The Cost of Telling What You Survived: Before Your Story Goes Public | Talk With TAS

Reclaiming Your Voice: Finding Your Purpose After Years of Self-Doubt | Talk With TAS

Have you spent years doubting yourself, staying quiet, putting everyone else's needs first, or wondering why confidence never seems to last? Have you finally started finding your voice but still struggle with knowing your purpose, trusting yourself, or stepping fully into who you were created to be? In the final episode of Reclaiming Your Voice, Dr. Teresa A. Smith, Dr. TAS, welcomes Dr. Velma Bagby for a conversation about finding your purpose, building confidence, overcoming self-doubt, authentic leadership, self-worth, spiritual growth, and what happens after you stop living for other people's approval. Together, they discuss people-pleasing, fear of success, imposter syndrome, leadership confidence, purpose, calling, authenticity, humility, and the responsibility that comes with living in alignment with your values and convictions. Many people spend years searching for confidence when the deeper issue is identity. They seek approval, avoid risks, question their abilities, and hesitate to use their gifts because they fear rejection, criticism, or failure. This conversation explores how confidence grows when people stop seeking permission from others and begin trusting who they are becoming. Challenges can become opportunities for growth when we choose to learn from them. Reclaiming your voice is not simply about speaking louder. It is about speaking honestly about your experiences, trusting your values, and making decisions that reflect who you truly are. Growth continues when we stop hiding behind expectations and take responsibility for how we show up in our relationships, careers, leadership roles, and everyday lives. If you struggle with self-doubt, people-pleasing, confidence, finding your purpose, imposter syndrome, leadership challenges, fear of failure, spiritual growth, self-worth, or trusting your own voice, this episode is for you. Thank you for joining us for the Reclaiming Your Voice series. Until next time, take care of you. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/talk-with-tas-show--6128538/support [https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/talk-with-tas-show--6128538/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss]. Thanks for listening to Talk With TAS with Dr. Teresa A. Smith, also known as Dr. TAS. Through conversations with authors, experts, educators, entrepreneurs, faith leaders, and community leaders, Talk With TAS connects stories, expertise, and opportunities that inspire learning, growth, and new possibilities. Prefer to watch instead of listen? Catch full video episodes and exclusive conversations at: https://www.talkwithtas.com/ [https://talkwithtas.com/] Follow Dr. TAS for daily encouragement, personal growth insights, emotional wellness conversations, and transformation content: Dr. TAS YouTube Channel  [https://www.youtube.com/@DrTAS] Dr. Teresa Smith Instagram  [https://www.instagram.com/drteresasmith/] Teresa Smith Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/teresa.smith.98871] Dr. Teresa A. Smith aka, Dr. TAS Blog [https://officialdrtas.com] Follow, subscribe, and leave a review to support the show and help more people discover stories, expertise, and opportunities that encourage learning, growth, and new perspectives. Share this episode with someone who could benefit from today's conversation and the lessons, exper

Reclaiming Your Voice: Stop Waiting for Permission to Be Yourself | Talk With TAS

Do you wait for approval before sharing your ideas, using your gifts, starting a project, or speaking up? Have you ever talked yourself out of an opportunity because you were afraid of criticism, rejection, or not getting it right? In Episode 3 of Reclaiming Your Voice, Dr. Teresa A. Smith, Dr. TAS, welcomes Dr. Velma Bagby for a conversation about seeking validation, perfectionism, self-doubt, creativity, confidence, and what happens when people spend years waiting for permission to become who they already are. Together, they explore why so many people hold back their voice, delay their dreams, question their abilities, and look to others for approval before taking action. They discuss perfectionism, fear of failure, creative blocks, storytelling, writing, self-expression, healing, and how creativity can become a pathway back to identity and purpose. Many people believe confidence comes before action. In reality, confidence often develops after we take the first step. This conversation examines how external validation can become a barrier to growth and why personal authorship begins when we stop waiting for permission and start trusting our own voice. Challenges can become opportunities for growth when we choose to learn from them. Reclaiming your voice requires speaking honestly about your experiences, embracing imperfect action, and recognizing that your story, perspective, and creativity have value even before anyone else validates them. If you struggle with self-doubt, perfectionism, fear of failure, creative blocks, confidence, people-pleasing, seeking approval, writing, storytelling, or finding your voice, this episode is for you. Take care of you! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/talk-with-tas-show--6128538/support [https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/talk-with-tas-show--6128538/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss]. Thanks for listening to Talk With TAS with Dr. Teresa A. Smith, also known as Dr. TAS. Through conversations with authors, experts, educators, entrepreneurs, faith leaders, and community leaders, Talk With TAS connects stories, expertise, and opportunities that inspire learning, growth, and new possibilities. Prefer to watch instead of listen? Catch full video episodes and exclusive conversations at: https://www.talkwithtas.com/ [https://talkwithtas.com/] Follow Dr. TAS for daily encouragement, personal growth insights, emotional wellness conversations, and transformation content: Dr. TAS YouTube Channel  [https://www.youtube.com/@DrTAS] Dr. Teresa Smith Instagram  [https://www.instagram.com/drteresasmith/] Teresa Smith Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/teresa.smith.98871] Dr. Teresa A. Smith aka, Dr. TAS Blog [https://officialdrtas.com] Follow, subscribe, and leave a review to support the show and help more people discover stories, expertise, and opportunities that encourage learning, growth, and new perspectives. Share this episode with someone who could benefit from today's conversation and the lessons, exper

