Bear Crawl with Dads

Addiction, Healing, Hope, Family Reconciliation and More with Mickey Peters

In episode #31, we are honored to have Mickey, a fellow Houstonian whose story is both intriguing and inspiring.  We delve into Mickey's relationship with his father, exploring the challenges and lessons learned from a childhood marked by frequent moves and emotional avoidance.  Mickey opens up about his struggles with addiction, including a significant period of his life where he dealt with pornography and infidelity. He shares the profound impact this had on his marriage and family, and how he and his wife, Stephanie, have worked through these challenges.  Throughout the episode, Mickey's story is a testament to resilience, recovery, and the ongoing journey of personal growth.     00:00:00 - Introduction and Welcome  00:00:33 - Guest Introduction: Mickey  00:01:23 - Mickey's Background and Early Life  00:02:21 - Moving and Childhood Challenges  00:03:56 - Settling in South Texas  00:04:49 - Education and Career Path  00:05:43 - Family and Current Life  00:06:40 - Influence of Mexican Culture  00:08:30 - Raising Bilingual Children  00:11:14 - Relationship with Father  00:12:07 - Emotional Avoidance in Family  00:13:10 - Baseball Story and Emotional Suppression  00:14:14 - Impact of Pornography  00:15:47 - Double Life and Addiction  00:17:07 - Father's Support in Recovery  00:18:13 - Positive Aspects of Relationship with Father  00:20:09 - Father's Work Ethic and Discipline  00:22:27 - Bonding Through Activities  00:24:45 - Father's Intentional Presence  00:28:12 - Best Advice from Father  00:30:51 - Perseverance and Not Quitting  00:32:18 - Challenges as a Father  00:33:17 - Affair and Its Impact  00:37:00 - Encouragement for Struggling Fathers  00:38:16 - Addiction and Seeking Help  00:42:33 - Role of Spouse in Marital Issues  00:46:29 - Recovery and Healing Process  00:48:08 - Steph's Role in Recovery      WHERE WE CAN CONNECT:  Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/bearcrawlwithdads/] Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on Twitter [https://twitter.com/bearcrawldads] Connect with Bear Crawl with Dads on Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100088821457600] Follow Ross Purdy on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/ross-purdy-136597245/] Bear Crawl with Dad’s website [https://bearcrawlwithdads.com/]   FOLLOW & REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS  Are you following the podcast? 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Balancing Fatherhood and Entrepreneurship, the Power of Community, Horizontal vs Vertical, and More with Michael McCormack

In episode #30, we visit with Michael, a fellow dad sharing his journey in fatherhood. Michael talks about being a new dad with a daughter and a son, along with his wife of almost 10 years. The conversation touches on the joys and challenges of parenting, highlighting the continuous learning experience that comes with raising kids. Tune in for some heartfelt insights and relatable experiences from two dads navigating the world of fatherhood. Join us for this episode of "Bear Crawl with Dads" as we navigate the rewarding path of fatherhood, learning and growing along the way.   00:00:48 - Guest Introduction: Michael Ross introduces his guest, Michael, who shares a bit about his background, family, and his transition from oil and gas to co-founding a software company. 00:02:47 - Michael's Work Explained Michael explains the nature of his work in ERP software for wholesale distributors and how it helps businesses operate more efficiently. 00:04:19 - Michael's Role in His Company Discussion about Michael's role as COO in his startup, overseeing operations, development, and customer support. 00:05:24 - Balancing Fatherhood and Entrepreneurship Ross and Michael discuss the challenges of balancing new fatherhood with starting and running a new business. 00:06:56 - Michael's Childhood and Influence of His Father Michael shares memories of his father, their relationship, and how it shaped his approach to life and fatherhood. 00:11:54 - Parenting Styles and Communication Ross and Michael delve into the importance of communication in parenting and how Michael's father used dialogue as a form of teaching and discipline. 