Keep the threads of the things that light you up alive within your heart ✨ with Elin Petronella

Finding The Hope Within Being Fiercely Human 🌟🌱 with Marie-Louise Cee

Hi lovely human! I am so excited that you’re here. Before you listen to the episode, read this! Today a new episode of my podcast, 20 Year Old Butterfly is OUT! With incredible philosopher, sensitive soul, kind human, artist, writer, mindfulness teacher, Marie-Louise Cee [https://substack.com/profile/39383700-marie-louise-cee] 🩷 You can listen on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, or right here on Substack 🎙️ “‘Fiercely human’ is like the soil on which you can build hope. When you integrate all these parts of being human, you are not lying to yourself being toxically positive- you are just looking at things as they are. This is a fertile soil to build hope.” -Marie-Louise (Fiercely Human [https://open.substack.com/pub/marielouisecee]) during our podcast chat on this week’s episode Listen to this week’s episode here on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/20-year-old-butterfly/id1870719559] & here on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/0w27LfNt0Bxw7asAA2SIvU?si=af7c89d7575e4c5e] !!! 🎙️🎧 But first… The curiosity in philosophy, the courage in hope, and the life changing power of agency I am so honored because this week’s episode features the incredible, Marie-Louise Cee. One of the first things that made me instantly connect with this amazing creative human, is how she speaks so passionately and emotively about the importance of hope and agency. Until I heard Marie-Louise share her ideas and insights on these topics, I hadn’t heard many people speak about it - which is crazy, because these are the very things we NEED to be in conversation about to help both others and ourselves stay present and open to the possibilities within our lives. I felt truly lit up during our conversation, and found myself shaking my head in agreement to all of the wisdom she shared while I listened back. I am SO excited to hear what your takeaways are after you listen. 💛 If you want to hear a conversation that explores nuance, the emotional experiences living in our world & society, how you can use philosophy as your greatest treasure, and the brilliant power of agency in living with hope - and living as a fierce human - you will love this episode :) Hope is something I have a tender relationship with. Everything Marie-Louise shared and all that we dove into reminded me how I have found my way to hope in the past, and how I can find it again. (A little emotional writing that 🩷) Listen to this week’s episode here on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/20-year-old-butterfly/id1870719559] & here on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/0w27LfNt0Bxw7asAA2SIvU?si=af7c89d7575e4c5e] !!! 🎙️🎧 Yay!! See you next Tuesday on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or right here on Substack! 🦋 Let’s connect with each other! 🩷 Connect with Marie-Louise: Marie-Louise’s Free Upcoming Mindfulness Course 💛 [https://www.marielouisecee.com/free-mindfulness-course] Fiercely Human [https://marielouisecee.substack.com/] - Marie-Louise’s Substack Marie-Louise’s Instagram [https://substack.com/@marielouisecee?utm_source=about-page] Connect with me (Bailey!) : Explore my poetry book here! [https://baileycreativity.myshopify.com/] 🦋 Wander & stroll on my website 🌼 [https://baileycreativity.com/] (Music) Stock Media provided by marcozannone / Pond5 If this episode resonated with you, you’re warmly invited to subscribe, for free, to my Substack along with a community of sensitive, creative, magical humans! ✨ Love, Bailey This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit baileycreativity.substack.com [https://baileycreativity.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

You Don't Just Have to "Slay The Dragon" of OCD, You Can Also Befriend The Princess It's Protecting 💗 (PART 2) with Michael Alcee

