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017: BMI Is Broken. The Truth About Weight, Health, and What Doctors Aren’t Telling You | Dr. Mara Gordon

40 min · 12. maj 2026
episode 017: BMI Is Broken. The Truth About Weight, Health, and What Doctors Aren’t Telling You | Dr. Mara Gordon cover

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What if the number your doctor is using to define your health was never designed to measure your health in the first place? In this episode of Eat the F*cking Food, Kristin Collins sits down with anti-diet physician Dr. Mara Gordon to unpack one of the most misunderstood, overused, and emotionally charged metrics in modern healthcare: BMI. From its origins as a 19th-century statistical experiment to its rise as a medical “diagnosis tool,” this conversation reveals how BMI became the default lens for evaluating bodies, and why that lens is deeply flawed. This is a grounded, honest conversation about weight stigma in healthcare, the rise of weight loss drugs, and how women, especially in midlife, can begin to reclaim agency over their bodies, their choices, and their health. Because health is not a formula. It is personal, nuanced, and deeply individual. And the most powerful shift you can make is learning how to advocate for yourself inside systems that were never built with you in mind. In this episode, you’ll discover: * Why BMI was never meant to measure individual health and how it became medical standard * The real history behind BMI and how pharmaceutical influence shaped its use * Why weight is often overemphasized in healthcare and what gets overlooked because of it * The difference between treating disease and shrinking bodies * When GLP-1 weight loss drugs can be helpful and when they can do more harm than good * Why these medications don’t fix body image, shame, or your relationship with food * How to navigate doctor’s appointments without feeling powerless or dismissed * What “anti-diet doctor” actually means in real clinical practice * Why health is deeply personal and cannot be reduced to one universal formula * How to advocate for yourself without confrontation, fear, or overwhelm We talk about: * 00:00 Introduction to Dr. Mara Gordon and anti-diet medicine * 02:00 What an anti-diet physician actually does (and doesn’t do) * 04:00 Why weight is overemphasized in healthcare * 05:00 The real history of BMI and how it was created * 07:00 How BMI became a medical standard (and why that matters) * 08:30 Pharmaceutical influence and the “obesity epidemic” narrative * 09:30 GLP-1 weight loss drugs explained, who they help and why * 12:00 Why these medications don’t fix body image or shame * 13:30 What actually supports health alongside medication * 15:00 Why health looks different for every person and stage of life * 18:00 Why BMI classifications often don’t reflect real health * 20:00 The reality of weight loss, sustainability, and body biology * 22:00 Can you refuse being weighed at the doctor? Here’s how * 25:00 How to advocate for yourself in medical appointments * 27:00 Real story, avoiding unnecessary surgery through self-advocacy * 31:00 “Normal vs optimal” health, and the truth behind the messaging * 33:00 How medical guidelines actually evolve over time * 36:00 The rise of health misinformation and wellness marketing * 37:00 Where to find Dr. Mara Gordon and her work Connect with Dr. Mara * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maragordonmd [https://www.instagram.com/maragordonmd] * Substack: https://maragordonmd.substack.com/ [https://maragordonmd.substack.com/] * Real Talk With a Doc: https://www.npr.org/series/g-s1-88953/health-questions-doctors-answers [https://www.npr.org/series/g-s1-88953/health-questions-doctors-answers] Connect with me * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kristinrcollins/ [https://www.instagram.com/kristinrcollins/] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kristin.collins [https://www.youtube.com/@kristin.collins] * Website: https://kristincollinshealthcoaching.com/ [https://kristincollinshealthcoaching.com/] #AntiDiet #BMI #WomensHealth #HealthAtEverySize #WeightStigma #BodyAutonomy #MidlifeHealth #GLP1 #WeightLossTruth #HealthcareAdvocacy #FoodRelationship #BodyImageHealing #EatTheFuckingFood #DoctorPatientRelationship #HealthMyths #WellnessTruth #MedicalMisinformation #SelfAdvocacy

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episode 025: Is Soy Bad for You? The Truth About Soy in Menopause | Attessa Bradley & Kristin Collins cover

025: Is Soy Bad for You? The Truth About Soy in Menopause | Attessa Bradley & Kristin Collins