Reclaiming Your Voice: When Self-Silencing Starts Costing You More Than Speaking Up | Talk With TAS

Do you struggle to speak up at work? Do you find yourself people-pleasing, avoiding conflict, staying quiet in meetings, or second-guessing what you really want to say? Have you ever felt burned out from constantly filtering yourself to fit the expectations of others? In Episode 2 of Reclaiming Your Voice, Dr. Teresa A. Smith, Dr. TAS, welcomes Dr. Velma Bagby for a conversation about workplace stress, self-silencing, confidence, authenticity, boundaries, leadership pressure, and the hidden cost of suppressing your voice for too long. Together, they explore what Dr. Bagby calls "corporate laryngitis," a condition many people experience without realizing it. Whether in the workplace, family relationships, leadership positions, or faith communities, many people learn that staying quiet feels safer than speaking honestly. Over time, that silence can affect confidence, creativity, decision-making, communication, and emotional well-being. This conversation examines people-pleasing, self-censorship, workplace culture, burnout, leadership challenges, and the emotional fatigue that comes from constantly editing yourself to gain acceptance or avoid criticism. Reclaiming your voice begins with awareness. Before change can happen, we must first recognize where we have been shrinking ourselves, suppressing our thoughts, or choosing compliance over authenticity. Speaking honestly about our experiences creates space for confidence, clarity, healthier boundaries, and personal growth. If you struggle with speaking up at work, setting boundaries, people-pleasing, workplace burnout, confidence, leadership stress, self-censorship, or finding your voice after years of silence, this episode is for you. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/talk-with-tas-show--6128538/support [https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/talk-with-tas-show--6128538/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss]. Thanks for listening to Talk With TAS with Dr. Teresa A. Smith, also known as Dr. TAS. Through conversations with authors, experts, educators, entrepreneurs, faith leaders, and community leaders, Talk With TAS connects stories, expertise, and opportunities that inspire learning, growth, and new possibilities. Prefer to watch instead of listen? Catch full video episodes and exclusive conversations at: https://www.talkwithtas.com/ [https://talkwithtas.com/] Follow Dr. TAS for daily encouragement, personal growth insights, emotional wellness conversations, and transformation content: Dr. TAS YouTube Channel  [https://www.youtube.com/@DrTAS] Dr. Teresa Smith Instagram  [https://www.instagram.com/drteresasmith/] Teresa Smith Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/teresa.smith.98871] Dr. Teresa A. Smith aka, Dr. TAS Blog [https://officialdrtas.com] Follow, subscribe, and leave a review to support the show and help more people discover stories, expertise, and opportunities that encourage learning, growth, and new perspectives. Share this episode with someone who could benefit from today's conversation and the lessons, exper

Reclaiming Your Voice: The Voice You've Been Using May Not Be Yours |Talk With TAS

