Surrogacy Daddy - 11 - The Birth

Surrogacy Daddy - 12 - A Tale, Some Doubts

It's time to go home! Just like in a Christmas story, the family finally gathers around the tree. But in stories, there are often difficult trials. This story is no exception. ---- Sources: Article: The art of not sweeping behind one's door: understanding men's repertoire of domestic inaction thanks to Christine Delphy [https://bit.ly/3ULG8CS], by Laura Carpentier-Goffre, 2022 Study: Surrogate mothers 10 years on: A longitudinal study of psychological well-being and relationships with the parents and child [https://bit.ly/4lpg6Bc], Jadva, V., Imrie, S., & Golombok, S., 2015, Human Reproduction, v. 30 Report: Sexist acts during gynecological and obstetric care [https://bit.ly/4iVn92S], HCE, 2018 Article: Médiapart: Sexism, racism, and homophobia: the High Council for Equality lives the opposite of what it preaches [https://bit.ly/4cAHfx1] Article: Médiapart: The High Council for Equality is bogged down in crisis [https://bit.ly/4iZTCFd] Comic book: Women don't die by chance [https://bit.ly/43OrQac], by Rotman, Ferné, and Bouillon Essay: Creating a different kind of family [https://bit.ly/4csZ2pN], Gabrielle Richard Study: Maternal mortality in France [https://bit.ly/4f9Qe8G], Santé Publique France, ENCMM 2016-2018 ---- To go further: CLARA Association APGL Association Mes Deux Papas Association ADFH Association Collectif Familles Association ---- Mixed by Les Belles Fréquences. Copyright: “Beautiful Daughter,” by Jason Shaw; “A Jolly Good Christmas” by The Jangle Book; “Deck the Halls” by Martin Riopel; “The Lost City” by Tewar; “Birth of Life” by SoundDesign; “Get the Pressure” by Klimenko Music. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Surrogacy Daddy - 11 - The Birth

It's the long-awaited moment! (And what a long wait it has been!!) Everything converges on this moment lasting just a few hours: the birth. And yet... we prepare so little for it, especially as men. What are the particularities of a birth in a surrogacy process? What about the first separation? ---- Sources:  Essay: Faire famille autrement [https://boutique.binge.audio/products/faire-famille-autrement-gabrielle-richard] (Building a Family Differently), by Gabrielle Richard Essay: Pourquoi m’as-tu abandonné [https://www.payot-rivages.fr/payot/livre/pourquoi-mas-tu-abandonn%C3%A9e-9782228911405] (Why Did You Abandon Me), by Jean-Charles Bouchoux Essay: Rupture(s) (Breakup(s) [https://www.livredepoche.com/livre/ruptures-9782253101246], by Claire Marin Podcast: France Inter, In Utero [https://open.spotify.com/show/42jJKtAgm7zJ6Sya0mkxjw?si=92230095ff0d4d1b], by Zoé Varier ---- To learn more: CLARA Association APGL Association Mes Deux Papas Association ADFH Association Collectif Familles Association ---- Mixed by Les Belles Fréquences. Copyright: “Beautiful Daughter,” by Jason Shaw; “An Epic Journey,” by Elliott; “Southern Grit,” by Justin Breame; “A Sprinkling of Magic,” by Porter Productions; “Pagoda,” by Marc Walloch. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Surrogacy Daddy - 10 - Fatherhood

