The Pineapple Express: A Millennial’s Guide to Love, Sex Positivity, Non-Monogamy, Polyamory & Swinging

Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2069880/open_sms] In this episode of The Pineapple Express, I sit down with Serenity Cox — former ER nurse turned erotic content creator and hotwife lifestyle influencer — to explore her dramatic transformation, boundary-pushing relationship models, and how she’s rewriting the rules of desire and consent. We discuss: * Her journey: from nursing in emergency care to filming and sharing intimate moments with her partner and the world * The hotwife lifestyle: what it really means, negotiation, consent, and dismantling stigma * How she handles judgment, shame, and the emotional terrain of non-monogamy * The crossover between erotic content, empowerment, and relational authenticity * What sustaining desire looks like long-term, and how she envisions what’s next for her work If you’ve been curious about ethical non-monogamy, erotic publication, or how to align your interior desires with your relational life — this one’s for you. Featured Guest Serenity Cox (Canada) — a content creator known for her evolution from ER nurse to high-profile erotic performer. She entered the adult content world through her “hotwifing” experiences and now works with major studios (such as Vixen Media Group) under exclusive contracts. She’s emerged as a bold voice in conversations about consent, relational transparency, and redefining erotic agency. Wikipedia+2 [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serenity_Cox?utm_source=chatgpt.com] Amazon Music+2 [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serenity_Cox?utm_source=chatgpt.com] You can find her website here: serenitycox.ca Wikipedia [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serenity_Cox?utm_source=chatgpt.com] She’s active on Instagram, OnlyFans, and through her content platforms. worldwidecelebpodcast.com+2 [https://worldwidecelebpodcast.com/serenity-cox/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] Amazon Music+2 [https://worldwidecelebpodcast.com/serenity-cox/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] * Episode in Grade A Nation where she shares her journey: “From Catholic School to Pornhub Award Winner — Serenity Now” https://music.amazon.com/es-us/podcasts/ad4254b4-e236-4f02-b974-9bb9deeb11ca/episodes/efeb7ec3-1499-4f33-9050-455e643e4732/grade-a-nation-e170-from-catholic-school-to-pornhub-award-winner-%E2%80%93-serenity-now-with-serenity-cox?utm_source=chatgpt.com Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2069880/support] 🎙️ The Pineapple Express Podcast Subscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. [https://thepineappleexpresspodcast.substack.com/] 💡 Events & Coaching * Coaching sessions: Book time with me. [https://www.consciousloveconnections.net/] 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. [https://ncsfreedom.org/] OPEN's Free Peer Support Group [https://www.open-love.org/peer-support] 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game * FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now [https://myfirmtech.com/kileygeorge] and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. * SENSE Sho [https://hey-sense.com/?sca_ref=6858348.Kxj9knsIE4]p | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection [https://hey-sense.com/?sca_ref=6858348.Kxj9knsIE4] and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. * Sultry Vixen Dancewear [https://thesultryvixen.com/] | Exotic Outfits | Shop here [https://thesultryvixen.com/] and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. * 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2069880/open_sms] In this episode, Kiley explores how Parts Work, most commonly associated with Dr. Richard C. Schwartz’s Internal Family Systems (IFS) model, can transform your experience of polyamory and consensual non-monogamy. You’ll learn how to identify your inner Managers, Firefighters, and Exiles, and how to lead from your calm, compassionate Self — even in the middle of jealousy, fear of abandonment, or metamour conflict. We’ll also connect these tools to Jessica Fern’s Polysecure, showing how parts work can help you earn secure attachment both within yourself and with your partners. Plus, Kiley shares her own journey of meeting protective and wounded parts with curiosity and compassion instead of reactivity. Referenced Resources & Books: * No Bad Parts — Richard C. Schwartz * Internal Family Systems Therapy, Second Edition — Richard C. Schwartz & Martha Sweezy * Polysecure — Jessica Fern * Self-Therapy — Jay Earley * Free IFS meditations — IFS-Institute.com [https://ifs-institute.com] * Jay Earley’s Parts Work Exercises — SelfTherapy.org [https://selftherapy.org] Whether you’re new to parts work or deep into your own IFS journey, this episode offers practical tools for emotional regulation, self-compassion, and building security in the beautiful complexity of polyamory. