Growing Yet Grown

Why You Can't Talk About Money With Your Friends

Most people secretly struggle with discussing their income, yet they also miss out on valuable insights from friends who understand their financial realities. What if honesty about money could unlock better opportunities, deeper trust, and smarter decisions without judgment or shame? In this eye-opening episode, Simone and Doyin share personal stories, from Nigeria and Cameroon to the US, revealing why conversations about earnings are often viewed as taboo and how that costs us opportunities and growth. Don't let silence keep you from the opportunities and relationships you deserve. Hit play and start transforming your financial conversations today.

How to Actually Find Someone Worth Building With

In this season finale, we discuss the complexities of dating in today's world. Dating in your 30s feels harder than it should be. You have the career and some stability - But finding a serious relationship still feels impossible. We have an honest conversation about the challenges of modern dating, marriage, red flags, money, boundaries, dating apps, arranged marriages, and how to choose the right life partner. Because love isn’t just chemistry — it’s decisions, character, and alignment

Building Wealth - What ACTUALLY matters and what's HYPE?

In this conversation, Doyin and Simone explore the multifaceted concept of building wealth, emphasizing the importance of financial freedom, flexibility, and the various strategies one can employ to achieve financial stability. They discuss the significance of understanding personal definitions of wealth, the impact of lifestyle choices, and the necessity of making informed financial decisions. The conversation also touches on the challenges of societal expectations, the role of time in wealth accumulation, and the importance of having honest discussions about financial responsibilities with family.   Chapters   00:00 Introduction to Wealth Building 02:27 Defining Wealth: Freedom and Flexibility 05:28 Strategies for Building Wealth Without Inheritance 08:23 Understanding the Concept of 'Enough' 11:47 Key Money Moves in Your 30s 14:30 Overrated Wealth Strategies: Home Ownership and Side Hustles 17:41 The Reality of Passive Income 20:25 Quiet Wealth Decisions: Marriage and Time 23:26 Balancing Family Obligations and Wealth Building 26:03 Starting from Zero: Advice for New Wealth Builders

Is it ever okay to Give UP on your goals?

In this episode, Doyin and Simone explore the concept of grit, its significance in achieving goals, and the importance of focus and consistency. They discuss the challenges of maintaining motivation and the wisdom required to know when to move on from goals that no longer serve you. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-evaluation and understanding the difference between passion and business success.     Chapters   00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage 02:01 Understanding Grit and Its Importance 05:07 The Role of Focus and Consistency 10:03 Knowing When to Move On 14:08 Evaluating Success and the Fear of Quitting   Keywords   grit, motivation, focus, consistency, personal growth, goal setting, perseverance, quitting, self-evaluation, emotional intelligence

Adult Friendship - The Tough Conversation We Avoid

In this episode, we have an honest conversation about friendship and the dynamics that come with maintaining these relationships in your 30s. We discuss the differences between friendships and romantic relationships, the impact of comparison, the role of money in friendships, how money and life stages quietly change the people we grow with and the expectations we have of our friends. Because the truth is - making friends as an adult isn’t easy, and keeping them is even harder. The conversation emphasizes the importance of genuine connections, the need for support, and the value of being intentional in friendships.