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It's Not You, It's My Attachment Style

20 min · 14. okt. 2025
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Today, it’s just me, and we’re getting real about attachment styles. From anxious and avoidant to disorganized and secure, we’re breaking down what these actually mean, how they show up in our relationships, and how to start healing the patterns that hold us back. It’s self-awareness, healing, and a little bit of therapy talk — but don’t worry, it’s still Unserious. Sources: https://health.clevelandclinic.org/anxious-attachment-style [https://health.clevelandclinic.org/anxious-attachment-style] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pL1NBH7LrXk [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pL1NBH7LrXk] https://www.attachmentproject.com/blog/anxious-attachment/ [https://www.attachmentproject.com/blog/anxious-attachment/] https://www.businessinsider.com/guides/health/mental-health/anxious-attachment-style?utm_source=chatgpt.com [https://www.businessinsider.com/guides/health/mental-health/anxious-attachment-style?utm_source=chatgpt.com] https://lightfully.com/12-signs-of-an-anxious-attachment-style-and-how-to-treat-it/ [https://lightfully.com/12-signs-of-an-anxious-attachment-style-and-how-to-treat-it/] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_I8WY8_rT4I&t=13s [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_I8WY8_rT4I&t=13s] https://lightfully.com/12-signs-of-an-anxious-attachment-style-and-how-to-treat-it/ [https://lightfully.com/12-signs-of-an-anxious-attachment-style-and-how-to-treat-it/] https://www.simplypsychology.org/how-to-move-from-anxious-attachment-to-secure.html [https://www.simplypsychology.org/how-to-move-from-anxious-attachment-to-secure.html] https://positivepsychology.com/secure-attachment-style/#:~:text=Traits%20of%20a%20secure%20attachment,by%20trust%20and%20mutual%20respect [https://positivepsychology.com/secure-attachment-style/#:~:text=Traits%20of%20a%20secure%20attachment,by%20trust%20and%20mutual%20respect]. https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/avoidant-attachment#:~:text=The%20repeated%20rejection%20of%20attempts,or%20unresponsive%20to%20their%20needs [https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/avoidant-attachment#:~:text=The%20repeated%20rejection%20of%20attempts,or%20unresponsive%20to%20their%20needs]. https://healingthefearfulavoidant.com/the-6-lesser-known-causes-of-the-fearful-avoidant-attachment-style/ [https://healingthefearfulavoidant.com/the-6-lesser-known-causes-of-the-fearful-avoidant-attachment-style/] https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5817243/ [https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5817243/] https://www.verywellmind.com/secure-attachment-signs-benefits-and-how-to-cultivate-it-8628802 [https://www.verywellmind.com/secure-attachment-signs-benefits-and-how-to-cultivate-it-8628802]

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episode It's Not You, It's My Attachment Style cover

It's Not You, It's My Attachment Style

Today, it’s just me, and we’re getting real about attachment styles. From anxious and avoidant to disorganized and secure, we’re breaking down what these actually mean, how they show up in our relationships, and how to start healing the patterns that hold us back. It’s self-awareness, healing, and a little bit of therapy talk — but don’t worry, it’s still Unserious. Sources: https://health.clevelandclinic.org/anxious-attachment-style [https://health.clevelandclinic.org/anxious-attachment-style] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pL1NBH7LrXk [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pL1NBH7LrXk] https://www.attachmentproject.com/blog/anxious-attachment/ [https://www.attachmentproject.com/blog/anxious-attachment/] https://www.businessinsider.com/guides/health/mental-health/anxious-attachment-style?utm_source=chatgpt.com [https://www.businessinsider.com/guides/health/mental-health/anxious-attachment-style?utm_source=chatgpt.com] https://lightfully.com/12-signs-of-an-anxious-attachment-style-and-how-to-treat-it/ [https://lightfully.com/12-signs-of-an-anxious-attachment-style-and-how-to-treat-it/] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_I8WY8_rT4I&t=13s [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_I8WY8_rT4I&t=13s] https://lightfully.com/12-signs-of-an-anxious-attachment-style-and-how-to-treat-it/ [https://lightfully.com/12-signs-of-an-anxious-attachment-style-and-how-to-treat-it/] https://www.simplypsychology.org/how-to-move-from-anxious-attachment-to-secure.html [https://www.simplypsychology.org/how-to-move-from-anxious-attachment-to-secure.html] https://positivepsychology.com/secure-attachment-style/#:~:text=Traits%20of%20a%20secure%20attachment,by%20trust%20and%20mutual%20respect [https://positivepsychology.com/secure-attachment-style/#:~:text=Traits%20of%20a%20secure%20attachment,by%20trust%20and%20mutual%20respect]. https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/avoidant-attachment#:~:text=The%20repeated%20rejection%20of%20attempts,or%20unresponsive%20to%20their%20needs [https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/avoidant-attachment#:~:text=The%20repeated%20rejection%20of%20attempts,or%20unresponsive%20to%20their%20needs]. https://healingthefearfulavoidant.com/the-6-lesser-known-causes-of-the-fearful-avoidant-attachment-style/ [https://healingthefearfulavoidant.com/the-6-lesser-known-causes-of-the-fearful-avoidant-attachment-style/] https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5817243/ [https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5817243/] https://www.verywellmind.com/secure-attachment-signs-benefits-and-how-to-cultivate-it-8628802 [https://www.verywellmind.com/secure-attachment-signs-benefits-and-how-to-cultivate-it-8628802]

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