Is soy bad for you in menopause? That myth has kept women away from one of the most protective foods available in midlife, and it is time to set the record straight. If you swapped your soy latte for almond milk because someone warned you it messes with your hormones, you are not alone, and you were misinformed. Kristin Collins, certified nutrition coach and menopause coaching specialist, sits down with Attessa Bradley, founder of Standing Tall Foods and a 25 year veteran of the natural food industry, to break down why soy protects your heart, your bones, and your brain as estrogen declines. Attessa explains the science behind phytoestrogens, references a recent Journal of Menopause report on plant protein and hot flashes, and shares what it took to launch a soy snack brand at 48. If you have been avoiding soy out of fear, this episode gives you permission to eat it. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL DISCOVER: * Why the fear that soy raises breast cancer risk or disrupts hormones is a myth * How soy's phytoestrogens work in the body, gently binding to estrogen receptors instead of acting like synthetic estrogen, and why that matters as your own estrogen declines in midlife. * The specific ways declining estrogen affects heart health, bone density, and cognition, and why soy is one of the only plant foods with an FDA heart healthy seal of approval. * What a recent report from the Journal of Menopause found about eating more plant protein, including soy, and its effect on managing weight and reducing hot flash frequency. * Why Attessa Bradley left a 25 year career in natural foods to launch Standing Tall Foods at 48, and what it has actually been like building a company with her husband in midlife. * How to start adding soy back into your diet without overthinking it, from edamame and tofu to a one ounce roasted soybean snack you can keep in your car, bag, or desk. We talk about: 00:00 Meet Attessa Bradley, founder of Standing Tall Foods 04:00 Where the name Standing Tall Foods came from 08:00 What is Standing Tall Foods and why soy 12:00 Is soy bad for you? Debunking the breast cancer myth 16:00 What are phytoestrogens and how do they work 20:00 Why estrogen protects your heart, bones, and brain 24:00 What the new Journal of Menopause report on soy found 28:00 Starting a food company at 48 in a second act 32:00 What surprised her most about building a business in midlife 36:00 The power of community when you start over 40:00 Simple ways to add soy back into your day 44:00 Where to find Standing Tall Foods Connect with Attessa * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/standingtallfoods/ [https://www.instagram.com/standingtallfoods/] * Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61584017549826 [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61584017549826] * Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@standingtallfoods [https://www.tiktok.com/@standingtallfoods] * Website: https://standingtallfoods.com/ [https://standingtallfoods.com/] Connect with me * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kristinrcollins/ [https://www.instagram.com/kristinrcollins/] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kristin.collins [https://www.youtube.com/@kristin.collins] * Website: https://kristincollinshealthcoaching.com/ [https://kristincollinshealthcoaching.com/] #IsSoyBad #SoyForMenopause #Phytoestrogens #MenopauseNutrition #AntiDietCulture #MidlifeWomen #WomensHealth #HormoneHealth #BoneHealthWomen #PlantProteinForWomen #EatTheFuckingFood #SecondActAt50 #WomenFoundedBrand #StandingTallFoods #EdamameBenefits #NaturalFoodIndustry #EatTheFood #KristinCollins #AttessaBradley #MenopauseMyths

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episode 024: Misogi and Midlife Health Habits with Anne & Avery | Kristin Collins cover

