The Story I'm Telling Myself

Is Your Success A Prison?

44 min · 23. apr. 2026
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Beyond the "One Story" Trap: Overcoming Burnout and Reclaiming Your Identity with Dr. Tasha Golden Grab the complimentary self-reflection episode guide [https://vod.hbportal.co/public/6966ae2985755800334a023c] In this transformative episode of The Story I’m Telling Myself, host Rita Ernst sits down with Dr. Tasha Golden—a former chart-topping singer-songwriter turned PhD researcher—to explore the invisible "walls" of the stories we tell ourselves. If you are a professional woman feeling the weight of burnout, questioning your career path, or struggling to find meaning beyond your job title, this conversation is your roadmap to a "through line" of true fulfillment. What You’ll Discover in This Episode: * The Identity Trap: How clinging to a "one story" narrative—the belief that there is only one path to success—can lead to catastrophic burnout and major depression. * The Art of Refusal: Why all creativity is rooted in the power to say "no" to the status quo and refuse to accept the world (or your life) exactly as it is. * Grief in Transition: Understanding that even positive career changes involve a natural process of grieving the old roles we played and the "source of pride" we are leaving behind. * Redefining Wellbeing: Moving beyond the "absence of disease" to a state of complete physical, mental, and social health that prioritizes connection, agency, and beauty. Featured Guest: Dr. Tasha Golden Dr. Tasha Golden is a renowned thought leader at the intersection of arts, science, and public health. From touring the world as a musician to conducting behavioral science research for organizations like Google and the Mayo Clinic, Tasha helps high-performers "re-see" their lives and work. She is a frequent contributor to Psychology Today and a powerful advocate for mental health systems change. Why Listen Now? You don’t have to wait for a crisis to "annihilate" your current story before you’re allowed to imagine a different one. Whether you're feeling "numb" in your current role or standing on the edge of a major life transition, Tasha’s story provides the permission you need to start your own "beautiful excavation" of what truly matters. Connect with Dr. Tasha Golden [https://www.tashagolden.com/tsitm] Connect with host Rita Ernst [https://www.igniteextraordinary.com/]

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“I looked in the mirror, and I said: Where are you? I miss you.” Have you ever reached the pinnacle of success only to realize you’ve become a stranger to yourself?Grab the episode companion self-reflection guide [https://vod.hbportal.co/public/6966ae2985755800334a023c] In this raw and transformative episode, Rita Ernst sits down with Jane Bond, a Naples-based multimillion-dollar real estate broker and Identity Strategist, to discuss the high cost of "shape-shifting" for a paycheck. Jane reveals how she walked away from a life of "identity foreclosure"—doubling down on a version of success that was never truly hers. She shares her blueprint for the “Great Unpacking,” a process of stripping away external expectations to find the human being underneath the performance. Key Takeaways: The Identity Audit: How to recognize when you are living by default rather than design. The Four Interior Empires: Why you must align your Mindset, Heart set, Health set, and Soul set to feel whole. Success vs. Happiness: Understanding why "bore out" is often more dangerous than burnout. The Resilience Birthright: Reframing failure as a skill-building opportunity. Stop carrying a suitcase that isn't yours. It's time to unpack. Connect with Jane [https://paperbell.me/jane-bond ]: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/janebond___/?hl=en]| Facebook [ https://www.facebook.com/JaneBondTBG]| LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/janebondtbg/]| YouTube [ https://www.youtube.com/@JaneBond-r1e]Listen to Unpack Your Life with Jane Bond [https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/jane-bond08/]Read Jane's Book [https://www.amazon.com/Land-First-Million-Dollar-Listing/dp/1662402902]Connect with Host, Rita Ernst [https://www.igniteextraordinary.com/]

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In this moving episode, Rita Ernst sits down with integrated health and wellness coach Kathy Yavari to explore a journey that spans continents, revolutions, and radical self-discovery. Grab the episode companion self-reflection guide [https://vod.hbportal.co/public/6966ae2985755800334a023c] Kathy shares her harrowing "Big T" childhood traumas—from witnessing her mother’s stroke at Disney World to fleeing the 1979 Iranian Revolution and the sirens of the Iran-Iraq War. After moving to the U.S. alone at 14 and building a "perfect" corporate life on autopilot, Kathy faced a midlife "trifecta" of loss that forced her to stop running and start rising. Key Takeaways: The F.E.A.R. Framework: Learn to choose between "Fear Everything And Run" or "Face Everything And Rise." Healing Health Anxiety: Discover how childhood trauma "sticks" in the body and how to release it. The Autopilot Trap: Why high achievers often ignore their own stories until a crisis hits. Inner Child Connection: Practical ways to provide yourself with the love and protection you lacked as a child. Stop living for the future's anxiety or the past's depression and learn how to stay in the powerful, authentic present. Connect with Kathy Yavari [kathy@whiteorchidswellness.com] Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/whiteorchidswellness/] | LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/khatereh-kathy-yavari/] Connect with your host, Rita Ernst - speaker | author | consultant [https://www.igniteextraordinary.com/]

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