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2069880/support] 🎙️ The Pineapple Express Podcast Subscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. [https://thepineappleexpresspodcast.substack.com/] 💡 Events & Coaching * Coaching sessions: Book time with me. [https://www.consciousloveconnections.net/] 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. [https://ncsfreedom.org/] OPEN's Free Peer Support Group [https://www.open-love.org/peer-support] 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game * FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now [https://myfirmtech.com/kileygeorge] and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. * SENSE Sho [https://hey-sense.com/?sca_ref=6858348.Kxj9knsIE4]p | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection [https://hey-sense.com/?sca_ref=6858348.Kxj9knsIE4] and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. * Sultry Vixen Dancewear [https://thesultryvixen.com/] | Exotic Outfits | Shop here [https://thesultryvixen.com/] and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. * 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2069880/open_sms] In this episode, Kiley sits down with Jack Bohannan from Polarity Unscripted to explore one of the most talked-about — and often misunderstood — relationship dynamics: the anxious–avoidant attachment pairing. Drawing from her own past relationship (where the answer to “can it work?” felt like a definite no), Kiley brings a candid, real-world perspective to the conversation, while Jack offers his deep expertise on polarity, emotional intimacy, and secure relating. Together, we break down: * Why anxious and avoidant partners are so often drawn to each other * The core fears each style brings into the relationship * What it actually takes to make this pairing work (and when to walk away) * How to shift from triggering each other to co-regulating each other * Practical tools for healing your attachment style — whether you’re dating, nesting, or exploring non-monogamy This episode blends attachment theory, , and Jack’s signature polarity framework to give you actionable steps you can use in your own relationships — no matter your style. 📌 Find Jack Online: * Website: https://jackbohannan.com [https://jackbohannan.com] * Instagram: https://instagram.com/polarityunscripted [https://instagram.com/polarityunscripted] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@PolarityUnscripted [https://www.youtube.com/@PolarityUnscripted] If you’ve ever wondered whether anxious and avoidant partners can build something lasting — or if you’ve lived the highs and lows of this dance yourself — this is the episode you don’t want to miss. Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off  https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game [https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2069880/support] 🎙️ The Pineapple Express Podcast Subscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. [https://thepineappleexpresspodcast.substack.com/] 💡 Events & Coaching * Coaching sessions: Book time with me. [https://www.consciousloveconnections.net/] 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. [https://ncsfreedom.org/] OPEN's Free Peer Support Group [https://www.open-love.org/peer-support] 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game * FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now [https://myfirmtech.com/kileygeorge] and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. * SENSE Sho [https://hey-sense.com/?sca_ref=6858348.Kxj9knsIE4]p | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection [https://hey-sense.com/?sca_ref=6858348.Kxj9knsIE4] and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. * Sultry Vixen Dancewear [https://thesultryvixen.com/] | Exotic Outfits | Shop here [https://thesultryvixen.com/] and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. * 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2069880/open_sms] The Damage of Decolonizing Love & Black Polyamory: Tiffany @RealPolyLife on Race, Community & Swinging  Join us for a powerful conversation with Tiffany (@RealPolyLife [https://www.instagram.com/realpolylife?igsh=MTRhYWg4Yngwd3h5Zg==]) https://www.instagram.com/realpolylife?igsh=MTRhYWg4Yngwd3h5Zg== [https://www.instagram.com/realpolylife?igsh=MTRhYWg4Yngwd3h5Zg==] a Black polyamorous educator and influencer, as she unpacks the complex intersections of  race, and intimate relationship structures within the polyamory and swinger communities. We dive into how the not so well-meaning efforts of 