024: Misogi and Midlife Health Habits with Anne & Avery | Kristin Collins

Building healthy habits before perimenopause is one of the most powerful things you can do for your body, and most women don't start until things are already falling apart. If you're eating the same way you did in your 20s, doing the same workouts, and wondering why nothing is working, it's not a willpower problem. Your body is changing, and what used to work just doesn't anymore. In this episode of Eat the F*cking Food, certified nutrition coach and menopause coaching specialist Kristin Collins sits down with Avery and Anne of Noos Worthy, a health coach and registered dietician duo dedicated to helping women in early perimenopause build real, lasting habits. Together they break down the fiber and carbs conversation women are scared of, the "canary in the coal mine" mindset shift for perimenopause prep, and why one hard challenge a year, what Avery and Anne call their Misogi, can rebuild your relationship with what your body is capable of. If you've been waiting for permission to stop doing health the hard way, this episode is it. In this episode, you’ll discover: * Why fiber keeps getting skipped and how to actually get more of it without cutting the foods you love, even when carbs feel off limits in perimenopause. * The difference between mindless habits and intentional ones, and a simple journaling practice Avery and Anne use with clients to spot which is which. * What the Misogi challenge is and why doing one physically hard thing a year, from a 20-mile run in a snowstorm to your first in-person event, can change how you see your limits. * Why what used to work in your 30s is not going to work in perimenopause, and what Anne says you need to let go of before you can actually make progress. * Why building healthy habits before the hormonal noise gets loud is the foundation Kristin wishes she'd had starting in her late 30s. We talk about: 00:00 Welcome and free maintenance calories masterclass 00:48 Meet Anne and Avery of Noos Worthy 02:10 How Noos Worthy started and what it covers 04:00 The boring basics: what baseline healthy habits actually are 07:15 Are carbs the enemy? Breaking down fiber vs. sugar for perimenopause 10:00 How to spot habits that aren't serving you 12:04 Mindless snacking, social media scrolling, and the habits you don't notice 13:00 What topics are resonating most with Noos Worthy readers 16:04 Anne's 40th birthday essay and the perimenopause canary in the coal mine 17:55 Is it hormones or lifestyle? What to actually look at first 18:21 What you need to accept when perimenopause changes your body 19:30 Why building habits before perimenopause matters most 21:37 What is a Misogi? 22:57 Anne and Avery's Misogi: 20 miles in a snowstorm on Anne's 40th birthday 25:03 Why challenging yourself physically translates everywhere 26:30 How to scale a Misogi to your life if a 20-mile run isn't happening 28:20 Noos Worthy's first News Night in-person event as their own Misogi Connect with Anne + Avery * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/noos_worthy/ [https://www.instagram.com/noos_worthy/] * Substack/Podcast: https://noosworthy.substack.com/podcast [https://noosworthy.substack.com/podcast] * Website: https://www.noos-worthy.com/ [https://www.noos-worthy.com/] Connect with me * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kristinrcollins/ [https://www.instagram.com/kristinrcollins/] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kristin.collins [https://www.youtube.com/@kristin.collins] * Website: https://kristincollinshealthcoaching.com/ [https://kristincollinshealthcoaching.com/] #HealthyHabitsPerimenopause #PerimenopauseNutrition #MidlifeHabits #AntiDietPerimenopause #FiberAndCarbs #ProteinFatFiber #MisogiChallenge #DoHardThings #MindfulEating #MidlifeWomen #HormoneHealth #HabitsForWomen #BreakBadHabits #IntentionalLiving #NoosWorthy #EatTheFuckingFood #KristinCollins #AnneAndAvery #PerimenopausePrep #MidlifeNutrition

30. juni 202633 min
episode 023: 5 Diet Myths Holding You Back in Midlife | Kristin Collins cover

