Consider Before Consuming

The Truth About OnlyFans From a Former Creator

*This episode contains discussions about sexual exploitation and coercion. Listener discretion is advised. In this episode of Consider Before Consuming, former OnlyFans creator Taylor shares what the platform was really like—from the money promises that drew her in to the pressure, contracts, safety concerns, and identity toll that made her want out. Taylor talks about how hard it can be to leave once you’re in, what the industry expects from creators, and how stepping away impacted her mental health. Episode Resources: * Article: The Problem with Parasocial Relationships on OnlyFans [https://fightthenewdrug.org/parasocial-relationships-onlyfans/] * Article: The Dangerous Quest for Fame on OnlyFans [https://fightthenewdrug.org/dangerous-quest-for-onlyfans-fame/] * Podcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep. 148: How OnlyFans Incentivizes Extreme Content [https://considerbeforeconsumingpodcast.com/how-onlyfans-incentivizes-extreme-content/] Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]

Everything You Need to Know About Porn Addiction

Porn addiction is often misunderstood, especially when it comes to how it actually develops in the brain and what real recovery looks like. In this episode, licensed clinical counselor and CSAT Chris Chandler breaks down the science behind compulsive porn use, why young brains are especially vulnerable, and how stress and porn can create a powerful cycle that’s hard to break. Chris also shares why porn addiction can mirror substance addiction in the brain, the role of emotional pain and loneliness, why relationships don’t automatically “fix” the problem, and what a realistic recovery process truly involves. This episode is sponsored by Relay, a secure peer-support app that connects you with a small group of people who understand what you’re going through and help you stay accountable on your journey to quit porn. CBC listeners can try Relay free for 30 days when they sign up at http://joinrelay.app/consider. Episode Resources: * Article: How Porn Can Contribute to an Unhealthy Cycle of Stress [https://fightthenewdrug.org/how-porn-can-contribute-to-an-unhealthy-cycle-of-stress/] * Relay: CBC Listeners get one month free [https://www.joinrelay.app/fightthenewdrug] * Podcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep. 126: Relay Panel [https://considerbeforeconsumingpodcast.com/the-power-of-connection-in-overcoming-pornography-a-panel-discussion/] * Ted Talk: My Stroke of Insight [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UyyjU8fzEYU] Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]

When Porn Beomes a Coping Mechanism

Ryan Ridgway is a mental health educator and former addiction support specialist from the UK. In this episode, he talks about his 20-year struggle with pornography use, OCD, and substance abuse. He explains how porn became his main way to cope with stress and mental illness, how that habit slowly took control of his life, and what recovery has looked like since. Ryan also discusses the connection between porn and self-esteem, body image, and mental health, and why honest conversation about these issues matters. Episode Resources: * Article: Watching Porn May Be Negatively Impacting Your Mental Health [https://fightthenewdrug.org/watching-porn-may-be-negatively-impacting-your-mental-health/] * This episode is sponsored by Relay: CBC Listeners get 40% Relay in November with code FTND40 [https://www.joinrelay.app/fightthenewdrug] * Follow Ryan on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/voice_4_mentalhealth/] Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]

Rebuilding Identity After Early Porn Exposure

Trigger Warning: This episode contains brief references to childhood sexual abuse. Listener discretion is advised Toni Collier is a speaker, author, and founder of Broken Crayons Still Color, a global women’s organization helping people process brokenness and find hope. In this episode, Toni shares how being exposed to pornography as a child led to addiction, shame, and struggles with identity—and how she’s now creating a healthier, more open environment for her kids. She also talks about the power of community and connection in healing and parenting, reminding us that even when life feels messy or broken, beauty and growth are still possible. This episode is sponsored by Relay, a secure peer-support app that connects you with a small group of people who understand what you’re going through and help you stay accountable on your journey to quit porn. Try it today for 20% off!  [http://joinrelay.app/consider] Episode Resources: * Article: Why Fighting Porn Must Include Fighting Shame [https://fightthenewdrug.org/why-fighting-porn-must-include-fighting-shame/] * Podcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep. 83: Myunique [https://considerbeforeconsumingpodcast.com/is-porn-consumption-only-a-guy-issue/] * Toni's Website [https://www.tonijcollier.com/] * Bark: Fighters get a free month! [https://ftnd.org/bark] Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]

Rebuilding Trust in the Wake of Porn Addiction and Betrayal Trauma

Kyle was first exposed to pornography at a young age, and it quickly became a coping mechanism that followed him into adulthood. In this episode, he and his wife, Maddie, share openly about how pornography impacted their marriage, shattering trust, creating betrayal trauma, and forcing them to confront hard truths about honesty and healing. Maddie offers her perspective as a partner navigating broken trust and the painful process of rebuilding safety in the relationship, while Kyle speaks to the challenges of recovery and overcoming shame. Together, they discuss what healing looks like in real time, showing both the difficulty and the hope that can exist when couples confront pornography’s impact head-on. Episode Resources: * Video: Our Experience on Porn Recovery and Betrayal Trauma [https://fightthenewdrug.org/porn-recovery-and-betrayal-trauma/] * Recovery Resources [https://fightthenewdrug.org/resources/?filter=help] Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]