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it's giving therapy

Come catch up on life with us. For those of you that are new here, welcome. We're 2 working moms who have full time 9-5 jobs. We work remote, mostly. We also run this full time and are business partners. Catie's kids are 3 & 4 Danielle's kids are 3 & 7 Let's get into this weeks therapy session. Catie's three-year-old is basically blind (fine, astigmatisms, but same energy), Calvin showed up to the office in mom's sunglasses watching Peppa Pig during a live meeting, and somehow rainbow glasses are now a hill we're willing to die on. Meanwhile Danielle solo-pilgrimaged to a BTS concert in Vegas, made three new best friends in the parking lot, and is already planning her Stray Kids festival outfit down to the lightstick. We also solve the great debate: summer bucket list vs. themed activity days, why $590 art camp is a hard no, and how drop-off logistics are genuinely a second full-time job nobody hired us for. Chaotic. Unfiltered. Basically free therapy. * 00:00 – Welcome to the Therapy Hour * 00:48 – Calvin Is Basically Blind & We're Spiraling * 07:40 – Peppa Pig, Dilated Pupils & a Very Unbothered Toddler * 11:16 – Colton Failed the Swim Test & We're Actually Fine With It * 12:25 – Danielle Goes Solo to Vegas (for a K-pop concert, obviously) * 13:21 – Are We Too Old for Concert Merch? (No.) * 17:01 – $590 for Art Camp. We Said No. * 22:04 – Bucket Lists vs. Themed Days: The Summer Planning Debate * 27:12 – Why Are We Still Dressing Our Kids? They're Four. * 29:17 – Morning Drop-Off Math Nobody Warned Us About * 31:26 – Moms Gone Wild (Nick Jonas + Stray Kids, separately)

your style just got better - with nina piccini

Motherhood changes everything — including how you get dressed. But here's the thing: your style didn't disappear, it just evolved. And that might actually be a good thing. In this episode, we're joined by personal brand stylist Nina Piccini to talk all things mom fashion — from building a wardrobe that works across every version of your life, to navigating trends without losing yourself, to finally tackling that decision fatigue every time you open your closet. We also pull back the curtain on our own lookbook experience with Nina — what the process looks like, what surprised us, and what we absolutely loved. What we cover: * Why your style actually gets better after kids * How to build a versatile wardrobe that works from drop-off to boardroom * Using lookbooks and Pinterest to reduce morning decision fatigue * How to shop trends without losing your personal style * The real reason button-downs aren't working for you * Wardrobe refresh strategies that don't break the bank * Style myths every mom needs to stop believing Connect with Nina: https://www.ninapiccini.com/ [https://www.ninapiccini.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nina_piccini [https://www.instagram.com/nina_piccini] Substack: The Style Brief https://ninapiccini.substack.com/ [https://ninapiccini.substack.com/] ---------------------------------------- Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Personal Brand Styling 02:48 Nina's Journey to Styling 05:46 The Importance of Wardrobe for Moms 08:51 Creating Lookbooks: The Process 11:46 Incorporating Personal Style 14:20 Overcoming Fashion Fears 17:12 Navigating Trends and Personal Style 21:06 Navigating Fashion Trends 29:35 Wardrobe Refresh Strategies 34:19 Style Myths and Budget Shopping 35:12 Embracing Personal Style as a Mom

plastic free-ish: what busy moms actually need to know with Jessica Franklin

In this episode of From 9 to Mom, we’re diving into a topic that’s suddenly everywhere: plastics, microplastics, “clean living,” and the overwhelming pressure moms feel to somehow detox their entire homes overnight. 😵‍💫 We’re joined by Jessica Franklin, busy mom, health coach, and host of The Live Lightly Podcast, to break down what actually matters when it comes to plastics, toxins, and low-tox living… without spiraling into fear or throwing out every sippy cup you own tomorrow. From plastic cutting boards and kids’ lunch gear to hidden plastics in bedding, clothing, and everyday products, Jessica helps us understand where these exposures are really coming from, what the science says about microplastics and hormone disruption, and how moms can make practical swaps without adding another full-time job to the mental load. We also talk about: • The truth behind “BPA-free” labels • Why plastic cutting boards became everyone’s villain origin story • The hidden plastics most families never think about • Affordable, realistic swaps that actually make sense • How to avoid fear-based wellness marketing • The balance between awareness and overwhelm If you’ve watched the documentaries, fallen down a TikTok rabbit hole, or stood in Target staring at “eco-friendly” labels wondering what any of it means… this episode is for you. Because healthy living shouldn’t require a chemistry degree, a full pantry relabel, or losing your sanity in aisle 12. 💛 Sign up for the Microplastics Masterclass here: https://livelightly.myflodesk.com/microplasticmasterclass [https://livelightly.myflodesk.com/microplasticmasterclass] Featuring: Jessica Franklin of The Live Lightly Podcast [https://livelightly.eco/]

how to take advice

Everyone has an opinion… especially once you become a mom. 😅 In this episode, Catie and Danielle dive into the overwhelming world of advice, from parenting tips and social media “experts” to professional feedback and personal growth. They talk about how to filter the noise, trust credible sources, and take advice with grace without losing confidence in yourself along the way. The conversation covers information overload, motherhood, mental health, trusting professionals, and learning when to listen… and when to let the advice scroll right on by. Plus, the hosts share personal stories about navigating feedback, building trust, and protecting their peace in a world full of opinions. If you’ve ever felt buried under unsolicited advice, conflicting parenting recommendations, or the pressure to “do it all right,” this episode is your reminder that you know yourself and your family better than anyone else. ✨ Topics Covered: * How to take advice without taking it personally * Managing information overload as a mom * Trusting experts vs. social media opinions * Parenting advice, professional growth & self-confidence * Setting boundaries and protecting your mental well-being ⏱ Chapters: 00:00 Navigating Advice in Motherhood 02:57 The Challenge of Information Overload 05:39 Finding the Right Sources of Advice 08:50 The Importance of Professional Guidance 11:38 Personal Experiences and Parenting 14:27 Building Trust in Relationships 17:20 Embracing Vulnerability and Growth 20:19 Practicing Receiving Feedback

what we really want for mother's day

This week on From 9 to Mom, we’re diving into the beautiful, chaotic, emotionally loaded glitter tornado that is Mother’s Day. 🌷 From the pressure of making the day “perfect” to the reality of May-sember schedules, sports, school events, and trying to enjoy one uninterrupted hot coffee, we’re talking about what moms actually want for Mother’s Day. We get honest about expectations vs. reality, gift giving fails and wins, mom guilt, and why sometimes the best gift isn’t flowers or jewelry... it’s being acknowledged without having to delegate your own celebration. 😅 We also share the moments and memories that matter most, how motherhood shifts friendships and family dynamics, and why celebrating together can make the chaos feel a little sweeter. If you’ve ever said “I don’t need anything” while secretly hoping someone planned literally anything... this episode is for you. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Balancing Work and Motherhood 00:19 Celebrating Mother's Day: Reflections and Realities 00:44 Balancing Motherhood and Work: The Ongoing Struggle 00:46 The Chaos of May-Sember 03:42 Expectations vs. Reality on Mother's Day 06:29 Gift Giving and Personal Preferences 09:27 Mom Guilt and Balancing Family Dynamics 12:17 Creating Meaningful Memories 15:08 Celebrating Motherhood Together 18:02 The Importance of Acknowledgment 21:01 Final Thoughts on Mother's Day