Hi, if you’re new, welcome to 20 Year Old Butterfly! This is a place (hi, i’m Bailey!) for sensitive souls to use our inner wisdom to express creatively, humanly, passionately, magically✨The butterfly’s wings open like a book & the pages are filled with stories that say…🦋 “It’s almost like we focus so much in OCD treatment on slaying the dragon, when we should also think about freeing the princess.” 👑 "And we’re also aware that the dragon is dangerous, but it had a good reason to be dangerous because it was protecting the princess.” Michael Alcee, during our conversation in this episode of 20 Year Old Butterfly, the podcast If you haven’t seen last week’s piece/listened to part one of my chat with Michael [https://open.substack.com/pub/baileycreativity/p/the-sensitive-fire-inside-humans?utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web] all about OCD, here’s some things I shared: It wasn’t until discovering, by complete chance, Michael’s (psychologist & author of The Upside of OCD [https://www.michael-alcee.com/]) work that I felt a huge weight lift off me that had been weighing me down for over a decade. OCD is hard enough on its own, but to feel that you aren’t a human being, that your brain is essentially broken & irrational, is an extra layer of shame & heaviness. Listening and reading Michael’s point of view on the human behind OCD (a phrase I had never once come across in all my years of googling OCD), I felt seen and whole. I finally felt like someone was seeing me as a person, a human, a being - not just another robotic, clinical, unnamed patient who has OCD. And not only that, but that my deeply sensitive nature (which with I have been connected to for a very long time & am very proud of/grounded in), is actually interwoven with my OCD. This week’s episode (part TWO), is an even deeper dive and listening back left me nodding along and clapping to myself. I can’t wait for you to dive in. Listen to this week’s episode here on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/20-year-old-butterfly/id1870719559] & here on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/0w27LfNt0Bxw7asAA2SIvU?si=af7c89d7575e4c5e] !!! 🎙️🎧 Yay!! See you next Tuesday on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or right here on Substack! 🦋 Let’s connect with each other! 🩷 Connect with Michael: Explore The Upside Of OCD - Michael’s (life changing) Book! [https://www.amazon.com/Upside-OCD-Flip-Script-Reclaim/dp/1538191105] The Heart Of OCD - Michael’s Substack [https://malcee.substack.com/] Michael’s Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mike_drop_/] Connect with me (Bailey!) : Explore my book here! [https://baileycreativity.myshopify.com/] Read where the name 20 Year Old Butterfly comes from! [https://baileycreativity.substack.com/about] Explore my website 🌼 [https://baileycreativity.com/] (Music) Stock Media provided by marcozannone / Pond5 This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit baileycreativity.substack.com [https://baileycreativity.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

The Sensitive Fire Inside Humans With OCD (PART ONE) 🦋 with Michael Alcee

Hi, if you’re new here, I’m Bailey! You are warmly welcomed into this haven for you (sensitive soul!) to feel celebrated in who you are, connected with your vibrant inner world, and to create your own philosophies for how you can live authentically, magically, & creatively ✨ with weekly digital letters from my enchanted creative world, to you :) 🕯️ “What’s beautiful is to recognize the beautiful home that people have who have OCD - not to wait until it’s totally on fire to say “how beautiful it was, let me watch it burn.” I like to think that we have a connection to this very beautiful and special fire. And that when we can connect it, it’s like having fire in a fireplace that warms the whole home. But then when somebody doesn’t know how to help us contain that and know that we have a lot of it, it starts to burn the house. And then we need not only help with taking that out, but not totally taking out all the fire because that fire is what keeps that house so beautifully warm.” -Michael Alcee during our conversation on 20 Year Old Butterfly, the podcast 🌼 I have struggled with OCD since I was a very young child, with the shape it takes morphing and changing over time. It’s been debilitating at times, extremely emotionally painful, and an all around isolating experience. But it’s never felt random. It wasn’t until discovering, by complete chance, Michael’s (psychologist & author of The Upside of OCD [https://www.michael-alcee.com/]) work that I felt a huge weight lift off me that had been weighing me down for over a decade. OCD is hard enough on its own, but to feel that you aren’t a human being, that your brain is essentially broken & irrational, is an extra layer of shame & heaviness. Listening and reading Michael’s point of view on the human behind OCD (a phrase I had never once come across in all my years of googling OCD), I felt seen and whole. I finally felt like someone was seeing me as a person, a human, a being - not just another robotic, clinical, unnamed patient who has OCD. And not only that, but that my deeply sensitive nature (which with I have been connected to for a very long time & am very proud of/grounded in), is actually interwoven with my OCD. I’m so passionate about de-shaming mental health in general because our society tends to dehumanize and intellectualize mental health experiences which can make it feel so much worse. It’s ironic too - because so much of mental health is about how our body feels, not only our minds. We are abstract beings 🎨 In part one of our conversation (this episode), we explored the nuance and depth that people with OCD commonly experience, how many people with OCD are deeply sensitive & highly existentially aware from a young age- and how it’s all intertwined. We chat and theorize on why there might be so much resistance in the community around more nuanced ways of thinking, that take in the emotions that are underlying what the mind says. And how impactful creativity, expression, nature and connection can be in releasing all the things we hold inside. It was a privilege, such an honor, and a massive delight to get to have not only one, but TWO conversations with the incredible, Michael Alcee. Part two will be released next Tuesday! And for now, I truly hope you resonate with our conversation. 💛 Listen to this week’s episode here on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/20-year-old-butterfly/id1870719559] & here on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/0w27LfNt0Bxw7asAA2SIvU?si=af7c89d7575e4c5e] !!! 🎙️🎧 Yay!! See you next Tuesday on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or right here on Substack! 🦋 Let’s connect with each other! 🩷 Connect with Michael: Explore The Upside Of OCD - Michael’s (life changing) Book! [https://www.amazon.com/Upside-OCD-Flip-Script-Reclaim/dp/1538191105] The Heart Of OCD - Michael’s Substack [https://malcee.substack.com/] Michael’s Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mike_drop_/] Connect with me (Bailey!) : Explore my book here! [https://baileycreativity.myshopify.com/] Read where the name 20 Year Old Butterfly comes from! [https://baileycreativity.substack.com/about] Explore my website 🌼 [https://baileycreativity.com/] (Music) Stock Media provided by marcozannone / Pond5 This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit baileycreativity.substack.com [https://baileycreativity.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

