Episode 15: Forgiveness Without Access

Your Worth is Not Your Relationship Status (Single is Not a Disease Series : Episode 4)

When People begin to measure themselves by attention, by who is showing interest, by who is staying, and by who is not yet present, slowly their emotional stability becomes tied to external validation. But Ephesians 1:6 reminds us that we are accepted in the Beloved, which means acceptance is already established in Christ, not something you are trying to earn through relationships. And when that truth is not settled, relationships begin to carry emotional weight they were never designed to carry. Thank you so much for joining me today on the podcast. I trust this episode has encouraged, challenged, and equipped you in your walk with Christ. For more resources, books, and digital tools, visit my Selar store. You can also connect with me on social media at @fredaidahosaajayi. If this episode blessed you, please take a moment to subscribe, follow, like, and share this podcast with others. It really helps us reach more people and supports the podcast’s growth through the platform analytics. Thank you again for listening. Until next time, stay encouraged, keep growing in grace, and remember that God is for you.

Q&A 23/5/26

What a wonderful Question & Answer session we had on Relationship Talk with Freda this past week. So many thoughtful and insightful questions were asked. One of the most interesting questions was: “Should I go back after a breakup?” I shared two possible scenarios and perspectives around that question, and the conversation was truly enlightening. It is definitely an episode worth listening to. Follow @fredaidahosaajayi on social media for more relationship wisdom and faith-based insights. You can also get my resources on my Selar store https://selar.com/m/fredaajayi and Amazon. Don’t forget to follow, like, and share this podcast with your family and friends so they too can become part of the Relationship Talk with Freda community. Blessings!

You Are Not Behind in Life (Single is Not a Disease series: Episode 2) + Q&A

You are not behind in life. It may feel that way when you see others reaching milestones, relationships, weddings, or career success while you are still waiting. But comparison distorts reality. God does not write every story the same way, and purpose is not a competition. In this episode, we discuss comparison, trusting God’s timing, and embracing your current season without fear or anxiety. If this episode blesses you, my books and faith-based relationship resources are available on my Selar store:https://selar.co/m/fredaajayi Thank you for listening and sharing this podcast. God bless you.

You Are Not Broken Because You Are Single (Single is Not a Disease Series : Episode 1) + Q&A

People start rushing into relationships not because they are ready, but because they are tired of feeling like they are “waiting too long.” They start settling, not because they want less, but because fear becomes louder than wisdom. But God does not lead people through fear.

10 Reasons Why That Breakup Was Not That Bad and Q&A

Sometimes what felt like a loss was actually God’s protection, redirection, and an opportunity for growth. Healing may not feel easy, but not every ending is bad. Here are 10 reasons the breakup was not so bad. Resources mentioned: https://selar.co/m/fredaajayi https://selar.com/theinsidejob https://selar.com/breakupwellbyfredaidahosaajayi Breakups can be one of the most challenging experiences in life, filled with emotional turmoil and uncertainty. However, when approached with grace and dignity, they can also become a profound opportunity for personal growth and healing Social media: @fredaidahosaajayi Thanks for listening, till next time remember love grows best when it flows from wholeness in Christ. Grace and peace to you.