Manson, this episode connects deeply with conversations around modern relationships, dating psychology, and emotional intelligence. In This Episode, You’ll Learn:  • Why women test men in dating and relationships • The psychology of attraction and emotional security • Why most men fail these tests (and how to improve) • How to build confidence and emotional stability • The role of masculine energy and leadership • How to respond to relationship challenges the right way • Building stronger, more authentic connections Timestamps: CHAPTERS * 00:00:00 Introduction: What Masculinity Really Means * 00:01:03 The Unshakable Man: Faith as the Foundation * 00:05:24 Understanding Women: The Bridge to Jannah * 00:07:40 The Test Never Ends: Why Women Challenge Men * 00:12:32 Biochemistry of Love: Oxytocin, Cortisol, and Safety * 00:14:19 The Triangle: Allah, Man, and Woman * 00:15:12 Words Have Weight: The Power of a Man's Speech * 00:16:01 The Hockey Stick Effect: When Attraction Suddenly Dies * 00:16:40 Women Are Loyal to How They Feel About You * 00:30:12 What Women Misunderstand About Men * 00:35:56 Default Settings: All Women Are the Same, But Different * 00:37:08 Midpoint Break: The Mission of Authentic Storytelling * 00:38:03 Don't Save Her: Accepting vs Fixing Women * 00:25:26 Men Build Connection Through Time, Women Through Space * 00:21:32 Quality Over Quantity: The Prophet's Example * 00:46:30 Insecurity vs Gira: Protecting Ego or Protecting Her * 00:54:37 Confidence Doesn't Make Noise: The Silent Strength * 00:56:55 The Power of Honesty: Never Lie to Your Woman * 00:45:09 Spirituality and Women: Speaking to Her Soul * 01:08:17 What Men and Women Must Unlearn * 01:11:52 Redefining Respect: Who Are You Really Trying to Please * 01:14:26 The Qawam Identity: Becoming the Protector and Provider * 01:16:55 Cortisol and Masculinity: How Men Affect Women's Health Whether you're navigating dating, building a relationship, or trying to understand modern relationship psychology, this episode offers practical insights to improve your confidence, communication, and emotional awareness. Follow Shahrez Hayder: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shahrezhayder/ Instagram (Alt): https://instagram.com/shahrez.muslim LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shahrezhayder/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@shahrez.muslim Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose (TPWC):  Website: https://thepathwechoose.com [https://thepathwechoose.com] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/ [https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/] TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/ [https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/] Subscribe to The Path We Choose (TPWC) for conversations on dating psychology, relationships, attraction, emotional intelligence, self improvement, and high-performance mindset.