The Secret Poets - Our Grandparents 💛 with Elise Powers

“My heart SINGS when I’m writing, I love writing poetry” - Elise Powers [https://substack.com/profile/41522565-elise-powers] said this towards the end of our podcast chat and I loved the way she phrased it. Especially because poetry made our grandparents heart’s sing too ✨ When I found out that my grandfather, who I had an incredibly special, deep bond with, wrote poetry on every special occasion to my grandmother, for decades, I was in shock. The creative place I had stumbled upon that changed my whole life, was also something my beloved grandfather cherished too? So when I discovered that Elise, an incredibly warm, creative, unique, sensitive poet also found out that her grandmother, who she had an incredibly close connection with, was a poet and she had no idea - I was shocked once again 😅 This conversation felt really special because we dove deep into how our relationships with our magical grandparents has informed who we are, our “legacy”, the messiness of grief & how that intertwines with our writing, finding out our grandparents secret, and so much more. I feel incredibly honored to have gotten to chat with Elise, she even read a poem from her recently released poetry book, The Size Of Your Joy. 💛 And I read a poem too! From my book, 20 Year Old Butterfly 🦋 ✨ I hope this episode brings you a few dashes of magic, delight, joy, and connection! Let us know if you liked it in the comments or by hitting ‘reply’ if you’re reading in email, after you listen 🎧 Listen to this week’s episode here on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/20-year-old-butterfly/id1870719559] & here on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/0w27LfNt0Bxw7asAA2SIvU?si=af7c89d7575e4c5e] !!! 🎙️🎧 Yay!! See you on occasion, Tuesday’s on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or right here on Substack! 🦋 Let’s connect with each other! 🩷 Connect with Elise: Explore The Size Of Your Joy - Elise’s Poetry Book! [https://elisepowers.com/] Two Raw Sugars - Elise’s Substack [https://elisepowers.substack.com/] Elise’s Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/accounts/login/?next=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Felisepowerspoet&is_from_rle] Connect with me (Bailey!) : Explore my book here! [https://baileycreativity.myshopify.com/] Read where the name 20 Year Old Butterfly comes from! [https://baileycreativity.substack.com/about] Explore my website 🌼 [https://baileycreativity.com/] (Music) Stock Media provided by marcozannone / Pond5 Sending love to you! 🦋 Bailey If you resonated with this podcast episode & want to receive weekly digital letters for sensitive souls, subscribe for free below! 💖 This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit baileycreativity.substack.com [https://baileycreativity.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