023: 5 Diet Myths Holding You Back in Midlife | Kristin Collins

Diet myths for women over 40 are keeping you tired, stuck, and frustrated, and most of them have been baked into your brain since childhood. If you've been cutting back when the scale creeps up, avoiding carbs because they're "bad," beating yourself up for cravings, or waiting for the scale to move before you trust the process, this episode is going to shift something for you. Kristin Collins, certified nutrition coach and menopause coaching specialist, breaks down five of the biggest diet lies midlife women are still holding onto. She covers why chronic undereating trains your body to slow down and cannibalize muscle, why your brain alone needs 125 grams of carbohydrates a day, why willpower is a finite resource (not a character flaw), why scale stagnation doesn't mean nothing is changing, and why the cookie might actually be the healthy choice. This is a snack-size solo episode with zero fluff and five things you can let go of today. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL DISCOVER: * Why eating less in midlife backfires: chronic undereating slows your metabolism, causes afternoon crashes, and leads your body to burn muscle for fuel instead of fat. * The truth about carbs and your brain: your brain alone needs 125 grams of carbohydrates daily, and cutting them causes brain fog, fatigue, and the cravings you've been blaming on weakness. * Why the scale not moving is not a red flag: during the first 12 weeks of eating up to your needs, the scale stays put while your sleep, energy, hunger cues, and body composition all improve. * Why willpower has nothing to do with it: cravings and overeating at night are almost always a sign of undereating earlier in the day, not a lack of discipline or self-control. * How removing moral value from food is the first step to sustainable eating: no food is good or bad, and variety, satisfaction, and abundance are just as important as any macro count. We talk about: 00:00 Welcome and today's topic: diet myths in midlife 01:13 Myth 1: Eating less is always better 02:38 Why muscle loss is the real cost of undereating 03:32 Myth 2: Carbs are the enemy 05:33 Myth 3: If the scale isn't moving, you're doing it wrong 08:02 Myth 4: You just need more willpower 09:25 Myth 5: Healthy eating has to be boring and restrictive 12:08 Which myth are you holding onto? Kristin wants to know Connect with me * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kristinrcollins/ [https://www.instagram.com/kristinrcollins/] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kristin.collins [https://www.youtube.com/@kristin.collins] * Website: https://kristincollinshealthcoaching.com/ [https://kristincollinshealthcoaching.com/] #DietMythsDebunked #MidlifeNutrition #EatingLessBackfires #CarbsAreNotTheEnemy #WillpowerMyth #WomensHealth #Perimenopause #AntiDietCulture #MaintenanceCalories #ScaleNotMoving #BodyRecomposition #FoodFreedom #MidlifeWomen #HormoneHealth #EatTheFuckingFood #KristinCollins #NutritionCoach #IntuitiveEatingMidlife #MenopauseNutrition #UndereatingSymptoms

23. juni 202616 min
episode 022: What 11 Weeks of Real Nutrition Coaching Looks Like | Kristin Collins cover

022: What 11 Weeks of Real Nutrition Coaching Looks Like | Kristin Collins

Nutrition coaching for women in midlife is not about another set of rules. It is about learning how to eat enough, build real energy, and stop starting over every time life gets messy. In this episode of Eat the F*cking Food, certified nutrition coach and menopause coaching specialist Kristin Collins sits down with her actual client Laura Dumont, a teacher, runner, and self-described child of the "nothing tastes as good as skinny feels" era. Laura shares what made her finally reach out for help after years of restrictive programs that worked until they didn't. They talk through what 11 weeks inside Kristin's Game On Nutrition program actually looked like, from reintroducing carbs and eating breakfast earlier to watching her energy stabilize and her body composition shift without the scale budging. The biggest surprise? She did not have to blow up everything she was already doing. If you have been afraid to hire a coach because you feel like you should be able to figure out eating on your own, this episode is for you. In this episode, you’ll discover: * Why nutrition coaching for women in midlife works differently from a standard program, and what it actually looks like inside 11 weeks of working with a coach * How Laura went from fearing carbs her entire adult life to eating them at every single meal and feeling more energized and satisfied than ever before * Why your body composition can change dramatically without the scale moving, and why that is actually the goal * What maintenance calories are, why Kristin starts every client there first, and why that approach feels completely counterintuitive until it suddenly clicks * How eating as a teacher with an unpredictable schedule requires a different strategy than any rigid program can give you * The mindset shift that helped Laura stop calling imperfect weeks a failure and start recognizing them as progress * Why restricting the foods you love the most is the exact reason you keep thinking about them We talk about: 00:00 Meet Laura: a real client's story and why she finally reached out 03:00 What made hiring a coach feel scary even when you know what healthy eating looks like 05:30 Why one-size-fits-all programs stop working in midlife 07:00 How eating as a teacher makes fueling your body a daily challenge 09:30 What 11 weeks inside Game on Nutrition actually changed about Laura's eating 11:00 Reintroducing carbs at every meal and what happened to her energy 13:00 Why are women so afraid of carbs? The diet culture history behind it 16:00 Learning what an actual serving looks like without measuring forever 18:00 Why Kristin starts every client in maintenance, not a deficit 21:00 What does maintenance actually mean and why it is the foundation for everything 24:00 The moment Laura stopped waiting to lose weight and started trusting the process 27:00 Body recomposition: why your pants fit better even when the scale doesn't move 29:00 Food is energy: the mindset shift that changes everything Connect with me * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kristinrcollins/ [https://www.instagram.com/kristinrcollins/] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kristin.collins [https://www.youtube.com/@kristin.collins] * Website: https://kristincollinshealthcoaching.com/ [https://kristincollinshealthcoaching.com/] #NutritionCoachingForWomen #MidlifeNutrition #EatTheFuckingFood #AntiDietPodcast #DietMentalityDetox #CarbsFearNoMore #WomensNutrition #MidlifeWellness #BodyRecomposition #MaintenanceCalories #PerimenopaueNutrition #NutritionCoach #EatingForEnergy #WomenOver40 #BalancedPlate #StopDietingStartEating #MidlifeHealthCoach #NutritionPodcast #GameOnNutrition #EatTheFuckingFoodPodcast

