The Device Girls

Married to Medicine: Love, Trauma & Starting Over

39 min · 19. mar. 2026
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What happens when two doctors try to balance trauma, marriage… and real life? This episode goes way deeper than medicine. In this episode of The Device Girls, we sit down with Dr. Brian Kendall (ER physician) and Dr. Renee Bankhead (trauma surgeon) to talk about what life really looks like inside a dual-physician household. From navigating intense careers to going through divorce… and finding their way back to each other — this conversation is raw, honest, and surprisingly relatable. They open up about what patients don’t understand, what Covid was really like behind hospital doors, and the emotional weight that comes with a life spent saving others. In this episode, we dive into: • What it’s actually like being married to another physician • Their divorce… and how they found their way back • ER vs trauma surgery (and who really has it harder 👀) • What doctors wish patients understood • The emotional toll of medicine — especially during Covid • How they balance family, careers, and entrepreneurship “If you died today, you’d be replaced in the hospital tomorrow… but your family can never replace you.” Chapters: 00:00 Intro 00:45 Meet Dr. Kendall & Dr. Bankhead 02:30 Their journey into medicine 04:50 Why ER vs trauma surgery 07:50 Balancing a dual-physician household 09:50 Divorce… and getting remarried 12:50 What patients don’t understand about doctors 15:50 Burnout, loss, and emotional weight of medicine 20:10 What Covid was really like for physicians 27:10 Their businesses outside of medicine 31:30 ER vs Trauma: who has it harder? 35:20 Advice for couples in medicine 38:20 Outro Follow The Device Girls: 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedevicegirls 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thedevicegirls ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheDEVICEGirls Hosts: Sarah – https://www.instagram.com/sarahekruse Haley – https://www.instagram.com/haleyygibssonfit Guests: Dr. Brian Kendall – Emergency Medicine Physician Dr. Renee Bankhead – Trauma Surgeon | ICU Doctor | Entrepreneur 🎙️ Podcast: Coffee Walk MD If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs to hear this. We’d love to know — what part of this conversation surprised you the most? #TheDeviceGirls #WomenInMedicine #ERDoctor #TraumaSurgeon #HealthcareLife #PodcastClips #MedicalLife

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They stop the heart. She keeps you alive. In this episode of The Device Girls, we sit down with cardiac perfusionist Vivian Moreno to talk about one of the most intense jobs in medicine. Vivian shares what it’s really like being responsible for keeping patients alive during open heart surgery — from running the heart-lung machine to managing ECMO patients fighting for their lives. From hearing “time of death” after doing everything possible… to helping patients survive long enough to receive a heart transplant… this conversation gives a raw inside look into the emotional weight, pressure, and humanity behind one of medicine’s most overlooked professions. But this conversation goes deeper than medicine. Vivian also opens up about the mental toll of high-stakes healthcare, learning to stay grounded outside the hospital, and how this career completely changed her perspective on life. Raw. Honest. Eye-opening. 🎧 Episode highlights: • What a cardiac perfusionist actually does • What happens when surgeons stop the heart • ECMO, bypass, and life support explained simply • The emotional reality of withdrawing care • The hardest moments Vivian has experienced in medicine • What it’s like carrying the pressure of human life • Women in perfusion and healthcare • How medicine changed her perspective on life forever • Staying grounded outside of the hospital 👩‍⚕️ Guest: Vivian Moreno Cardiac Perfusionist 🎤 Hosts: Sarah Kruse — @sarahekruse Haley Gibson — @haleyygibsonfit 📲 Follow The Device Girls: Instagram: @thedevicegirls TikTok: @thedevicegirls 👍 If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone in healthcare. 💬 Question: What’s a profession people don’t fully understand until they hear the human side of it? #CardiacPerfusion #ECMO #OpenHeartSurgery #WomenInHealthcare #MedicalPodcast #HealthcareStories #Perfusionist #TheDeviceGirls ***Views Expressed Are Our Own***

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