'decolonizing love' can inadvertently cause harm, especially for Black women navigating ethical non-monogamy. In this episode, you'll hear about: * The tensions between polyamory, race dynamics, and swinger culture in communities of color. * Stories and insights from Black women in poly to broaden understanding and visibility. * Tiffany’s work in centering Black voices in polyamorous narratives via her platform RealPolyLife. * Resources such as: * Black & Poly, a culturally rich poly blog/community designed to foster connection and honest discussion in Black-centered polyamorous spaces YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FgO4DyzXXl8&utm_source=chatgpt.com] * Therapy for Black Girls Session 182, featuring Ruby B. Johnson—a polyamorous Black queer therapist—who addresses stigma, communication, and tools for ethical non-monogamy Therapy for Black Girls [https://therapyforblackgirls.com/2020/11/18/session-182-consensual-non-monogamy/?utm_source=chatgpt.com]. * * Psychology of Black Womanhood entry “Black Women & Polyamory”, spotlighting Dr. Jenn M. Jackson’s research on the experiences and challenges of Black women in poly relationships Psych of Black Woman [https://www.psychologyofblackwomanhood.com/post/polyamory?utm_source=chatgpt.com] * * Online communities like Black & Poly™ and Black Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2069880/support] 🎙️ The Pineapple Express Podcast Subscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. [https://thepineappleexpresspodcast.substack.com/] 💡 Events & Coaching * Coaching sessions: Book time with me. [https://www.consciousloveconnections.net/] 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. [https://ncsfreedom.org/] OPEN's Free Peer Support Group [https://www.open-love.org/peer-support] 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game * FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now [https://myfirmtech.com/kileygeorge] and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. * SENSE Sho [https://hey-sense.com/?sca_ref=6858348.Kxj9knsIE4]p | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection [https://hey-sense.com/?sca_ref=6858348.Kxj9knsIE4] and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. * Sultry Vixen Dancewear [https://thesultryvixen.com/] | Exotic Outfits | Shop here [https://thesultryvixen.com/] and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. * 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2069880/open_sms] Let’s talk about the thing no one wants to admit: sometimes we say yes to non-monogamy not because we want to—but because we’re afraid to lose someone we love. In this episode, we dive deep into the term “tolyamory” (coined by Dan Savage), the danger of choosing open relationships out of fear instead of desire, and how to tell if you’re actually aligned with non-monogamy… or just tolerating it. We’ll unpack: * The red flags of “tolyamory” * Why consent isn’t just a checkbox—it’s a felt sense * How to check in with your nervous system before saying yes * What to do if your partner wants non-monogamy and you don’t * How to reclaim your voice, your boundaries, and your truth—even when it’s hard Whether you’re the one asking or being asked to open up, this episode is for you. Let’s stop calling it love when it’s really fear. 💔➡️💖 DAY OF VISIBILITY EVENTS  https://www.eventbrite.com/e/3rd-annual-day-of-visibility-for-non-monogamy-picnic-in-the-park-tickets-1398059807519 [https://www.eventbrite.com/e/3rd-annual-day-of-visibility-for-non-monogamy-picnic-in-the-park-tickets-1398059807519] https://www.weekofvisibility.com/ [https://www.weekofvisibility.com/] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2069880/support] 🎙️ The Pineapple Express Podcast Subscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. [https://thepineappleexpresspodcast.substack.com/] 💡 Events & Coaching * Coaching sessions: Book time with me. [https://www.consciousloveconnections.net/] 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. [https://ncsfreedom.org/] OPEN's Free Peer Support Group [https://www.open-love.org/peer-support] 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game * FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now [https://myfirmtech.com/kileygeorge] and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. * SENSE Sho [https://hey-sense.com/?sca_ref=6858348.Kxj9knsIE4]p | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection [https://hey-sense.com/?sca_ref=6858348.Kxj9knsIE4] and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. * Sultry Vixen Dancewear [https://thesultryvixen.com/] | Exotic Outfits | Shop here [https://thesultryvixen.com/] and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. * 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...