There is so much vulnerability in being seen 🦋💫 with Andy from Highly Sensitive Woman

“I’m curious. How do you deal with the Fear of Being seen?” There’s a lot of questions, comments, ideas, & opinions shared online that we see at an endless pace. Usually, we scroll on by. But when I read Andy ( ✨️ Highly Sensitive Woman ✨️ [https://substack.com/profile/270156-highly-sensitive-woman]) ‘s note here on Substack, pondering that question, I paused. And I was eager to join in the conversation. This was my reply: I love this question. I relate so deeply with this especially having lifelong experience feeling so different from others. I’ve noticed that it helps when the people I’m being seen by are people I feel are kindred spirits, warm, or seemingly non judgmental. It’s really hard to feel comfortable being seen by people who you know won’t really get you. I’ve also had to learn (through experience) over the years that not everybody needs access to my vulnerability. I’ve shared stories with people that I now wish I hadn’t because I didn’t allow myself to pause and pay attention to how my body felt. I think we’re allowed to choose who sees the deeper parts of ourselves. I also notice that really seeing & accepting myself helps lighten a bit of the heaviness of insecurity. One example that comes to mind- when I first started my podcast last year it was nearly unbearable for me to listen back to my own voice. I was so judgmental of myself & noticed so many things that I felt I did wrong. But I had to listen so I could edit the episodes. (Most were with guests but I also do solo!) After a while, I naturally began to accept how I sound, the fact that I lose my train of thought during conversations because of the pressure of the moment, that I am imperfect. And now I actually kind of love listening back. After our exchange over on Andy’s Substack note, I knew I wanted to dive deeper. We had a lovely conversation on my podcast, 20 Year Old Butterfly, and I know it’s going to be a treat for you to listen to, as it was for us to chat. ✨ There’s more layers than a 12 layer cake 🍰 but the core of it is sweet Vulnerability and being seen, especially for those of us that have spent a large portion of our lives feeling different from everyone around us, is a layered, multifaceted experience. There are so many elements to it. As we chat about in the episode, there can be dissociation from ourselves within ourselves, anxiety that exists deep within the body, an environment of people who aren’t the right people to be open with - even the act of someone LOOKING at us with their eyes can bring up a multitude of emotions. It’s something I have an intimate, yet messy and confusing, relationship with and I wonder if you relate? At the same time, I have experienced the sweet gifts that vulnerability (in the right circumstances) brings into our lives as humans who dream of deep connection. Also, for those of us that are really good at keeping everything tightly shut inside, or dealing with emotional pain all by ourselves, being vulnerable is sometimes the thing that relieves us of years of pain. And sometimes vulnerability means the light parts too. Sharing even though it might come out awkward or imperfect. Embracing our weirdness and letting it be known. Dressing how we want to dress even if we’re judged. Rejecting the norm in little acts of courage. We dove deep - with stories I’ve never shared - and a conversation on the multi facets of being seen 🌼 Whether you’re an entrepreneur putting your creativity and ideas out into the uncertain online or real world - or a sensitive human whose watered yourself down to fit into a societal mold, this episode is for you, and it’s out for you to listen to now ✨ Listen to this week’s episode here on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/20-year-old-butterfly/id1870719559] & here on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/0w27LfNt0Bxw7asAA2SIvU?si=af7c89d7575e4c5e] !!! 🎧 Yay!! See you every Tuesday on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or right here on Substack! 🦋 Let’s connect with each other! 🩷 Connect with Andy: Highly Sensitive Woman - Substack [https://highlysensitivewoman.substack.com/] Connect with me (Bailey!) : Read where the name 20 Year Old Butterfly comes from! [https://baileycreativity.substack.com/about] Buy my book here! [https://baileycreativity.myshopify.com/] My Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/baileycreativity] Explore my new website in-progress 🌼 [https://baileycreativity.com/] (Music) Stock Media provided by marcozannone / Pond5 Sending love to you! 🦋 Bailey This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit baileycreativity.substack.com [https://baileycreativity.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]