00:13:35 - Connecting Through Activities Discussion on how physical activities like playing catch were a medium for bonding and communication between Michael and his father. 00:17:16 - Reflecting on Parental Influence Michael reflects on how his parents encouraged his natural talents and how that influenced his approach to parenting. 00:22:09 - Transitioning to Discuss Michael as a Dad Shift in conversation to focus on Michael's experiences and challenges as a dad. 00:25:24 - Challenges of Fatherhood Michael discusses the challenges he faces in balancing work commitments with being a present and engaged father.   00:28:55 - Importance of Community and Communication in Parenting Michael emphasizes the importance of community support and open communication with his wife to maintain alignment in parenting. 00:32:04 - Strategies for Being a Present Parent Michael shares his strategies for ensuring he remains an active and present parent despite a busy professional life. 00:36:19 - Aligning Family and Career Goals Discussion on how Michael aligns his career goals with his priorities as a husband and father, emphasizing the importance of his faith in guiding his decisions.   RESOURCES MENTIONED: Follow Michael McCormack on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-mccormack-10xerp/] Follow 10X ERP on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/company/10x-erp/] Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters by Meg Meeker [https://www.amazon.com/Strong-Fathers-Strong-Daughters-audiobook/dp/B017V4W69U/ref=sr_1_1?crid=ERAL1NSGVHJF&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.bRgVx8dIEnahlPUm43aD0Odzdm2NmPCdR5ntgfcybcMf56ni4pMh15jdy2GEVODXmZ_USccU0Jm_mr-SgqVuVu0J0-FqSCPYIotQNCGN5wTmy4QTcux20PSiP4JR69wgsexPwwRsjgG1YUGKlEkHjQDulbz8wq_RdpnxV_rusr0bQ1vAY-2TNnSyPgBt2CW_5W9hdcz4MQ_rfnZaArybD5Bu5PSAzbUJ0ebEJUDABh8.S0jGK7Mk-_ch8x8_ZBFPec5IzCvIIp6y-2c31tnzuYk&dib_tag=se&keywords=strong+fathers%2C+strong+daughters&qid=1715171766&sprefix=strong+fathers%2C+stro%2Caps%2C112&sr=8-1] Raising a Strong Daughter in a Toxic Culture by Meg Meeker [https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Strong-Daughter-Toxic-Culture/dp/B08L8CYQ1Z/ref=sr_1_1?crid=13N0E9GTSVCO4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.ChfWFelvIFBjOfkaLYvVhmoVI3BQYwIJdCzzQxVZxA4pisdMkuCkFs9djT9MavVL21BOd9kwCkG6mCHd9_ANeQ.hS27RXsvmulwMjIg5ckEPRlxD-_IF79Paqr5RDlAa3A&dib_tag=se&keywords=raising+a+strong+daughter+in+a+toxic+culture+book&qid=1715171944&s=audible&sprefix=raising+a+strong+daughter%2Caudible%2C124&sr=1-1] Raising Emotionally Strong Boys by David Thomas [https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Emotionally-Strong-Boys-Tools/dp/B0B5YHBV6K/ref=sr_1_1?crid=39TXERPKENL58&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Ho3N3mtvGXgpz97ESshjOI4vCFHIG42by5Wioz62EGEjkcbQmEFFX7V-1k7OKFl6xJfkRmF_66LoJ2vXmNJbSWD4y6tjbyJjCeVSsEVLty1q0etCwVd4MU1EZR_noUNZl8CD-ijUQq1dur7ewuaD4qft7Yo5_NewP6yUMV_Q_gPxk3AWKWhuLlXbBxW7h7pyhUXGkVcsoAFGQmrj39UJsMrb-p1TPn_7nhmqpvEMLTI.LySidY6nSAo_u1RkxMJGdbc5U51kDx0PkmHkJu5yPtw&dib_tag=se&keywords=raising+emotionally+strong+boys&qid=1715171997&s=audible&sprefix=raising+emotionally+strong+boy%2Caudible%2C123&sr=1-1] Faithful Fathering Initiative by Rick Wertz [https://faithfulfathering.org/] What Makes Love Last? By John Gottman/Nan Silver [https://www.amazon.com/What-Makes-Love-Last-audiobook/dp/B0095PES54/ref=sr_1_1?crid=ZUI439KFT5NL&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.1ssPwZx1pO6BIARe2Zaemuhzh_kYetCYY4vrnkOMXipYy74nrig1gMJW6RoVZyDaHoRX1MgCV248MRBWgu9m6Ik_Jdfh01-nCkCvUGfe7L56nF0DqrcEclElGCDng79swKZmXIa6RF5f92DebZqeLg.aZKOAD6ZZRRLlVFpqab8S2FSzVH1EDTwlvvAcB34j3A&dib_tag=se&keywords=what%27s+makes+love+last&qid=1715172069&s=audible&sprefix=what%27s+makes+love+last%2Caudible%2C114&sr=1-1] Eight Dates by John Gottman, Julie Schwartz Gottman, Doug Abrams, Rachel Abrams [https://www.amazon.com/Eight-Dates-audiobook/dp/B07ZWBXZQ2/ref=sr_1_1?crid=10I6BHDU9LSSZ&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.lo83kzrxoM3fMz160LuhdGr3JfR-WaKX1Y7F_RT72Z7tvdRwgwGRF1jWc7NR1HAarGx87zUZIieW2vzbznnWl_Sc8F7q0enV339ksnBvFUBc0qAoN7mW39bQHE7u-A_CXrCylGNqJhZ0gF0BYWpfzAHvhUgn9vGfZ4ZFWLLuZIRzeFy-UYpzw_OXZhekFy0udMjFnAc6npPdCHIYNIxpsNFO43msKuWgCOFqI4N5JKM.4dda3FXxhIQMq6opfTl7OcIOGcgM-QqaqQWHb6HvTZ4&dib_tag=se&keywords=eight+dates&qid=1715172118&s=audible&sprefix=eight+dates%2Caudible%2C121&sr=1-1]     WHERE WE CAN CONNECT:  Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/bearcrawlwithdads/] Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on Twitter [https://twitter.com/bearcrawldads] Connect with Bear Crawl with Dads on Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100088821457600] Follow Ross Purdy on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/ross-purdy-136597245/] Bear Crawl with Dad’s website [https://bearcrawlwithdads.com/]     FOLLOW & REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS  Are you following the podcast? 