Redefining Happiness

20. Why You Keep Chasing Other People’s Versions of Happiness

You did everything right. Checked all the boxes. So why does it still feel…off? In this episode of Redefining Happiness, we look at how so many women end up chasing lives that don’t actually fit them. I’ll share how I got caught up in a high-achieving sales culture I thought I wanted, until I realized it was never really mine. We’ll talk about why some goals feel empty after you reach them, how to spot when you’re living by someone else’s values, and what to do instead. What you’ll learn: * Why success can feel disappointing * How to tell if a goal is really yours * What’s underneath the urge to prove yourself * A self-reflection challenge to bring your happiness back home If you enjoy today's episode and want to continue this journey with other like-minded people, join us in my FREE Skool community [https://www.skool.com/thegoodlife/about?ref=87e64150db684b01824aa6b4cdb6cc26] where you’ll find: * A free workshop that walks you through the most common happiness myths  * The podcast resources hub  * A community of others on the same path.  Come find your tribe! Go to skool.com/thegoodlife [https://www.skool.com/thegoodlife/about?ref=87e64150db684b01824aa6b4cdb6cc26] to sign up. Connect With Me: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/karencastillohappiness/] | Website [https://www.karencastillo.org/] | Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/KarenCastilloHappiness/] Music: "Be Happy" by danamusic

19. The Truth About Why Nothing Feels Like Enough

Ever feel like no matter what you achieve, it's never quite enough? You land the promotion, buy the dream house, or reach that goal weight, but the excitement fades faster than you expected, leaving you wondering "what's next?" If this sounds familiar, you're experiencing something psychologists call hedonic adaptation, and you're definitely not alone. In this episode of Redefining Happiness, we break down the science behind why our biggest achievements often leave us feeling empty and searching for the next milestone. You'll discover the two-part psychological process that keeps us stuck in an endless cycle of wanting more, and why happiness always seems just out of reach. What You'll Learn: ·       The psychology of hedonic adaptation and why your brain is wired to reset to baseline happiness ·       How the "adapt and level up" cycle keeps you chasing the next achievement ·       Why thinking of happiness as a destination sets you up for disappointment ·       Practical strategies to find satisfaction and contentment in your current life ·       How to pursue goals without depending on them for your happiness This episode offers real solutions for breaking free from the "never enough" mindset. Whether you're struggling with career satisfaction, relationship fulfillment, or general life contentment, you'll walk away with actionable insights for creating sustainable happiness. Stop chasing happiness and start redefining it. Your journey to lasting satisfaction starts here. And be sure to check out the FREE Podcast Resources Hub [https://www.skool.com/thegoodlife/about?ref=87e64150db684b01824aa6b4cdb6cc26], your go-to library for exercises, templates, and exclusive content to help you apply what you’re learning each week. Use THIS LINK [https://www.skool.com/thegoodlife/about?ref=87e64150db684b01824aa6b4cdb6cc26] to get started or head to karencastillo.org [https://www.skool.com/thegoodlife/about?ref=87e64150db684b01824aa6b4cdb6cc26] and click on “Podcast.” If you haven’t signed up yet, this is the perfect time to join. It’s free, and once you’re in, you’ll get access to every episode’s tools, including bonus downloads I don’t share anywhere else.   Connect With Me: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/karencastillohappiness/] | Website [https://www.karencastillo.org/] | Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/KarenCastilloHappiness/] Music: "Be Happy" by danamusic