Welcome to Reclaiming Your Voice, a limited series hosted by Dr. Teresa A. Smith, Dr. TAS, exploring identity, authenticity, self-worth, and what it means to rediscover who you are after years of people-pleasing, self-silencing, and living according to other people's expectations. In Episode 1, Dr. TAS is joined by Dr. Velma Bagby to discuss a question many people never stop to ask: What if the voice you've been using isn't really yours? Many people spend years adapting to family expectations, workplace culture, church environments, leadership roles, and survival strategies. Over time, they become successful at meeting expectations while losing connection with their authentic selves. Together, Dr. TAS and Dr. Bagby explore self-silencing, identity confusion, people-pleasing, authenticity, emotional wellness, self-discovery, and the hidden cost of living from performance rather than purpose.  The conversation examines how identity becomes shaped by outside influences, why reclaiming your voice often feels uncomfortable, and how awareness becomes the first step toward meaningful change. Challenges can become opportunities for growth when we choose to learn from them. Reclaiming your voice begins by speaking honestly about your experiences rather than hiding behind titles, roles, expectations, or survival patterns. Real change begins when we acknowledge what is no longer working.  If you have ever felt like you've lost yourself, struggled to speak up, questioned your identity, battled people-pleasing, or wondered who you are beneath the roles you play, this episode offers insight, reflection, and encouragement for the journey ahead. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/talk-with-tas-show--6128538/support [https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/talk-with-tas-show--6128538/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss]. Thanks for listening to Talk With TAS with Dr. Teresa A. Smith, also known as Dr. TAS. Through conversations with authors, experts, educators, entrepreneurs, faith leaders, and community leaders, Talk With TAS connects stories, expertise, and opportunities that inspire learning, growth, and new possibilities. Prefer to watch instead of listen? Catch full video episodes and exclusive conversations at: https://www.talkwithtas.com/ [https://talkwithtas.com/] Follow Dr. TAS for daily encouragement, personal growth insights, emotional wellness conversations, and transformation content: Dr. TAS YouTube Channel  [https://www.youtube.com/@DrTAS] Dr. Teresa Smith Instagram  [https://www.instagram.com/drteresasmith/] Teresa Smith Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/teresa.smith.98871] Dr. Teresa A. Smith aka, Dr. TAS Blog [https://officialdrtas.com] Follow, subscribe, and leave a review to support the show and help more people discover stories, expertise, and opportunities that encourage learning, growth, and new perspectives. Share this episode with someone who could benefit from today's conversation and the lessons, exper

Faith Matters: Growth Requires More Than Desire | Talk With TAS

Talk With TAS is a personal transformation and emotional wellness podcast featuring healing conversations about faith, resilience, discernment, leadership, spiritual growth, and navigating life with greater clarity, courage, and intention. In this episode of the Faith Matters limited series, Dr. Teresa A. Smith, Dr. TAS, and Dennis Perkins explore preparation, personal growth, leadership, faith, and the emotional and spiritual responsibility that often comes before elevation, visibility, and greater opportunity. Through honest life conversations and spiritual growth reflections, this episode unpacks why many people desire growth, expansion, success, and influence without fully considering what those next levels will require emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and relationally. Dr. TAS and Dennis discuss discernment, discipline, leadership, character development, sustainable growth, emotional maturity, responsibility, faith-based decision-making, and how preparation protects both the individual and the people connected to them. This healing conversation also explores hustle culture, burnout, leadership pressure, emotional wellness, spiritual grounding, identity, self-awareness, and the importance of building inwardly before pursuing outward success. If you are navigating leadership growth, spiritual development, emotional exhaustion, career transitions, visibility, faith, purpose, or searching for clarity during seasons of change and expansion, this episode offers grounded wisdom, reflective insight, and practical encouragement for the journey ahead. Dennis Perkins books are available here: https://amzn.to/4e76v0N [https://www.amazon.com/stores/Dennis-J-Perkins/author/B082ZZPG9P?qid=1777260105&sr=1-3&shoppingPortalEnabled=true&ccs_id=ec32419e-5a0a-4fdb-97ae-2bbbd705cbcc&linkCode=sl2&tag=drtas07-20&linkId=3323604e17515ed1b235012e5b12d96b&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl] #affiliatelink Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/talk-with-tas-show--6128538/support [https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/talk-with-tas-show--6128538/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss]. Thanks for listening to Talk With TAS with Dr. Teresa A. Smith, also known as Dr. TAS. Through conversations with authors, experts, educators, entrepreneurs, faith leaders, and community leaders, Talk With TAS connects stories, expertise, and opportunities that inspire learning, growth, and new possibilities. Prefer to watch instead of listen? Catch full video episodes and exclusive conversations at: https://www.talkwithtas.com/ [https://talkwithtas.com/] Follow Dr. TAS for daily encouragement, personal growth insights, emotional wellness conversations, and transformation content: Dr. TAS YouTube Channel  [https://www.youtube.com/@DrTAS] Dr. Teresa Smith Instagram  [https://www.instagram.com/drteresasmith/] Teresa Smith Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/teresa.smith.98871] Dr. Teresa A. Smith aka, Dr. TAS Blog [https://officialdrtas.com] Follow, subscribe, and leave a review to support the show and help more people discover stories, expertise, and opportunities that encourage learning, growth, and new perspectives. Share this episode with someone who could benefit from today's conversation and the lessons, exper