Codependency Trap ep.4: DEVALUATION

Paranoia In Bed (Sex, Lies, & Cluster B, Ep. 2)

- what is paranoid ideation - two strands of paranoia - the false self enemy - twin anxieties - the persecutory object - the 5 behavioral outcomes of paranoid ideation - projective identification - narcissistic mirroring - what happens

Sex, Lies, & Cluster B (ep. 1): How To Tell Someone's Personality By How They Behave In Bed

• Why sex is a map of the whole personality • Why the paranoid partner can't stay present in bed • Three Cluster B types look identical - one is cold • Why "I love you" and "you're a prop" come from same person • The false self: the wall that kills intimacy • They use sex like a sedative• Warmth vs. emptiness -how to tell them apart

Post-Family-Abuse - After Going No-Contact (Family Dynamics of Cluster B, Ep. 8)

- why you feel worse or hollow after no-contact - a different kind of grief - identity from grievance - why an internalized abusive voice sounds like you - how to integrate the idea of "co-independence" - why the family member hoovers - what the finishing line actually is

Cluster B Family Mechanism For Control; Triangulation, Flying Monkeys, Smear Campaign, Tribunal

- narcissist conversion; flying monkeys - using triangulation for control - when you're targeted - you're put on trial by the family - how to love them and have no contact

Regression: why you turn 8 at the table - Family Dynamics of Cluster B Ep. 6

- becoming 8 years old at the dinner table - regression mechanics - developmental demotion - the inner committee - introjects - misidentification - splitting the family - good/bad parent - disidentifying vs. suppressing