Getting Older And Wiser

Not Of This World

Have you ever looked around at the culture surrounding you and felt a profound sense of misalignment? Perhaps you have sat in a meeting, watched a news segment, or listened to a conversation and felt like a traveler in a foreign land where the customs and values simply do not make sense to your heart. It is a common experience for believers, a subtle friction that reminds us we do not quite fit in. This is not an accident or a flaw in your social skills; it is a spiritual reality. As followers of Jesus, we are physically present in this world, but our true citizenship lies elsewhere. We belong to a Kingdom that operates on entirely different principles—where humility is strength, giving is receiving, and the last are first.

Children Need Their Fathers

A father’s role in the life of a child is a unique and irreplaceable calling, one designed by God to provide strength, guidance, and a model of faithful leadership. While a mother’s nurture is foundational, a father’s presence offers a different kind of security—a steady anchor in the storms of life. Fathers are often the ones who encourage adventure, who teach resilience through skinned knees and lessons learned, and whose approval builds a deep sense of confidence and identity in a child’s heart. Their strength is not just physical but emotional and spiritual, creating a safe space for their children to grow and flourish.

It's Hard To Wait

Patience is a virtue that most of us admire, but few of us enjoy practicing. In a world built on speed and instant gratification, having to wait feels counterintuitive and often frustrating. Whether we are waiting for a medical diagnosis, a career opportunity, a spouse, or an answer to a deeply personal prayer, the time spent in the "waiting room" of life can feel like wasted time. We wonder if God has forgotten us or if our requests have simply been lost in the silence. The delay can breed anxiety, doubt, and a desperate desire to take matters into our own hands to force a solution.

Saying Goodbye Is Hard

Goodbyes are one of life’s most difficult realities. Whether it is bidding farewell to a loved one moving far away, leaving a job and cherished colleagues, or facing the finality of death, saying goodbye carries a weight of sadness. It represents the end of a chapter and the beginning of an unknown future without a familiar presence. The ache of separation is real because our hearts were designed for connection. We form bonds of love, friendship, and community, and when those bonds are stretched or broken by distance or loss, it is natural to feel a deep sense of grief.

Remember The Good Old Days

Nostalgia is a powerful emotion. We often find ourselves looking back at "the good old days" with a deep sense of longing. We remember a time when life felt simpler, when our families were all under one roof, or when our bodies felt stronger and more capable. It is good and right to cherish these memories; they are milestones of God's faithfulness and evidence of the blessings He has poured into our lives. Looking back with gratitude allows us to see the beautiful tapestry God has woven through our history.