16. juni 202633 min
episode 021: Why Women Keep Quitting Their Health Goals (And How to Finally Stop) cover

021: Why Women Keep Quitting Their Health Goals (And How to Finally Stop)

If you have ever had a hard week, decided you failed, and quit everything you were doing to feel better, this episode is for you. In this solo episode, Kristin gets back to basics and breaks down exactly why midlife women keep abandoning their health goals, and why perfectionism is not a personality trait, it is a product of decades of diet culture telling you that anything less than 100 percent does not count. She walks through the simplest version of what a balanced plate actually looks like, no tracking, no calorie math, no rules. Just a practical framework built around the three macronutrients your body needs most: protein, carbohydrates, and healthy fat. She covers why carbs are not your enemy, why your brain cannot function without them, how fiber protects your heart as estrogen drops through the menopausal transition, and why lean muscle mass is the most important longevity investment you will ever make. That gap between what we expect of ourselves and what we actually do is where most women quit. This episode closes it. In this episode, you’ll discover: * Why midlife women keep quitting their health goals and what is actually driving the all-or-nothing cycle * What a balanced plate looks like and why the plate method is the simplest place to start * Why carbohydrates are your body's preferred energy source and the threshold that changes everything for energy, mood, and sleep * How much protein women need and why lean muscle mass is your best longevity strategy * What healthy fats actually do for your brain, skin, hair, and hormones * Why fiber matters more than most women realize, especially for heart health after estrogen drops * How to build a snack that holds you over and keeps your energy stable * How to stop the quit spiral and keep going even when the week falls apart We talk about: 00:00 - The perfectionism trap: why midlife women believe if it is not perfect it does not count 03:00 - It is what you do consistently over time, not what you do perfectly for 30 days 03:30 - How to build a balanced plate: protein, carbs, vegetables, and healthy fat without overthinking it 06:00 - Why carbs are not the enemy: the 150 gram threshold and what changes for your energy, mood, and sleep 07:00 - Why losing lean muscle is the real longevity risk and how protein protects against it 09:00 - Healthy fats at every meal: what they do for your brain, skin, and hair 10:00 - Three meals a day minimum, how to build a snack that actually works, and why skipping meals is working against you 11:30 - Why fiber matters more than most women think, especially for heart health as estrogen drops 13:00 - Why women quit mid-program and what Kristin sees happen every single week in her practice 15:00 - The client who thought she had a terrible week and had actually done really well 16:30 - Good enough gets the job done: how to reframe a hard week instead of throwing it all away 20:00 - Detox from Diet Mentality: Kristin's upcoming masterclass on June 17th and how to sign up Connect with me * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kristinrcollins/ [https://www.instagram.com/kristinrcollins/] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kristin.collins [https://www.youtube.com/@kristin.collins] * Website: https://kristincollinshealthcoaching.com/ [https://kristincollinshealthcoaching.com/] #WhyWomenQuit #AllOrNothingThinking #MidlifeWomen #WomenOver40 #WomenOver50 #AntiDiet #AntiDietCulture #DietMentality #NutritionForWomen #BalancedPlate #MacrosForWomen #ProteinForWomen #CarbsAreNotBad #FiberForWomen #HealthyEatingHabits #MidlifeNutrition #HormoneHealth #MenopauseNutrition #LeanMuscleWomen #EatTheFuckingFood

9. juni 202622 min