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Profound Transformation, Creating Family Culture, and More with Brian Smith

In episode #29, we visit a with fellow Houstonian and Baylor Bear, Brian Smith. Brian shares his journey of becoming a better father and husband, drawing from the profound transformation he witnessed in his own father after a pivotal moment of faith. We explored the challenges and joys of parenting, particularly the unique experience of raising daughters. Brian's stories about his father's shift from a hardworking provider to a present and engaged parent were not only inspiring but also a testament to the power of personal change. Brian's message of gratitude to his father for the life lessons imparted and his desire to pass on those values to his daughters was a powerful reminder of the enduring influence of a father's love and guidance. Join us for this episode of "Bear Crawl with Dads" as we navigate the rewarding path of fatherhood, learning and growing along the way.    00:02:54 - Brian and His Wife's Long-Distance Relationship  00:03:42 - Brian's Houstonian Roots and Family Background  00:04:16 - Favorite BBQ Spot  00:05:07 - Daughters and Parenting Experience  00:06:02 - Father's Influence and Leap of Faith  00:07:10 - The Impact of Faith on Brian's Father  00:09:10 - Brian's Reflection on His Father's Transformation  00:11:12 - Father's Career Crisis and Faith Journey  00:18:19 - Challenges as a Father  00:20:04 - Realization of Fatherhood's Impact  00:21:28 - Thoughts on Raising Two Girls  00:22:13 - Advice from His Father  00:24:57 - Reflections on His Father's Advice and Legacy  00:25:41 - Parenting Philosophy and Challenges  00:27:24 - Aspirations for His Daughters' Self-Esteem  00:28:01 - Intentional Parenting Moments  00:29:07 - Perspective on Empowering His Daughters  00:33:06 - Transition from Guiding to Letting Go as a Parent  00:34:10 - Gratitude for His Father's Example  00:36:09 - Thoughts on Creating Family Traditions and Rites of Passage  00:37:10 - Plans for Creating a Family Culture  00:38:24 - Concerns About Social Media's Impact on His Daughters  00:39:39 - Intention to Protect His Daughters in a Digital Age  00:41:41 - Desire for Open Communication with His Daughters  00:42:56 - Thoughts on Establishing Family Traditions  00:44:10 - Family Culture of Community Service  00:45:03 - Personal Rites of Passage and Family Traditions  00:46:16 - Intention to Create Memorable Experiences with His Daughters  00:49:49 - Gratitude and Understanding Toward His Father  00:50:11 - Message to His Dad Now That He's a Father     RESOURCES MENTIONED: Baylor University [https://www.baylor.edu/] Memorial High School [https://mhs.springbranchisd.com/] Stephen F Austin State University [https://www.sfasu.edu/] Independence, TX [http://www.independencetx.com/] Enchanted Rock [https://tpwd.texas.gov/state-parks/enchanted-rock] Mexia, TX [https://cityofmexia.com/] Goode Co. BBQ [https://goodecompanybarbeque.com/?_ga=2.141643378.1347321678.1709220293-1962948489.1709220293&_gac=1.253268219.1709220294.Cj0KCQiA84CvBhCaARIsAMkAvkIGKdhBfgpUuiTn9U9ryDAtUfSVtu1KC9wvV-m56qsoA_sZsB4YwNIaAqY4EALw_wcB]  Demaris BBQ [https://demeris.com/]   WHERE WE CAN CONNECT:  Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/bearcrawlwithdads/] Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on Twitter [https://twitter.com/bearcrawldads] Connect with Bear Crawl with Dads on Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100088821457600] Follow Ross Purdy on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/ross-purdy-136597245/] Bear Crawl with Dad’s website [https://bearcrawlwithdads.com/]     FOLLOW & REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS  Are you following the podcast? If you are not, I want to encourage you to follow today so you don’t miss any future episodes! I have so many amazing guests and topics lined up; I would hate for you to miss a single one!  