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Is this a breakdown or a breakthrough? A history of turning 40 and the midlife crisis with Corinne Fay

1 h 14 min · 14. huhti 2026
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Is turning 40 a big deal? Am I headed for a midlife crisis? This week I'm joined by the brilliant Corinne Fay of Big Undies to dig into the actual history behind the midlife crisis (spoiler: it was invented in 1965, mostly about men, and honestly feels like a Mad Men episode). We trace the significance of "40" from Biblical floods to actuarial science to Gail Sheehy's hugely influential 1976 book Passages, and ask whether any of this is even real. We also review some truly unhinged celebrity 40th-birthday celebrations, including one that features a hologram of a dead father (!), and draft our personal role models for this stage of life. Angela Lansbury, Nicole Kidman's divorce photo, and Corinne's nephew all make the list. Perimenopause, Saturn's return, and Justin Timberlake's DWI also come up, because of course they do. Become a Patreon member → https://www.patreon.com/cw/MaryMahoney [https://www.patreon.com/cw/MaryMahoney]  Get the weekly newsletter and biweekly podcast episodes FREE!  For $5/month, get ad-free episodes, a monthly bonus episode, a weekly newsletter of pop culture recommendations, and more!  TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – Intro & Patreon shoutout (Divas Live bonus episode, zine workshop) 01:11 – Meet Corinne Fay: Big Undies newsletter, Burnt Toast podcast, and freshly 40 02:47 – Moving to Patreon: what they love, what they miss about Substack 05:46 – Astrology check-in: Capricorn, Leo, Saturn's return, and what it all means 08:10 – Mary's turning 40 a week after her son turns one 10:30 – How Corinne celebrated her 40th (a solo trip to Marfa, Texas) 16:38 – Why did 40 become a milestone? The history begins 20:07 – The number 40 in the Bible, the Middle Ages, and actuarial science 23:20 – Freud, Jung, and psychology's role in defining midlife 25:04 – Elliott Jacques coins "midlife crisis" in 1965 (spoiler: it's mostly about men) 27:16 – Perimenopause enters the chat 37:24 – Gail Sheehy's Passages and "the deadline decade" 43:17 – Celebrity 40th birthday review: Oprah, Elizabeth Taylor, Kate Moss 52:09 – Kim Kardashian's pandemic island birthday and the hologram gift 59:26 – Draft: role models for turning 40 (Nicole Kidman, Angela Lansbury, Queen Latifah) 1:07:06 – Who NOT to be like at 40 (Justin Timberlake, Don Draper, Gwen Stefani) 1:09:45 – Closing wisdom and advice for turning 40 Full episode transcript here: https://docs.google.com/document/d/15Rl5nBjcfgmEqUZTRPi2p22AYMQkV3KG_W43xKYNtOE/edit?usp=sharing [https://docs.google.com/document/d/15Rl5nBjcfgmEqUZTRPi2p22AYMQkV3KG_W43xKYNtOE/edit?usp=sharing]  Love the show? Please leave a rating and review! It helps other listeners find Landline. Connect with Mary: * Website: www.marymmahoney.com [http://www.marymmahoney.com] * Instagram: @mimimahoney [https://www.instagram.com/mimimahoney/?hl=en] * Email: MaryMargaret.Mahoney@gmail.com [MaryMargaret.Mahoney@gmail.com] Connect with Corinne: * Subscribe to Big Undies!: https://www.patreon.com/cw/BigUndies [https://www.patreon.com/cw/BigUndies]  * TikTok: @SelfieFay * Instagram: @SelfieFay * Listen to Burnt Toast: https://www.patreon.com/cw/virginiasolesmith [https://www.patreon.com/cw/virginiasolesmith]  Want even more resources, deep dives, and behind-the-scenes context on this episode's topics? Patreon members get access to my exclusive newsletter with extended research, additional links, and insights that didn't make it into the show. You can get the weekly newsletter when you join for free. Paid members get a monthly bonus episode and a weekly newsletter of things I'm loving in pop culture. Become a Patreon member → https://www.patreon.com/cw/MaryMahoney [https://www.patreon.com/cw/MaryMahoney]  Sponsor Message:  Landline is sponsored by Libro.Fm [http://libro.fm]. Listen to your favorite books and support your local bookstores! (Link: https://tidd.ly/40tPrKb [https://tidd.ly/40tPrKb] )  ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

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