Clearly, no one knows how to be a dad. And yet, when a male couple becomes parents, they have to figure it out, because there is no woman in the household forced to fill in the gaps. And this is far from easy when the short length of paternity leave keeps them away from the crib... ---- Sources: ·     Les couilles sur la table, Tuaillon [https://spoti.fi/3CuUT6M] ·     Les enfants vont bien, Démettre [https://bit.ly/3UJTik0] ·     Parentalité(s), Bouychou [https://bit.ly/4fki1Dw] ·     Faites des gosses, Revol [https://bit.ly/4fApeiw] ·     Chroniques du sexisme ordinaire, Marine-Pétroline [https://bit.ly/4fAphec] ·     Papatriarcat, Rostein [https://bit.ly/4hIoTMQ] ·     Mansplaining, Messias [https://bit.ly/3NZAYzk] ·     Fils à Papa(s), Beaugrand [https://bit.ly/3CiDQFd] ·     Fallait le dire, Emma [https://bit.ly/3UEXyB1] ·     L’arnaque des nouveaux pères, Jourdain et Daudin, 2024 [https://bit.ly/48F1M1v] ·     The Second Shift, Hochschild et Machung, 1989 [https://bit.ly/3NYYxIP] ·     Espaces et temps de la « production d’enfants », Boulet, 2020 [https://bit.ly/40Fdk2N] ·     Les étudiant-e-s parents, Gaide, 2020 [https://bit.ly/4fI73I3] ·     Qui lave le linge sale de la famille ?, de Stambolis-Ruhstorfer et Gross, 2021 [https://bit.ly/3UL62qF] ·     Être en couple gay, Courduriès, 2019 [https://bit.ly/3YXhBxm] ·     RFAS 2025-3 : “Les encadrements de la paternité” [https://bit.ly/4hGTGcD] ·     L’art de ne pas balayer derrière sa porte, Carpentier-Goffre, 2022 [https://bit.ly/3ULG8CS] ·     Les « nouveaux pères » trop pépères, Le Monde, 2024 [https://bit.ly/48H2ueC] ·     Les chiffres-clés de l’inégalité en France et dans le monde, Oxfam [https://bit.ly/48GX82S] ·     MHB, liste des entreprises qui participent au financement des GPA [https://bit.ly/3ApzVpv] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Surrogacy Daddy - 09 - A long distance pregnancy

There are a thousand ways to experience pregnancy. But for intended parents who go through surrogacy, it is usually at a distance. How can we cope with the thousands of miles that separate us for nine months from what matters most to us in the world? ---- Sources: Article: Escrow account fraud, CNN July 19, 2024 [https://edition.cnn.com/2024/07/19/us/houston-surrogacy-escrow-company-fraud-scheme-lawsuit/index.html] Broadcast: Le Lobby Radio Campus Paris June 28, 2024 [https://www.radiocampusparis.org/emission/Pjz-le-lobby/l2vr-lhebdo-gpa-le-combat-continue] ---- To learn more: CLARA Association APGL Association Mes Deux Papas Association ADFH Association Collectif Familles Association ---- Mixed by Les Belles Fréquences. Copyright: “Beautiful Daughter,” “Forever Believe” by Jason Shaw; “The Sun The Moon” by Big Score Audio, “Feel Good Anthem” by INPLUSMUSIC, “Neon Future” by Remember The Future, “Loading Screen” by Grayson DeSmet, “Solemn Silent Night” by Sunshine Music ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Surrogacy Daddy - 08 - The contract

In surrogacy, the contract between the Surrogate and the Intended Parents is a key document that clarifies the rights and obligations of each party. Why does it raise so many questions among opponents? What does it actually contain, in detail? We reveal it all in this episode. ---- Sources: Study: Fatal workplace accidents in France [https://bit.ly/4dY4oc0] Study: Why women have abortions in the US [https://bit.ly/409oJI2] Study: Assisted reproductive technology and perinatal risks [https://bit.ly/4eRRFZG] Study: Maternal mortality in France [https://bit.ly/4f9Qe8G] Article: Maternal mortality in the United States [https://bit.ly/4dRxoCb] ASRM, SEEDS, how to become a surrogate mother in the US: see episode 6 ---- To learn more: CLARA Association APGL Association Mes Deux Papas Association ADFH Association Collectif Familles Association ---- Mixed by Les Belles Fréquences [https://bit.ly/3N4FXyw]. Copyright: “Beautiful Daughter,” “Forever Believe” by Jason Shaw [https://bit.ly/3XHYANr]; ‘Unchangeable’ by Swan Productions, “Embers of Eternity” by 407 music ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.