Self Rejection & Substance Abuse

F*ck Your Best, Do More

Unpopular opinion: Maybe your best isn’t actually enough.  I know we like to believe it is, but in reality it’s not.  It might be an outdated version of who you used to be.  And you can’t bring them to a new chapter.  You need new habits, new behaviors, a new mindset.  If you’re in the middle of reprogramming yourself, you have to think differently. You can’t just do your “best” from the old identity, you have to do more.  You have to do what’s required.  🔥Get My 7-Day Sobriety Reset🔥 https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset [https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset] Download The No BS Pep Talk 💯  https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/the-no-bs-pep-talk- [https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/the-no-bs-pep-talk-] 💫Support My Work 💸 https://paypal.me/AllTheRave555 ✨Stay Connected ✨ IG : https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/ [https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/] TikTok : https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_ [https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_?_r=1&_t=ZT-916Wu39zQgo] Substack : https://substack.com/@asoberblacklady [https://substack.com/@asoberblacklady]  YouTube : https://www.youtube.com/@_AllTheRave_ [https://www.youtube.com/@_AllTheRave_]   Music & Beats:  https://beatstore.inadot.com/prodbyleeqy [https://beatstore.inadot.com/prodbyleeqy]

If You’re a Heavy Drinker or Smoker, This is For You

The vibe is brutal honesty and tough love over here 🤷🏽‍♀️  It takes one to know one 👉🏾 this message is for the people willing to show up differently.  No victim mentality, no excuses, none of that bullshit.  I’ve been through the trauma, sa and r*pe, stress in all areas of life, anxiety, depression, grief, heartbreak, loss, betrayal, and life challenges — more than enough to want to off myself. Seriously (I tried).  So don’t talk to me about your excuses, your limitations, and whatever lies and denial you like to give yourself.  Life is hard, shit happens, and it sucks. Tough shit. Are you gonna do something about it or nah?  Being a victim and replaying “woe is me” is not a badge of honor. Change the narrative, take accountability, and do something different with the free will that God gave you.  💯 Those first 7 days of sobriety suck the most if you don't have a plan. You're fighting biology and years of habit. I’m not going to tell you to 'just try harder.' I’m going to give you the strategy I used to find over 4 & a half years of freedom. 🔥Get My 7-Day Sobriety Reset🔥 https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset [https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset] Download The No BS Pep Talk 💯  https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/the-no-bs-pep-talk- [https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/the-no-bs-pep-talk-] 💫Support My Work 💸 https://paypal.me/AllTheRave555 ✨Stay Connected ✨ IG : https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/ [https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/] TikTok : https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_ [https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_?_r=1&_t=ZT-916Wu39zQgo] Substack : https://substack.com/@asoberblacklady [https://substack.com/@asoberblacklady]  YouTube : https://www.youtube.com/@_AllTheRave_ [https://www.youtube.com/@_AllTheRave_]   Music & Beats:  https://beatstore.inadot.com/prodbyleeqy [https://beatstore.inadot.com/prodbyleeqy]

Pep Talk 3 | Show Up Differently This Time

What if you got out of your head and things worked out this time?  🔥Get My 7-Day Sobriety Reset🔥 https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset [https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset] 💫Follow💫 IG : https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/ [https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/] TikTok : https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_ [https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_?_r=1&_t=ZT-916Wu39zQgo] Substack : https://substack.com/@asoberblacklady [https://substack.com/@asoberblacklady]  YouTube : https://www.youtube.com/@_AllTheRave_ [https://www.youtube.com/@_AllTheRave_]   Music :  https://beatstore.inadot.com/prodbyleeqy [https://beatstore.inadot.com/prodbyleeqy]

A Season of Obedience

Being obedient to your personal transformation and alignment looks different for everyone.  Whatever your current circumstances are, your personal mission requires you to lock in, do what it takes, and move differently this time. 🔥Get My 7-Day Sobriety Reset🔥 https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset [https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset] 💫Follow💫 IG : https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/ [https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_ [https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_?_r=1&_t=ZT-916Wu39zQgo] Substack : https://substack.com/@asoberblacklady [https://substack.com/@asoberblacklady]  YouTube : https://www.youtube.com/@_AllTheRave_ [https://www.youtube.com/@_AllTheRave_]   Music : https://beatstore.inadot.com/prodbyleeqy [https://beatstore.inadot.com/prodbyleeqy]

Practical Ways to Stay Sober

Sometimes sobriety and recovery can feel overwhelmingly challenging. I’ve been there. In this episode I discuss some simple ways that have helped me maintain my peace of mind over the years. Simple and practical methods to keep yourself emotionally regulated,  and handle your stress and emotions in healthy ways.  🔥Get My 7-Day Sobriety Reset🔥 https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset [https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset] 💫Follow💫 IG : https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/ [https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/] TikTok : https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_ [https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_?_r=1&_t=ZT-916Wu39zQgo] Substack : https://substack.com/@asoberblacklady [https://substack.com/@asoberblacklady]  YouTube : https://www.youtube.com/@_AllTheRave_ [https://www.youtube.com/@_AllTheRave_] Music :  https://beatstore.inadot.com/prodbyleeqy [https://beatstore.inadot.com/prodbyleeqy]