Once A Cheater

Cheat Codes - Honesty without punishment

This “Cheat Code” is about honesty without punishment. Not confessions, not walking on eggshells, just being able to say what you feel in real time without it turning into a problem. I talk about how a lot of us were raised to suppress our thoughts, how that shows up in relationships, and why I need a partner who can hear me, ground me, and not make honesty feel unsafe. Because if I can’t be real with you, what are we even doing?

2025 didn’t break me but it definitely ran the fades.

Welcome to Season 2 babes!  This episode is me talking through a year that tried me physically, emotionally, spiritually, and logistically. Health stuff, hard realizations, quiet losses, and the kind of growth you don’t get a round of applause for, all showed up at once. I’m not here to relive it or explain myself. I’m just naming what changed, what stayed, and why I’m moving differently now.

Rumor Has It… Ion Got No Type Ep. 9

It’s been a month, and life has been life-ing hard! Health scares, dating curveballs, and a whole lot of self-reflection. In this episode, I get into the question I hear almost daily: “What’s your type?” The truth? I don’t have one. My “type” is safety, reciprocity, and the kind of love that doesn’t turn me into a shell of myself. I unpack how my old patterns had me mistaking chaos for passion, why I’m no longer settling for half-love, and how calm, consistent partnership is my new standard. If you’ve ever outgrown the kind of love you used to chase, or you’re questioning what you really need from a partner, you’ll love this episode.

Hot Wax & Wet Cats Ep. 8

This episode is pure afterglow. I break down my weekend at Hot Wax 25!  From fire shows and kinky artistry to coochie waffles (yes, you read that right). I share how a sensual candle turned into one of the most intimate nights with my Virgo, and why sometimes the smallest rituals can unlock the biggest sparks. This isn’t just a recap,  it’s a reminder that pleasure is art, and you’re the canvas. Names Dropped: @ploc_shop @freddyhydro_kinkyhut @I.am.tastee

I’m “Poly” Gonna Lose My Bitch Over This Ep.7

Polyamory sounds cute until you’re staring down the possibility of losing your primary partner. In this episode, I unpack the messy beauty of open love. The late-night talks, the boundary checks, and the emotional labor no one warns you about. I’m sharing the lessons I’ve learned from missteps, what it really takes to keep love ethical when it’s shared, and why honesty will always cost you something… but lying costs more. If you’ve ever juggled love, lust, and loyalty….you’ll love it here.