"I want to fix our relationship, my other half doesn't think anything needs to change"

The “halfway open” trap

If one of you wanted an open relationship and the other was hesitant so you compromised by being partway open—some things are allowed, some aren’t and it’s not quite as open as one of you would like while being frustrating or scary for the other… I got you. In this episode, we’ll look at the (very understandable) reasons couples open up partway as well as the SPECIFIC challenges that come along with that arrangement and what to do about them (it’s different challenges than a more fully open one). Partway open, open-ish, monogam-ish, monogamous with some exceptions, an occasional hall pass… whatever you call it, we’re diving into it. LIVE WORKSHOP ANNOUNCEMENT:  Join me Tuesday August 11 at 6pm Eastern for “Open & Closer Than Ever: Build an open relationship with more intimacy, hotter sex & none of the dread around the ‘hard’ conversations” Register for free at thisisbgm.com/workshop [http://thisisbgm.com/workshop] WANT TO GET STARTED SOONER? I have one last spot for private coaching open for right now. If you may be interested in that, learn more and schedule a free next steps call where I will come up with a personalized recommendations for you at https://thisisbgm.com/private-coaching/ [https://thisisbgm.com/private-coaching/] (yours to keep whether we end up working together or not). Connect with Brian on Instagram: @ThisIsBGM [https://www.instagram.com/thisisbgm/] (Feel free to DM with any questions you have!)

Can non–monogamy last long term? “What if he finds someone better?”

We’re facing some common open relationship/polyamory fears head-on: what if he finds someone “better?” What if it’s all fun now, but our open relationship becomes a problem later? We’ll confront worries about commitment, jealousy, and whether opening a relationship could get in the way of a deeper future together. You’ll learn the unexpected REAL issue that most often comes up. As well as some key ways open relationships can actually deepen your relationship. LIVE WORKSHOP ANNOUNCEMENT:  Join me Tuesday August 11 at 6pm Eastern for “Open & Closer Than Ever: Build an open relationship with more intimacy, hotter sex & none of the dread around the ‘hard’ conversations” Register for free at thisisbgm.com/workshop [http://thisisbgm.com/workshop] WANT TO GET STARTED SOONER? I have one last spot for private coaching open for right now. If you may be interested in that, learn more and schedule a free next steps call where I will come up with a personalized recommendations for you at https://thisisbgm.com/private-coaching/ [https://thisisbgm.com/private-coaching/] (yours to keep whether we end up working together or not). Connect with Brian on Instagram: @ThisIsBGM [https://www.instagram.com/thisisbgm/] (Feel free to DM with any questions you have!)

How open relationships create more intimacy

Here’s a dynamic I see all too often: wanting an open relationship but not being sure how to do it well, maybe worried it’ll mess up your relationship. Or in an open relationship but tolerating and not thrilled about it. What if the open part of your open relationship could actually be a that brings you closer together and is a source of joy not tension or frustration? Whether that sounds like a dream or entirely unbelievable, this episode is for you. I’m sharing parts of my personal story along with what I’ve seen in the dozens of clients I’ve worked with to help cast a vision for how your relationship could be even more expansive and meaningful. LIVE WORKSHOP ANNOUNCEMENT:  Join me Tuesday August 11 at 6pm Eastern for “Open & Closer Than Ever: Build an open relationship with more intimacy, hotter sex & none of the dread around the ‘hard’ conversations” Register for free at thisisbgm.com/workshop [http://thisisbgm.com/workshop] WANT TO GET STARTED SOONER? I have one last spot for private coaching open for right now. If you may be interested in that, learn more and schedule a free next steps call where I will come up with a personalized recommendations for you at https://thisisbgm.com/private-coaching/ [https://thisisbgm.com/private-coaching/] (yours to keep whether we end up working together or not). Connect with Brian on Instagram: @ThisIsBGM [https://www.instagram.com/thisisbgm/] (Feel free to DM with any questions you have!)

Leaving for a hookup while your husband is home?

Can you leave for a hookup while your partner is at home? If you find yourself open in theory but not so much in practice, than this episode is for you. I’ve identified three reasons why that could be. In this episode, I’ll share them all along with a fix for each. If you see yourself in any of these 3 scenarios, DM or email me and let me know which ones! I always love hearing from friends and listeners. I read everything myself and will respond personally with some suggestions. LIVE WORKSHOP ANNOUNCEMENT:  Join me Tuesday August 11 at 6pm Eastern for “Open & Closer Than Ever: Build an open relationship with more intimacy, hotter sex & none of the dread around the ‘hard’ conversations” Register for free at thisisbgm.com/workshop [http://thisisbgm.com/workshop] WANT TO GET STARTED SOONER? I have one last spot for private coaching open for right now. If you may be interested in that, learn more and schedule a free next steps call where I will come up with a personalized recommendations for you at https://thisisbgm.com/private-coaching/ [https://thisisbgm.com/private-coaching/] (yours to keep whether we end up working together or not). Connect with Brian on Instagram: @ThisIsBGM [https://www.instagram.com/thisisbgm/] (Feel free to DM with any questions you have!)

What to do with new crushes in an open relationship

What do you do when you start to develop feelings for new connections in an open relationship? A listener wrote in: “I've found sex with other people most enjoyable when there's an emotional connection or intense sexual chemistry. And I've had that with maybe with 3 people so far. It's not love. It's just a connection. And sometimes a yearning to see these people again. To know them better. How do you deal with these feelings? At times it feels like a crush.” In this episode, you’ll learn a non-monogamous framework to help you contextualize these feelings as well as practical advice on what to talk with your current partner about as well how to decide on a path forward with these new connections. Free tool referenced in this episode: Commitment Clarity Checklist: thisisbgm.com/clarity [https://thisisbgm.com/clarity/] LIVE WORKSHOP ANNOUNCEMENT:  Join me Tuesday August 11 at 6pm Eastern for “Open & Closer Than Ever: Build an open relationship with more intimacy, hotter sex & none of the dread around the ‘hard’ conversations” Register for free at thisisbgm.com/workshop [http://thisisbgm.com/workshop] WANT TO GET STARTED SOONER? I have one last spot for private coaching open for right now. If you may be interested in that, learn more and schedule a free next steps call where I will come up with a personalized recommendations for you at https://thisisbgm.com/private-coaching/ [https://thisisbgm.com/private-coaching/] (yours to keep whether we end up working together or not). Connect with Brian on Instagram: @ThisIsBGM [https://www.instagram.com/thisisbgm/] (Feel free to DM with any questions you have!)