Click here [https://urldefense.proofpoint.com/v2/url?u=https-3A__podcasts.apple.com_us_podcast_bear-2Dcrawl-2Dwith-2Ddads_id1654780908&d=DwMCaQ&c=euGZstcaTDllvimEN8b7jXrwqOf-v5A_CdpgnVfiiMM&r=EY8-bfV2sgKw41Rft5lOTattsokUK36hHemhzABWZT8&m=iLUl8_jzvxSdEZYm9_3bg_3k8_WzxutRILQRVAW045I&s=ZXwnrqb1s2YKI-FEbBCf69ysjMDJB--c1k0g3fPYQvk&e=] to follow on Apple Podcasts.  Could I ask a big favor? If you are loving the show, I would LOVE it if you would leave me a review on Apple Podcasts [https://urldefense.proofpoint.com/v2/url?u=https-3A__podcasts.apple.com_us_podcast_bear-2Dcrawl-2Dwith-2Ddads_id1654780908&d=DwMCaQ&c=euGZstcaTDllvimEN8b7jXrwqOf-v5A_CdpgnVfiiMM&r=EY8-bfV2sgKw41Rft5lOTattsokUK36hHemhzABWZT8&m=iLUl8_jzvxSdEZYm9_3bg_3k8_WzxutRILQRVAW045I&s=ZXwnrqb1s2YKI-FEbBCf69ysjMDJB--c1k0g3fPYQvk&e=]. I read each and every one!   Wondering how to leave a review? 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The Power of Outdoor Experiences, Being Comfortable with Discomfort, Balancing Grace and Discipline, and More with Hank Thompson

In episode #28, we had a heartwarming and insightful conversation with Hank, a father of three and a man juggling the responsibilities of managing auxiliary companies and a non-profit focused on land conservation and historical preservation in Houston and Virginia. We dove deep into the world of fatherhood, exploring the highs and lows that come with the journey. As a father, Hank opened up about the challenges of parenting at different stages of his children's lives and the lessons learned along the way. He emphasized the value of being comfortable with discomfort, a lesson he learned from his own father, who was a risk-taker and adventurer. So, grab a cup of coffee, settle in, and join us for a conversation that is all about the adventure of fatherhood and the legacy we leave behind.  00:01:19 - Hank's Professional Background and Non-Profit Work  00:01:56 - Hank's Involvement in Land Conservation and Historical Preservation  00:03:02 - The Need for Historical Narratives and Land Preservation  00:04:07 - The Non-Profit's Surprising Impact on Hank  00:05:00 - Restoring Historical Structures and Acknowledging the Past  00:05:44 - The Show's Focus on Fatherhood and Learning from Others  00:06:10 - Hank's Family and Parenting Experience  00:08:07 - Hank's Childhood and Family Business Background  00:09:16 - Moving from San Francisco to Wisconsin: A Culture Shock  00:10:18 - Hank's Relationship with His Father and Parenting Style  00:13:09 - Hank's Father's Adventurous Spirit and Its Influence  00:14:27 - The Challenges of Parenting Different Personalities  00:15:28 - The Importance of Being Present and Intentional as a Father  00:17:15 - Hank's Reflection on His Father's Advice and Example  00:18:06 - Outdoor Adventures and Life Lessons from Hank's Father  00:19:07 - The Significance of Being Comfortable with Discomfort  00:20:06 - Passing on Outdoor Experiences to Hank's Children  00:21:02 - The Impact of Outdoor Experiences on Personal Growth  00:21:38 - The Role of Fathers in Providing and Setting Examples  00:22:52 - The Importance of Acknowledging and Forgiving Parents  00:23:23 - The Legacy of Fathers and the Impact on Future Generations  00:25:04 - The Challenges of Balancing Discipline and Patience as a Dad  00:26:02 - The Value of Partner Support in Parenting  00:27:05 - The Dynamics of Parenting Styles Between Hank and His Wife  00:28:01 - The Importance of Family Meals and One-on-One Time with Kids  00:29:07 - The Impact of Intentional Parenting and Creating Memories  00:30:12 - The Role of Fathers in Shaping the Next Generation  00:31:15 - Hank's Greatest Challenge as a Father  00:32:32 - The Balance of Discipline and Grace in Parenting  00:33:00 - The Importance of Partner Support in Navigating Parenting Challenges  00:34:10 - The Role of Fathers in Household Responsibilities and Chores  00:35:05 - The Significance of Family Traditions and Individual Trips with Children  00:36:53 - The Impact of Fathers on Children's Lives and Future Generations  00:38:02 - The Importance of Fathers Being Present and Showing Love  00:39:01 - The Challenges Fathers Face in Today's Society  00:40:10 - The Importance of Fathers Understanding Their Impact on the Next Generation     RESOURCES MENTIONED: National Outdoor Leadership School [https://www.nols.edu/en/]     WHERE WE CAN CONNECT:  Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/bearcrawlwithdads/] Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on Twitter [https://twitter.com/bearcrawldads] Connect with Bear Crawl with Dads on Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100088821457600] Follow Ross Purdy on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/ross-purdy-136597245/] Bear Crawl with Dad’s website [https://bearcrawlwithdads.com/]     FOLLOW & REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS  Are you following the podcast? 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A Houstonian’s Journey from Michigan to South Africa, Fatherhood Insights, & More with Miah Collins

In episode #27, we visit with Miah who shares his unique upbringing, starting in Michigan and moving to Durban, South Africa, at the age of five. Through Miah’s story, we learn that fatherhood is a journey of continuous learning and growth. He reminds us that while we may not always meet our lofty parenting goals, it's the daily interactions and the environment we create for our children that truly define our success as dads.   00:01:19 - Miah's Background and Journey  00:02:24 - Miah's Early Memories of Moving to South Africa  00:03:43 - Discussing Michigan Roots and Family Connections  00:05:31 - Miah's Childhood Transition to South Africa  00:07:01 - Parental Influence and Framing Challenges as Adventures  00:07:34 - The Role of Miah's Father in His Upbringing  00:08:08 - Early Memories in South Africa and Family Dynamics  00:09:12 - Cultural Experiences and Family Adventures  00:11:19 - Learning About Father's Past During a Sermon  00:12:05 - The Importance of Communication Between Father and Son  00:13:19 - Miah Reflects on His Father's Approach to Parenting  00:15:05 - Challenges of Fatherhood and Time Management  00:16:16 - Family Traditions and Involving Kids in Decision Making  00:17:31 - Establishing Family Rules and Boundaries  00:18:49 - Intentionality in Parenting and Handling Sensitive Topics  00:20:37 – Miah’s Approach to Discussing Technology and Freedom with Kids  00:22:15 - Miah's Take on Family Traditions and Creating a Family Identity  00:24:37 - The Value of Capturing Family Moments and Decision-Making Tools  00:25:07 - Miah's Desire for More Guidance from His Father  00:26:19 - The Significance of Small Parenting Moments  00:29:37 - The Balance of Independence and Guidance in Parenting  00:32:17 - The Influence of Miah's Grandfather on Family Traditions  00:34:39 - The Challenge of Balancing Parental Expectations and Reality  00:36:05 - Teaching Kids About Family Values and Responsibilities  00:37:11 - Establishing and Explaining Family Rules to Children  00:38:13 - The Importance of Being Intentional with Children  00:39:53 - Creating a Safe Space for Open Communication with Kids  00:41:19 - The Impact of Miah's Wife's Profession on Parenting  00:42:53 - Discussing Sensitive Topics and Empowering Children  00:44:43 - The Importance of Ongoing Conversations About Difficult Topics  00:48:33 - The Importance of Addressing Taboo Topics with Children  00:49:52 - The Approach to Discussing Body Autonomy and Boundaries  00:51:09 - The Gradual Process of Discussing Sensitive Topics with Kids       RESOURCES MENTIONED: Durban, South Africa [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Durban] Youth for Christ [https://yfc.net/] Apartheid, South Africa [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apartheid]       WHERE WE CAN CONNECT:  Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/bearcrawlwithdads/] Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on Twitter [https://twitter.com/bearcrawldads] Connect with Bear Crawl with Dads on Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100088821457600] Follow Ross Purdy on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/ross-purdy-136597245/] Bear Crawl with Dad’s website [https://bearcrawlwithdads.com/]     FOLLOW & REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS  Are you following the podcast? 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