Femme Tea

What is your definition of a cheater? In today’s episode, we discuss emotional & physical cheating. What would you do if your partner cheated? Is there hope for surviving infidelity and staying with your partner ? We also share our thoughts on Jubilee’s YouTube video “Do All Cheaters Think The Same?” [https://youtu.be/UKCHG13qMK8 ] where viewers got an inside perspective on people who’ve cheated or are the serial cheaters. We hope you tune in and enjoy today’s episode! Keep up with the #FemmeTeaParty @Femme_Tea [https://www.instagram.com/femme_tea/] & Your Hosts; * Bibi @bibilovesrady [https://www.instagram.com/bibilovesrady/] * Geri @gerardineperalta [https://www.instagram.com/gerardineperalta/] References: * https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201910/the-8-main-reasons-why-people-cheat [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201910/the-8-main-reasons-why-people-cheat] * https://youtu.be/UKCHG13qMK8 [https://youtu.be/UKCHG13qMK8] - Do All Cheaters Think The Same | Spectrum from Jubilee * https://www.elitedaily.com/p/can-you-forgive-your-partner-after-theyve-cheated-heres-how-according-to-experts-8384044 [https://www.elitedaily.com/p/can-you-forgive-your-partner-after-theyve-cheated-heres-how-according-to-experts-8384044]

We are "friends" with ALL our exes...Aren't you? In today's episode, we're breaking down the reasons whether or not it's a good idea to stay friends with an ex. We also try to understand those who do stay friends with a former flame & if it's okay if your current partner is besties with all their exes. How would you feel? We know we aren't okay with ANY OF IT. Some may say we're insecure just because we refuse to let our partners hangout or text their exes. But what do you think? Keep up with the #FemmeTeaParty @Femme_Tea [https://www.instagram.com/femme_tea/] & Your Hosts; * Kat @hereskat [https://www.instagram.com/hereskat/] * Bibi @bibilovesrady [https://www.instagram.com/bibilovesrady/] * Geri @gerardineperalta [https://www.instagram.com/gerardineperalta/] References: * https://www.google.com/amp/brightside.me/inspiration-relationships/psychologists-highlight-7-reasons-why-staying-friends-with-an-ex-is-a-bad-idea-794841/amp/ [https://www.google.com/amp/brightside.me/inspiration-relationships/psychologists-highlight-7-reasons-why-staying-friends-with-an-ex-is-a-bad-idea-794841/amp/] * https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-love-and-war/201405/the-10-worst-reasons-stay-friends-your-ex?amp [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-love-and-war/201405/the-10-worst-reasons-stay-friends-your-ex?amp]

In today’s episode, we’re opening up about our experiences with anxiety & depression. We’re also talking about some of the ways we’ve coped and handled our anxiety, including self-soothing methods & professional therapy. **Please note, this is a heavy topic and could possibly be a trigger. If discussions involving anxiety and depression are a tigger for you, we ask that you skip this week’s episode. We will be back next week with a fun relationship topic.** *DISCLAIMER*: We said self-medicate at 13:07, when we meant; to self soothe, looking for healthy mediums to manage anxiety and depression such as meditation, yoga, breathing exercise, working out etc. (Please note, you should always speak to a medical professional as these are just a few things that have helped us and it may not work for everyone and a doctor is highly recommended) Keep up with the #FemmeTeaParty @Femme_Tea [https://www.instagram.com/femme_tea/] & Your Hosts; * Kat @hereskat [https://www.instagram.com/hereskat/] * Bibi @bibilovesrady [https://www.instagram.com/bibilovesrady/] * Geri @gerardineperalta [https://www.instagram.com/gerardineperalta/] LINKS FOR HELP: Help is available Speak with a counselor today National Suicide Prevention Lifeline Hours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish. Learn more [https://support.google.com/websearch/?p=crisis_prevention_info] SUICIDE HOTLINE # 1-800-273-8255 If The Person You Care About Is In Crisis, Please Encourage Them To Seek Help Immediately. Direct Them To Call 1-800-273-TALK [tel:1-800-273-TALK] (8255) To Reach A 24-Hour Crisis Center, Text MHA To 741741, Call 911, Or Go To The Nearest Emergency Room. You Can Also Call These Numbers If You Fear For Someone's Safety Or Life. https://www.mhanational.org/im-looking-mental-health-help-someone-else [https://www.mhanational.org/im-looking-mental-health-help-someone-else] 1-888-NYC-WELL [tel:1-888-NYC-WELL] (1-888-692-9355 [tel:1-888-692-9355]) is a free, confidential help line for New York City residents. You can call 24 hours per day/7 days a week. The staff of trained mental health professionals help callers find mental health and substance abuse services. NYC Well is multilingual and multicultural: * 1-888-NYC-WELL [tel:1-888-NYC-WELL](1-888-692-9355 [tel:1-888-692-9355]) * 1-888-692-9355 [tel:1-888-692-9355] (Español) * 1-888-692-9355 [tel:1-888-692-9355](中文) * 711 (TTY for hearing impaired) You can also text WELL to 65173 or go to NYC Well [https://nycwell.cityofnewyork.us/en/], an online resource for individuals, families and agencies in need of help and information. Additional Resources: The SAMHSA Behavioral Health Treatment Services Locator [https://findtreatment.samhsa.gov/] is an on-line source of information for persons seeking treatment facilities in the United States or U.S. Territories for mental health and/or substance abuse/addiction problems. https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/depression/what-is-depression [https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/depression/what-is-depression]

In today's episode, we are chatting about our own personal insecurities, loving ourselves, and how we’ve worked towards loving our bodies just the way they are. (FYI it's always a work in progress, sometimes we love our bodies, sometimes we don't.) Accepting ourselves as we are is always a tug of war, but we’re here to tell you that society’s idea of beautiful shouldn’t be #GOALS. Keep up with the #FemmeTeaParty @Femme_Tea [https://www.instagram.com/femme_tea/] & Your Hosts; * Kat @hereskat [https://www.instagram.com/hereskat/] * Bibi @bibilovesrady [https://www.instagram.com/bibilovesrady/] * Geri @gerardineperalta [https://www.instagram.com/gerardineperalta/] References: * https://www.huffpost.com/entry/foster-healthy-body-image-child_l_5c86b4a8e4b0d936162add28 [https://www.huffpost.com/entry/foster-healthy-body-image-child_l_5c86b4a8e4b0d936162add28]

This week, we’re discussing double standards & mansplaining. We get personal by sharing stories of how we’ve experienced these issues throughout our lives, & unfortunately in the workplace, too. Keep up with the #FemmeTeaParty @Femme_Tea [https://www.instagram.com/femme_tea/] & Your Hosts; * Kat @hereskat [https://www.instagram.com/hereskat/] * Bibi @bibilovesrady [https://www.instagram.com/bibilovesrady/] * Geri @gerardineperalta [https://www.instagram.com/gerardineperalta/]