18. Savoring: The Happiness of Looking Back

In this final part of our three-part series on Stretching Happiness Across Time, we explore Reflective Savoring, the art of keeping good moments alive after they’re over. You’ll learn how reflective savoring works, why it matters, and simple ways to build it into your life so that joy lasts far beyond the moment itself. We’ll tie everything together with the dinner-with-friends example from earlier episodes, showing how anticipation, presence, and savoring create a complete cycle for experiencing more happiness. What you’ll learn in this episode: * How savoring strengthens your memories and boosts happiness * Fred Bryant’s research on the benefits of savoring * Practical ways to savor daily moments, both big and small * How anticipation, presence, and savoring work together to stretch joy across time And be sure to check out the FREE Podcast Resources Hub [https://www.skool.com/thegoodlife/about?ref=87e64150db684b01824aa6b4cdb6cc26], your go-to library for exercises, templates, and exclusive content to help you apply what you’re learning each week. Use THIS LINK [https://www.skool.com/thegoodlife/about?ref=87e64150db684b01824aa6b4cdb6cc26] to get started or head to karencastillo.org [https://www.karencastillo.org/] and click on “Podcast.” If you haven’t signed up yet, this is the perfect time to join—it’s free, and once you’re in, you’ll get access to every episode’s tools, including bonus downloads I don’t share anywhere else. Connect With Me: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/karencastillohappiness/] | Website [https://www.karencastillo.org/] | Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/KarenCastilloHappiness/] Music: "Be Happy" by danamusic

17. Presence: The Happiness of Right Now

You looked forward to a dinner out with friends, made the plans, counted the days, and then spent the night half-distracted, checking your phone and thinking of other things. Sound familiar? In Part 2 of our three-part series on “Stretching Happiness Across Time,” we’re talking about presence and how to feel the good in the moment. You’ll learn why being mentally checked out is so common (especially in our phone-addicted world), how it affects your happiness, and why even small moments of awareness can shift how connected and content you feel in your life. We’ll explore: * The science behind presence and happiness * How mindless scrolling hijacks your attention and your joy * What it means to “savor” a moment, and why it matters * A simple daily practice to bring your mind back to now Happiness isn’t hiding in the next big thing. It’s often already here, you just have to be present enough to feel it. And be sure to check out the FREE Podcast Resources Hub [https://www.skool.com/thegoodlife/about?ref=87e64150db684b01824aa6b4cdb6cc26], your go-to library for exercises, templates, and exclusive content to help you apply what you’re learning each week. Use THIS LINK [https://www.skool.com/thegoodlife/about?ref=87e64150db684b01824aa6b4cdb6cc26] to get started or head to karencastillo.org [https://www.karencastillo.org/] and click on “Podcast.” If you haven’t signed up yet, this is the perfect time to join—it’s free, and once you’re in, you’ll get access to every episode’s tools, including bonus downloads I don’t share anywhere else.   Connect With Me: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/karencastillohappiness/] | Website [https://www.karencastillo.org/] | Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/KarenCastilloHappiness/] Music: "Be Happy" by danamusic

16. Anticipation: The Happiness of Looking Forward

This week on Redefining Happiness, we’re kicking off a three-part series on stretching happiness across time, starting with anticipation. Have you ever noticed how looking forward to something, big or small, can boost your mood days in advance? In this episode, I’ll explain how anticipation works in the brain, why it matters more than we realize, and how you can intentionally build more of it into your everyday life. We’ll talk about why daydreaming isn’t a waste of time, how small rituals can spark big joy, and what stops us from letting ourselves feel excited. Plus, I’ll share five simple ways to bring anticipation into your week, no vacation or big event required. Your Happiness Challenge this week will help you start practicing this right away, so you can stop rushing through your days and start enjoying what’s ahead. If you’re ready to feel more joy now, not just when the good thing finally happens, this one’s for you. And be sure to check out the FREE Podcast Resources Hub [https://www.skool.com/thegoodlife/about?ref=87e64150db684b01824aa6b4cdb6cc26], your go-to library for exercises, templates, and exclusive content to help you apply what you’re learning each week. Use THIS LINK [https://www.skool.com/thegoodlife/about?ref=87e64150db684b01824aa6b4cdb6cc26] to get started or head to karencastillo.org [https://www.karencastillo.org] and click on “Podcast.” If you haven’t signed up yet, this is the perfect time to join—it’s free, and once you’re in, you’ll get access to every episode’s tools, including bonus downloads I don’t share anywhere else. Connect With Me: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/karencastillohappiness/] | Website [https://www.karencastillo.org/] | Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/KarenCastilloHappiness/] Music: "Be Happy" by danamusic