Cancel Me Already

The Hate List: Dating, “Toxic” Culture & Spiritual Nonsense

Unfiltered conversations for people who are tired of lying nicely. In this first episode of Cancel Me Already, Rostok & Joana reveal their official “hate list”: a brutally honest dissection of the cultural trends, personas and behaviours we all quietly despise but rarely say out loud. They unpack the overuse of the word “toxic”, the rise of spiritual yoga hipsters, unsolicited psychedelic advice, ASMR dependence, rave and festival misery, rich kids pretending to be poor, prudish people who police others, dating culture, body count jealousy, and the fantasy of a rating app for exes. Topics discussed: • the “toxic” cliché and why it’s become meaningless • spiritual performance, ayahuasca evangelists & fake enlightenment • ASMR and why it feels invasively intimate • rave culture, festival trauma and class-coded poverty aesthetics • rich people cosplaying as broke • prudishness, sexual insecurity & body count obsession • dating culture and emotional economy • the idea of anonymously rating exes and hookups • class, status and cultural performance in modern London This is not a self-help show. This is not a safe space. It’s an honest one. Cancel Me Already is a podcast for the culturally unmanageable — the people who want smart, irreverent, provocative, psychologically sharp conversations without therapy language or moral hand-holding. If you came to feel seen — you’re in the right place. If you came to be comfortable — you’re not.